Remember remember the month of November as it’s the month I’m getting pregnant 🎉✨

[Mummytobe93]

Hello everyone ✨🎉

I’m starting a November thread after being unsuccessful this month, got some spotting so probably cycle day 1 for me today, with fertile window being in the first week of November.

Please join me if you’re as hopeful about fresh cycle as I am!

My main goal is to DTD more, we definitely didn’t make the most of it in October …
I’m therefore going to be 100% honest with DH that we need to get down to business this cycle.

PS. Hope you like the title 🙈😂😂

Xxxx

Morning 🌸

How’s everyone?

I’m so sorry to hear about your losses @Missy95 @Brunette1989 ! It’s so incredibly difficult, there’s probably not much I can say to make it better other than I KNOW you’ll get your rainbow miracles very soon!

@Squiff70 I know right, it’s nice knowing you’re on a break from fertile window DTD schedule 😂

6DPO today, I slept like a log! I was quite irritable yesterday, but to be fair I’ve got good reasons to because of work.
I’m also experiencing slower down digestion, I don’t think it’s a constipation just yet but it’s definitely less regular. My BBT shifted nicely too.

Maybe to give this thread a little kick, I’ll copy something I’ve seen in a different thread and we can have a testing calendar🗓 I know many of us are due to test in the next 7 days - if you’re, just put your date and how many DPO you’re going to be testing at🙂

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11-
15/11-
16/11-
17/11-

Have a lovely day guys ! Xxx

Gosh, I’m so sorry to hear about all your experiences ladies. I can’t imagine how hard that has been, and really respect your resilience in coming through that. This ttc thing is no joke; it really does make you realise how important it is to have spaces like this where you can talk to other women about what you are going through and have that support. My heart goes out to all of you, and I wish everyone on this thread the best of luck with their journies.

@Squiff70 thanks so much, that’s interesting; I just had in mind that I was way too early for anything to actually mean anything at this stage! In terms of testing, I want to wait until at least af date, which would be early next week. Ideal, I’d like to wait until that weekend. Partly because I want DH to be home whatever the result (and know I’ll struggle to concentrate on work following either a bfn or a bfp) and partly because I don’t track ovulation so think waiting a bit longer is probably prudent to give the best shot of an accurate result. So I probably still have about 11 days to wait still!! 😱

I’m in the beginning of the tww (4dpo) and I already know I’m out this month. 😩
Spotting in the last 4 days , which is too long for ovulation spotting and its too early for implantation. I know I said I won’t BBT after O, but just wanted to be sure so I was planning to stop this morning, but the routine got me to do it. Temp dropped under coverline, had a terrible night sweat last night, I even needed to change my pyjamas which is always a sign for af.
I got my covid vaccine just a week before O so I was expecting changes but this is going to be the shortest cycle ever in my life. So now just waiting af to arrive, call the clinic and start the new chapter (IVF) in this journey.

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11-
15/11-
16/11-
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO

Great idea @Mummytobe93!!

@Dobcaty I’m sorry sweet, did you ever have spotting this early? If that’s the case and you’re indeed unsuccessful this cycle (though I really think it’s still too early to tell - maybe check your BBT one last time tomorrow morning to see if it goes back up?) I wish you all the best on your IVF journey 💕

@Peonies94 thanks, it’s stolen from a different thread but I just thought it’s a good idea to keep track and keep our fingers crossed when the time comes 😀

Ok I really try to do the sensible thing and test once I'm overdue, but who am I kidding. So that would be Sunday 14th, and then I'm 15dpo.

Wow I admire your strong will @Bundaberg84 !

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84
15/11-
16/11-
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84. @Nikkic2123 at 13dpo (I’m not a tester, AF due)
15/11-
16/11-
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO

Nikkic2123

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84. @Nikkic2123 at 14dpo (I’m not a tester, AF due)
15/11-
16/11-
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO

@Mummytobe93 yeah yeah, let's just wait if I hold out until Sunday ;)

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84. @Nikkic2123 at 14dpo (I’m not a tester, AF due)
15/11-
16/11- @Squiff70 11DPO
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO

Morning all, anyone else hoping for a ‘one hit wonder’ miracle this month?! (We only got to DTD once as my ovulation surprised me at CD9! 😱)

I can absolutely confirm there will be no symptom spotting over the next week, as I have read ovulation on CD9 likely means an immature egg, and the chances of becoming upduffed from just one shag are very low at my age anyway.

