TESTING TRAIN!! Who else is with me?

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So I'm looking for ladies who are nearing the end of their cycle, will be testing soon, and want to support each other!😁

As an intro: Hi! Im 23 and on month 2 of TTC #1, I'm currently on CD30 of a 32 day cycle. Exciting things to note for this month are that on CD27 I experienced a gush of bright red blood and have had nothing else since so I'm thinking this could be implantation! Also, for the past 2 days my cervix has been high and soft so I'm taking this as a very good sign!

How is everyone else doing?😁

@Mrslight Sorry to hear about your BFN

No real update from me, brown spotting started Friday morning and stopped Saturday night, then came back Monday night and stopped now. Always brown and very very light, never blood or anything so I'm really confused. Testing on Friday with FMU but not very hopeful.

Hope everyone else is doing okay.

@Mrslight ah don't worry too much, as people have been reminding me on here, you're not out until AF shows!😂

@PinkFizz1 Brown blood is old blood, nothing fresh, it's looking good for you! I'll also be testing on Friday, 12 days after potential imp bleed, 3 weeks after potential ovulation but I'm not hopeful. My cervix has suddenly hardened up and I'm getting af style cramps so I'm betting she'll be making an appearance soon, if she does then I'll be super wrong about my ovulation date lol

Tested this morning as we’re planning on having wine tonight. BFN.

For someone that said she was going to try properly after Xmas (and in reality, don’t really want to be pregnant before Xmas) I’m actually quite disappointed. Need to keep reminding myself that it’s early days.

Now I don’t know whether to take the couple of days of brown spotting as a withdrawal? Hopefully it was, then I might be a bit closer to knowing when my AF will come. I was going to log my ovulation in the Flo app, but don’t know whether to log the spotting as a withdrawal or just wait for my first proper AF. 🤷🏻‍♀️

@PinkFizz1 I also tested this morning on a cheapie because I'll be having drinks tonight, and also received a BFN I know it's very disappointing getting negative if you really want a baby, no matter the circumstances. Just got to be positive and not allow it to consume your life (like I am lol)
I'm pretty sure my AF will be starting soon, I don't feel pregnant at all. I just wish I knew when as I'm not enjoying constantly thinking it's started and running to the toilet to check

So I've just examined Flo to try and guess when AF will be arriving. The last time I had spotting was on the 10th of October which is potentially the day I ovulated (DTD 3 days before so not super hopeful if that's the case), I also had lots of watery CM around that time (although none on the day I DTD😤).

However, a couple of days later, on the 13th, I had small amounts of slightly stretchy CM. Not mega stretchy and it was very light but there was definitely some stretch to it, which makes me think maybe I ovulated then? If that's the case I am 100% not pregnant. FFS this TTC business is so difficult and frustrating... Wish I knew what was going on with my body