TWW 13 dpo bfn | Mumsnet

Flowerpot564 · 2021-10-31T17:52:33+00:00

Hi, as the title states im 13 dpo and still testing negative. I have had vivid dreams for the past few nights and weird stomach pains, more like twinges. I really thought i was pregnant this month, i had a miscarriage in June which turned out to be a molar pregnancy. So kinda put all my hope into this. Am i out? should i stop testing and just wait for AF now. thanks x

Bundaberg84 · 31/10/2021 20:19

Well you're not out until AF showed up right? Are you tracking your ovulation? I track mine with CB fertility monitor but even then I can't be sure if I ovulated 12 or 36h after first peak reading si I could be 1 or 2 dpo off, if that makes sense?

HRHXO · 31/10/2021 21:14

Hi! I'd wait for AF and test again but you're not out until AF shows! I'm 8dpo and stupidly tested this evening with an Internet cheapie at 8pm and obviously it was BFN. Going to test again at 10dpo I think... Good luck!

Hopingforarainbow27 · 31/10/2021 22:24

Hi! Can I join in? I have had two miscarriages the last one in July and I’m currently in the tww! I don’t think we dtd at the right time though but I have had twinges on my left side and am really tired! Sending love to you as we journey through ❤️

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Flowerpot564 · 01/11/2021 05:25

Hi guys, thanks for the replies! I was on letrozole this cycle as I have pcos and went for some tracking so ovulation was defo confirmed 14 days ago. Saying that, a few days after i had LOADS of sticky white discharge TMI. So i was like am i ovulating again, I was on holiday so didnt take no opks. I did a test this morning and again BFN. I have the worst lower back pain, and on&off cramp, hate waiting😔
hope we all get BFPS❤️

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 01/11/2021 06:19

Does lots of discharge mean ovulation? A few days ago I had loads of white lotion type discharge then I’ve been dry after that! Why can’t it just be straightforward! I’m on cd 26!

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Flowerpot564 · 01/11/2021 12:20

@Hopingforarainbow27

Does lots of discharge mean ovulation? A few days ago I had loads of white lotion type discharge then I’ve been dry after that! Why can’t it just be straightforward! I’m on cd 26!

I think its different types mean different things, its all so confusing😬

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 01/11/2021 12:50

Keep me posted how you get on! ❤️

IsabelHerna · 01/11/2021 14:33

Do not get disappointed just yet! You're not out until AF has come. keeping everything crossed for you!

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Flowerpot564 · 01/11/2021 15:48

Yeah you're right, just a waiting game now x

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LH1987 · 01/11/2021 16:17

Hi @Flowerpot564, I too am 13DPO today and tested and it is BFN. I am symptom spotting like crazy but I am sure a lot of them are in my head ! I think I am probably out for this month, which is sad but I must remember to be more patient!

I’ll keep my fingers crossed for good news for you!

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Flowerpot564 · 01/11/2021 19:29

@LH1987

Hi *@Flowerpot564*, I too am 13DPO today and tested and it is BFN. I am symptom spotting like crazy but I am sure a lot of them are in my head

! I think I am probably out for this month, which is sad but I must remember to be more patient!

I’ll keep my fingers crossed for good news for you!

I know exactly how you feel! Im just more worried the letrozole hasnt worked and my periods will disappear for months which can happen😓 really just hope this month is the month even though it looks very unlikely x

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 02/11/2021 11:40

Hi everyone. How are you all today? Has anyone tested again?

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Flowerpot564 · 02/11/2021 12:05

Hey, im good thanks how are you? YES STILL BFN AND NO PERIODS😔 x

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 02/11/2021 12:25

Hi! Still no period, took a mommed test last night and think I have line eyes. I have no idea how many dpo I am so I’m trying to wait until Friday 😩 I’ve sane symptoms as my two other pregnancies only no sore boobs this time.
When is your period due? Mine range from 30 to 35 so it’s hard to know

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Flowerpot564 · 02/11/2021 21:31

@Hopingforarainbow27

Hi! Still no period, took a mommed test last night and think I have line eyes. I have no idea how many dpo I am so I’m trying to wait until Friday 😩 I’ve sane symptoms as my two other pregnancies only no sore boobs this time. When is your period due? Mine range from 30 to 35 so it’s hard to know

I keep imagining lines😬 well my periods are always so irregular so i toom norethisterone to start it and then went on letrozole to help me ovulate which it apparently 'worked'. So she said 2 weeks from now you'll be preggers or on your period and literally NEITHER. So i dont think its worked, have to wait till end of week and then email them x

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 02/11/2021 22:13

Aw I hope you get your answers soon. Have you ever tried Chinese herbal medicine? I would recommend looking into it 💜

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Flowerpot564 · 02/11/2021 22:25

@Hopingforarainbow27

Aw I hope you get your answers soon. Have you ever tried Chinese herbal medicine? I would recommend looking into it 💜

thank you❤️ no never looked into it, thanks for mentioning it defo something I need to check out x

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 02/11/2021 23:07

I’m the biggest skeptic and I tried it after looking into it and my cycles completely changed. I had long cycles with severe pain and now I have healthy cycles, no pain and no pms. I started it after my miscarriage so I’m hoping I can get pregnant and sustain a pregnancy now 🤍

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Flowerpot564 · 03/11/2021 07:01

@Hopingforarainbow27

I’m the biggest skeptic and I tried it after looking into it and my cycles completely changed. I had long cycles with severe pain and now I have healthy cycles, no pain and no pms. I started it after my miscarriage so I’m hoping I can get pregnant and sustain a pregnancy now 🤍

Thats so good, what kind of stuff did you take? I really need something that will sort my cycles out, its all just so depressing! I really hope you get your positive this month❤️

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 04/11/2021 16:15

Herbal medicine, came in powder form then had some in tea and then foot soaks as well! They can tell a lot from looking at your tongue, mine had inflammation underneath which meant inflammation in my womb! Now it’s healthy in colour etc and my cycles have changed!

Have you tested again?

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Flowerpot564 · 04/11/2021 19:17

@Hopingforarainbow27

Herbal medicine, came in powder form then had some in tea and then foot soaks as well! They can tell a lot from looking at your tongue, mine had inflammation underneath which meant inflammation in my womb! Now it’s healthy in colour etc and my cycles have changed!

Have you tested again?

Ooo sounds good, need to research it! Yes NEGATIVE again, even though my temp has stayed high all week at like 37.2 - 37.4 degrees. I honestly dont know whats going on but ive lost hope now. What about you? any good news?

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Hopingforarainbow27 · 04/11/2021 22:45

Aw :( I’m on cycle day 30 tomorrow, I feel like I’m not pregnant now so feeling rubbish the last two days. I feel like I would have had a faint positive by now. I really thought I was because of the twinges and tiredness. I guess not!
Well there is always next month and we can both go into that together! I find this experience very isolating

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Flowerpot564 · 05/11/2021 05:48

@Hopingforarainbow27

Aw :( I’m on cycle day 30 tomorrow, I feel like I’m not pregnant now so feeling rubbish the last two days. I feel like I would have had a faint positive by now. I really thought I was because of the twinges and tiredness. I guess not! Well there is always next month and we can both go into that together! I find this experience very isolating

Yeah i feel exactly the same, hopefully next month is our month! Yeah 100%, it gets upsetting at times because its like no one understands how you feel x

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