🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

I thought that too. They will see me next week - Thursday which feels like a long wait for check up and early scan. That's also my booking in appointment with midwife.

In that case, it definitely sounds like they are fobbing you off Spotsmama. I know it's not the point, but could you book a private scan for your own peace of mind?

Feeling numb tonight tomorrow would of been my due date please tell me this gets easier 10 days until surgery emotional wreck xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 I feel the same way. My due date would have been this Wednesday. :( and I started spotting tonight so yet again another failed cycle 😢 it just sucks so badly.

@kiwi17 so sorry lovely it's awful isnt it i hope you're ok and have plenty of support I feel empty tonight I am due to have my surgery in 10 days too I have had the worst week going and can't see it getting any better xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 it is. I'm sorry you're feeling like that and nerves for your op won't be helping. Hope the days pass quickly for you and that it goes as well as it can. Yeah having support is important, not many people know it would have been due this week so no-one will really say anything and I know DH is struggling with it too. I guess I naively hoped I'd be pg again before the due date :(

I'm thinking of you both, kiwi17 and Sweetbabydust1989. Due dates are such difficult milestones, and as you say Kiwi especially when you are not pregnant again, yet. Sorry AF kicked in right now - that really is a kick in the teeth. I absolutely have everything crossed for you both that positive things happen really soon.

Morning, sorry you're having a tough time. I don't think it gets easier you just somehow find a way of living with it. Dates and important times such as mothers day seem to be the worst.
Xox

@sweetbabydust1989
@kiwi17
Awww Big hugs to yous girls due dates r the worst but it does get easier you never forget just learn to cope 💚💚
I have a due date coming up for baby lost at end of Jan to so 3 months out of 12 I have 4 due dates 28th May for first loss 3 of June my birthday for 2nd loss 5th of june for 3rd loss and 19th of Oct for 4th loss, hate my birthday now 💚

@Babyghirl that's so hard especially on your birthday :( it is rubbish and I was not thinking about it too much but dh was and now it's set me off again. Plus the bulbs we planted for it back in march will start to flower soon so as much as that's a nice memory it will be sad to see them I think.

@kiwi17
It's tough you will get through it maybe go out for dinner or a wee take away and a movie,

I have fell pregnant the last 3 Septembers now September is here I have just ovulated I think so we will c lol.

Hi ladies :) 12dpo, bfn and spotting so onto another month 💩💩💩

@kiwi17 @sweetbabydust1989 sorry to hear your due dates were recent, it's always tough 💕

@babyghirl mine is june 3rd due date too 💕

Sorry I've been quiet guys, found the wait from my scan to be too hard to be sociable.
Scan today at 8+6 and despite there being a heartbeat 2 weeks ago it's now stopped. Got my ERPC booked for Friday. Devastated

@peanuttyButter I am so sorry for your loss lovely, that's heartbreaking ♥️♥️♥️

We are here If you want to cry, angry rant etc etc xxx

@PeanuttyButter I’m so sorry you are going through this. Like @Annny27 says we are here for you.

@Annny27 so sorry the witch is looking like she about to make her appearance. x

@PeanuttyButter I am so so sorry. Nothing I saw will help but just know you are not alone and we know exactly how you feel and how hard you are finding this. Xox

I'm so sorry @PeanuttyButter 😢

Thanks guys, i know I'm not alone. I've had a few 'well at least you know you can get pregnant" comments but that's not the point is it. What's the point in getting pregnant if it's not going to result in a baby. Id rather have BFN than have a brief BFP. Probably means I won't be pregnant by my first miscarriage due date too.

Oh PeanuttyButter, I am so sorry. I totally get what you mean - not getting pregnant would probably be less painful that being given hope and having it snatched away. Take care of yourself and best wishes for Friday. As everyone else has said, we're here for you.

@PeanuttyButter I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Life can be so cruel at times sending you lots of love xxx

I'm around 7dpo and 4 days away from the dreaded period if she comes! Just sat at work and I've just lightning vag! Really bad. Anyone had this. Googled and said it could be early pregnancy but god knows

@PeanuttyButter
So sorry to read this take care of yourself and remember we r all here for you.💚

@Annny27
Well r angels r prop celebrating together.💚

Cd16 for me today and if I relax anymore I will fall over. Nice dinner on pull pork burgers for oh getting home from work.

So due date day is nearly over and I'll be glad to see the back of it. Obv at kicked in fully this morning so it's been a gutting day full of emotional and physical pain so that's great. It's just the worst even though I know how lucky I am to have our little girl and am clinging tight to her today ❤ I hope everyone else is keeping their chins up x

Thinking of you this evening kiwi17.

Fingers crossed apwilso.

I hope the relaxation helps Babyghirl

@kiwi17
Big hug from me💚

@miscarriage39
Thank you 💚