9DPO, anyone else?

[RunningOnHope]

Hi all, just trying to ride out the last few days of this 2WW without going mad! Anyone else around 9DPO and want to join me?

I'm due on Weds, which would be 11DPO. Last two months I've had slow but steady build up of spotting over two or three days before AF. So yesterday when I had a tiny bit of spotting in the morning, I thought that was it. But nothing since then, even when it feels like I must be coming on, it's only normal white/clear CM. So I can't help wondering if it was implantation... but only time will tell!

Tested tonight, BFN. Obviously. Hoping it was just too early...

Hey @RunningOnHope, I am 6dpo so a couple of days behind you.

Fingers crossed for implantation, do you have any other symptoms? What cycle are you on?

Only symptoms I have is I'm knackered and a have been having a few twinges/pinches low in my stomach.

xx

Hi @MrsYan, cycle 4 here, so it's not been ages at all, but very ready for it to work now! How about you?

No symptoms but I'm taking that as good because the last couple of months I've had all sorts that I thought were symptoms and turned out to be AF symptoms (or in one case, aches because I'd exercised - clearly don't do that often enough to recognise it! [embarrassed] So hoping no news is good news!

Hi @RunningOnHope

I'm 10 DPO , and having some pulling / twinge sensations on right hand side of tummy for most of the day .. did a test but way too early 🤦🏼‍♀️ couldn't resist though! Needless to say BFN!
This TWW is really dragging . Fingers crossed it's our month x

Hiya I'm 10dpo today.had a mmc back in June and a mc in August so feeling a little anxious but will test on Thursday and see what happens I guess. Babydust to you all. Xx

Hi @honeybee1986, isn't it just? Twinges sound positive though.... I woke up with a bit of crampy feeling, don't know how to take it. Still no spotting, could be good or bad sign!

Welcome @Emlem86, so sorry about your MCs, that must have been hard to have two so close together. Really hope things go better for you from here on.

Anyone testing today or too soon? I'm going to wait til tomorrow when AF will be due and I'll be 11DPO - have to buy then today and resist the urge tonight!

I'm 9dpo and like you I don't have a 14day second stage. I wait for missed period though as tests are expensive 😂

@Emlem86 I'm in the same boat as you - 1 miscarriage and 1 mmc in the past year. I haven't tried since my last in June as I needed to give my head some space. It's such a nerve racking feeling now though. I hope you're okay ❤️

Fingers crossed for everyone 😊

AF is due on Saturday so I'll test then as I've waisted a few already! Typical it's my Xmas party at work that day 🤦🏼‍♀️

No spotting either yet so don't know if implanted or not !
I'd be very nervous as also had a mc in January last year at 10 weeks it's taken this long to even think about trying again .
Hope you all have a good day x

@SunDance21I should have waited, I just got excited as I've never even had chance to test before - spotting usually begins by 8 or 9DPO, so when it hadn't started by the end of 9, I thought I'd crack out a test for the novelty!

Sorry you've also had miscarriages, @honeybee1986 and @SunDance21, it must make things just that bit more nervy for you... have you got good distractions today? I'm working but hoping to get a bit of Christmas shopping done later (as well as buying the tests and leaving them right at the bottom of my bag out of temptations way!).

Well. Bought the tests and then started spotting this afternoon. I am guessing that's me out.

@RunningOnHope I'm the same as you!! Spotting normally starts CD23 or 9DPO. Twice it's gone into pregnancy but then miscarriages unfortunately. Short cycles of 26/27 days.
Im currently 9DPO and I'm convinced I'm experiencing implantation. I hope your spotting is a sign of implantation 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@honeybee1986 it's awful isn't it... no one really talks about the mental trauma a miscarriage can cause when TTC. I hope you're feeling a little more yourself now x

@RunningOnHope luckily works quite busy and it's a busy week this week! I think the only thing it's really done is stopped my POS obsession as I'm way to scared to find out I'm actually pregnant. It's an experience I really wouldn't wish on anyone at all.

Spotting is a sign of pregnancy for 30% of women so don't count yourself out yet!

I don't have short cycles, mine are usually 30 days but the second phase is only 11. I worry that's part of the cause of my previous miscarriages...

I hate the TTW. It's so long and stressful 😂

So sorry have been so busy today. I feel so bloated and just feeling like AF will be here soon. Will test in the morning see what happens I guess. Xx

Sorry I have been at work today so busy but great for distracting and not grabbing for a test 😆
I feel so bloated today and cramps I think my period is on its way , but now it's gone away !

Sorry to hear some of you have had MC too , it's just horrible , I was 11wk 5 days with the last one , just before the scan .

Hope all had a good day x

How's everyone getting on?

I had somewhere between spotting and light bleeding from Tuesday evening through yesterday, but this morning it's just clear CM again. I am 99% sure it's just slower build up and will be full AF by this afternoon but every wipe with no blood gives this little bit of hope... Its torture!

@RunningOnHope I am having the exact same as you .. when is your period due ?
It is torture isn't it !

@RunningOnHope oh sorry you mentioned it was Wednesday. That's a good sign if you haven't got AF yet . Have you tested ?

@honeybee1986 well yesterday I thought it was AF bang on time, but it didn't get stronger really. I'd test if still nothing more by tonight but I really think it will start up again soon! Have you tested at all?

How are you getting on @Emlem86? Did you test yesterday or decide to wait?

@RunningOnHope hey I'm ok I've been feeling really sicky and just mega bloated.

I did a test last night and this morning both have lines but I'm being cautious because of what's happened before.

Hope everyone else is ok 😊 I may be off the radar for a few days as my youngest son is having major surgery on weds I had a call yesterday so timing isn't the best but at least I'll be busy. Xx

@RunningOnHope I tested this morning on one of the cheapie tests but it was negative . On and off brown spotting so I'm just going to wait and see if it turns in to AF - pretty sure it will tbh!
If you were due yesterday there is lots of hope!

@Emlem86 hope your son is ok 😘

Well that's me out , AF came last night with a vengeance 😪 good luck all ! X

@honeybee1986 huge hugs 💗 xx

How's everyone doing? Xx

Anyone manage to get there BFP?
Wishing everyone the best 😘 x x

Nope, AF just coming to an end thank god! Fresh starts for everyone getting BFN x