Hey everyone,
I am new to Mumsnet and can I join the chat please? Would be great to have your support and share our experience here. It's such a difficult process both mentally and physically.
We had a failed 1st cycle with ABC London last year and are just about to finish the 2nd cycle. I am 34, AFC 31, so have some PCO, low BMI so high risk of OHSS and had to freeze all with both cycles.
First cycle, 19 eggs collected, 15 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 13 day 3 embryos and mostly grade 1 8 cells, and then told NONE of them made it through to blast on day 5/6. Transferred the only day 3 embryo they saved earlier on, chemical pregnancy. They said we have server male factor and recommended donor sperm.
2nd cycle with donor sperm, 14 eggs collected, only 6 fertilized with IVF, all 6 were grade 1 embryos on day 3, then again only 1 made to day 5 which is a 4CC. TBH I didn't have a great feeling from the start as the fertilization rate is low that usually indicates immature eggs and I don't have any 8 cells embryos this time. Should be arranging FET this week but I haven't and am not convinced it will stick at all.
So in total 33 eggs and out of 18 grade 1 day 3 embryos, only 1 4CC blastocyst!
I was told by Create up to day 3 is more egg issue and between day 4 and 5 is more sperm issue but our results from two cycles are not much different and still no good quality blastocyst even with perfect donor sperm. It says on Create's lab report to me below 35 years old, it's 40-60% blast rate and we are like 0-20%. They also told me at the beginning of the 2nd cycle that they wanted to reduce the number of eggs collected to improve the quality, though I did have fewer eggs this time, the quality is actually a lot worse than last time. So not sure if there is any actual science behind or I am just very unlucky......
@Millymillymillymillymilly
Do you mind I ask what do you think of CRGH so far? I actually had a consultation with their consultant after the 1st cycle for a 2nd opinion but decided to give ABC 2nd go since we decided to go with donor sperm ( I thought we are going to be an easy case but I am totally wrong!) CRGH has a lot more injections/medications and also have to down regulation before start stimulation while the process is a lot easier and shorter with ABC. Also heard we will have injections and blood tests even for FET. Plus the nurses at ABC are really nice.
With CRGH cycle, would you say the quality of blastocysts is better than the ones with ABC cycle?