Implantation?

[tryingforbabyh]

Hi all just looking for some experiences here! I know no one can tell me what the outcome will be for me and I know implantation bleeding is rare but just looking to see if anyone else has ever experienced what I have atm and what the outcome was. I am 31, TTC baby number 1; cycle 11 and never even had a hint of a BFP before. My cycles are regular at 27-29 days. This month I had 4 days of flashing faces using the cb digital advanced ovulation tests and then my peak static face on day 13 so estimate ovulated on day 14 (I usually ovulate between 14 and 16). I am 9 DPO today and today and yday I have had brown sort of sludgy discharge on and off - mainly when wiping. I've had one bit of more reddy brown but again when wiping not flowy enough to make it to my underwear. My boobs are killing (although not massively unusual for me) and I have very light on off tummy cramps. Could this be implantation bleeding? I'm sure it would be too good to be true and trying not to get hopes up. Told myself I am not testing early as I am struggling with the disappointment of constant BFNs. I normally spot maybe a day or two days max before AF but never 6 days early?! Thanks for any experiences!!

Ah it does sound positive if it's out of character for you 🤞🏼 Fingers crossed this month is your month!

I'm in a similar boat, I'm currently 14DPO and two days ago when I wiped I had slight brown discharge but nothing since! I only usually get it literally just before AF 🤞🏼

Sounds positive OP good luck!
I am currently 7 DPO and in TWW. It is so difficult but worth it.

Thanks both! It seems to have stopped now but I'm sure now I've said that I'll wake up to a full period (although hopefully not!!!) just don't know what else causes a period this early

Another day of browny discharge and one spot of red...I wish I could just know what's causing it!! (Or if it's my period that it would just get on with it) can implantation bleeding last 3 days?!

6 days of spotting in the end and now finally picking up to a more proper period I think. Another failed cycle, onto number 12 ... never thought I'd be here with no BFP

So sorry you are feeling like that @tryingforbabyh this is such a tough journey. Come and speak to us whenever you need it

Don't give up. Do you track your ovulation via an app? Maybe it's not accurate and you could be ovulating late. Have you tried the wee strips?

I really thought this might be the month and I had actually had no spotting from yday morning till about 3pm today. Red blood has started now though. I've been doing the OPKs for ages now. I use the clear blue ones and get 4-6 flashing faces with my static face on day 13-15. Have had basic SA for OH, FSH, LH, AMH and oestrogen done for me and they are all fine. Getting sat 21 bloods done this month. Please could cycle 12 be lucky - it feels like a milestone now

Sorry OP. AF always has a way of messing with us when we need it the least.

In case it helps for the future - I'm my long months of trying I always hoped my brown spotting was implantation. Was always my period

The two times I was actually pregnant - I had one singular wipe of pink blood about 10DPO and nothing else.

Good luck for next month. I know it can feel like a long old slog 🤞🏻

How often are you having sex around fertile days?

I found fertility friend a great help to track bwcUae I could actually visualise the months in / see a pattern and know the days to have sex before I got my positive OPK too.

Although in the end I did have IVF that was unrelated. Tracking really helped me feel more in control but I know for some it can seem all a bit too much

We probably start BDing from CD8 ish and have done various combinations of every day and every other day from the first flashing face. Like to aim for every day in the 2-3 leading up to O day but doesn't always happen. On a combination of vitamins too. Genuinely don't know what more we can do and yet you see the stats for falling within 12 months...