I wasted a fortune on FRERs last month, which all had a visible grey second line on them fresh out of the packet. So that’s definitely not happening again this month either!

2DPO today. I usually spot before my period, anywhere from 10DPO. So I guess I’ll do one test next Tuesday on 9DPO and then wait for AF to arrive.

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84. @Nikkic2123 at 14dpo (I’m not a tester, AF due)
15/11-
16/11- @Squiff70 11DPO, @Decaffe 9DPO
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO

@Decaffe

Morning all, anyone else hoping for a ‘one hit wonder’ miracle this month?! (We only got to DTD once as my ovulation surprised me at CD9! 😱)

I can absolutely confirm there will be no symptom spotting over the next week, as I have read ovulation on CD9 likely means an immature egg, and the chances of becoming upduffed from just one shag are very low at my age anyway.

I wasted a fortune on FRERs last month, which all had a visible grey second line on them fresh out of the packet. So that’s definitely not happening again this month either!

2DPO today. I usually spot before my period, anywhere from 10DPO. So I guess I’ll do one test next Tuesday on 9DPO and then wait for AF to arrive.

Definitely hoping for a one hit wonder here! My ovulation estimate shifted and my one year cock blocked us for most of the fertile week so we have today to make it work. Swear the kid knows he's going to have to share attention and is doing his best to stop it . Good job he's cute haha

Also it doesn't necessarily mean immature egg does it? I assumed the egg wouldn't be released until it was mature but now you've got me wondering!

Hi All!

I'm out for this month. I will be taking a small break and will see if I'll join December thread (but I hope you won't be joining me there and November is successful for you all!).

I think I have to take a step back and stop obsessing a bit. Everything will happen in its own time.

Best of luck to all 🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀

@Mummytobe93 oh that's a good idea. I'm currently 8dpo but wanting to hold off until at least 14dpo - AF should be due that day going by app. Normally comes first thing so will see.

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84. @Nikkic2123 at 14dpo (I’m not a tester, AF due)
15/11- @BH1926 14DPO
16/11- @Squiff70 11DPO, @Decaffe 9DPO
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO

I wasn't sure when I was going to test so I will add mine to the blank one haha

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84. @Nikkic2123 at 14dpo (I’m not a tester, AF due)
15/11- @MindZGap
16/11- @Squiff70 11DPO, @Decaffe 9DPO
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84. @Nikkic2123 at 14dpo (I’m not a tester, AF due)
15/11-
16/11- @Squiff70 11DPO, @Decaffe 9DPO
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO @Coco9910 (AF due)

Hope it’s okay that I added myself on, AF is due on the 17th and I’m going to try and not test beforehand.

@mummytobe93 I’m the same dpo as you and I’m experiencing the same regards to digestion! This is TMI (sorry!!) but I’ve been really gassy the last couple of days but not needing to go to the toilet. I’m really trying not to read too much into things though 😂🙈

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84. @Nikkic2123 at 14dpo (I’m not a tester, AF due)
15/11- @MindZGap
16/11- @Squiff70 11DPO, @Decaffe 9DPO
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO @Coco9910 (AF due)

Sorry just reposting as it was posted above me, which I didn’t see, so don’t want to miss anyone or 😊

Love this

Will see if I can make it to 11DPO before POAS!

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84. @Nikkic2123 at 14dpo (I’m not a tester, AF due)
15/11- @BH1926 14DPO
16/11- @Squiff70 11DPO, @Decaffe 9DPO @Whitfields09 11DPO
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO

10/11 -
11/11 -
12/11- @Mummytobe93 at 9DPO
13/11-
14/11- @Bundaberg84. @Nikkic2123 at 14dpo (I’m not a tester, AF due) @Glago2017 16DPO
15/11- @MindZGap
16/11- @Squiff70 11DPO, @Decaffe 9DPO
17/11- @Peonies94 9DPO @Coco9910 (AF due)

I am not a tester either, I always get really nervous so I would rather just test once if AF has not arrived by then. Sending baby dust to all and I can't wait to hear about lots of bnp's 🤞🤞