🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

@Kelb79 hello hun how was the holiday?? I am ok 6 and half weeks now but worrying as I am having loads of cramps trying to think positive but can't do hard xx

@Kelb79 faint line last night but possibles flooded test done FRER and I know there notorious for indents so truthfully I think I'm out! Even so the lines would be far too faint at this point if I was I think!

Attached picture so extremely faint probably can't see it!

Ahhahaha he very put the work in!

Hi ladies,

I am having faint positives on hpt since yesterday. Tbh it is quite shocking given the situation. In a good way. Just dont wanna get my hopes up because i have a lot of cramping and periods pains so not sure if this is a chemical or not.
Will keep posted.

@SunnySideUp2020 sending you love and best wishes. Keep us all updated. Fingers crossed for you x

@SunnySideUp2020 that's exciting! Are they showing on camera? Fingers crossed x

Thank you @apwilso

Yes a little

It s just all this back ache and cramping 😞 it definitely wasnt like this with ny DD....
Told DH this morning and he said well definitely positive tests but also doesnt wanna get excited in case it doesnt progress.
He also thinks the very frequent breastfeeding will probably make it fail :(

There is definitely something there for sure! I wouldn't worry too much about the cramping so early on, I always had awful cramps for the first few weeks. Try and be positive, I know it's difficult
Please keep up updated.

Oooooooo good luck @SunnySideUp2020 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Keep us up to date! ❤️❤️❤️

@apwilso any update on your lines?? 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Not sure we’re gonna have the best chance this month… I managed to sneak that BD on first fertile day but in the morning so even less chance and I think OV might be a day later than predicted this cycle …. I gave OH a kick into gear the night before last but he was up late, usually wakes me when he’s got “work to do” but didn’t 🙄 I pinned him down (literally 🤣) yesterday morning and he gave it a go late last night but couldn’t quite see it through 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️ He’s sleeping late this morning and I’m up to teach yoga so I might try to pin him down again when I get back but I think my peak might have been yesterday so we haven’t got much in the bag 🤷🏼‍♀️

Least the TWW won’t be so obsessive!! 🤣🤣

Where are you all at ladies??

@Kelb79 I didn't FRER and it had lines but think it's was indent so saying I'm out! I woke up this morning with a good amount of ECWM which has thrown me off as my fertility monitor said low and I'm only on day 11 which is early for me. I've come off conceive plus as I think it has messed up my cycle since I've been on them aka delaying them nearly 5 days which I'm not irregular and I've not seen that discharge since I went on it!

@Kelb79 I hate when OV delays when it's all planned out!

How's everyone else doing?

@Kelb79 that's frustrating isn't it. It only takes once though remember that! Could all be perfect. My second BFP happened on a month that we didn't DTD much. Got my peak on the Sunday, DTD that day. Didn't on the Monday and I had a USS Tuesday to say I had a follicle that would be released in the next 24h DH didn't want to DTD again but it didn't matter.

@apwilso also having ewcm right now...
Weird.
Maybe test again?

Afternoon ladies:)

I am cd9, haven't dtd yet.... going to dtd tonight and then Sunday night. (cd11) ...having to really plan it this month as I am having a smear on Tuesday 9am which is cd13 and ovulation time so basically trying to time it so I dtd about 36 hours before that (Sunday night) and then can dtd right after when I get home (sexy 🤣🤣). As nhs says no sex for 24- 48 hours before it.

@sunnysideup2020 congratulations lovely 💗💗💗 keep us updated with how things progress - cramping is super normal and breastfeeding won't affect it atall although some have said their babies went off the milk and weaned themselves when they were pregnant so that might happen!

@babyghirl have all the pups gone now then?

@sweetbabydust1989 hope all is well with you and bean! And you too @kiwi17

@apwilso I couldn't see any line lovely so probably just ovulating atm!

@peanuttybutter yep the times we conceived, first time only dtd 3 times in fertile window and 2nd time was only twice in my whole cycle!

@kelb79 have you ovulated now then?

@SunnySideUp2020 oh are you! That's strange. I might do just to make sure😓 so confusing isn't it. How you feeling?

@Annny27 pictures didn't pick up very well but my Asda ones there was a light pink lime but I think there was something wrong on them and the FRER were showing a very faint line but that was more than likely an indent. Do ovulation test and it's negative as well my body is playing tricks!

It's well too early for me to get EWCM as my cycles around around 31 days with conceive plus! So confusing. Weirdest cycle ever!!!!!

@PeanuttyButter yeah - when I conceived we had literally only DTD once on the day of OV (on my birthday!! 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️) so I totally know…. But you just obsess about doing it as much as possible don’t you 🙄 I genuinely think we did it too much last cycle - holiday friskiness 🤣🤣 I don’t think OH’s little guys had time to regen 🙈🙈
I managed to squeeze today in though 👍🏼

@Annny27 gonna LH test in a bit so we’ll see… but I think I’ve probably just OV’d ….
Haha! That is seriously regimented timing!! 🤣🤣 good luck!!! 🤪

@apwilso 😵‍💫😵‍💫 that all sounds super confusing!! Bless you!! I hate things going out of whack!! Like to know where I am at all times!! 🙈

@SunnySideUp2020 cramping and backache definitely not sobering to worry about lovely ❤️ But I totally get that even sneezing can get you worried with the journeys that we’ve all had 🤦🏼‍♀️ Hope you can find ways to relax and enjoy it ❤️❤️

So predicted 1DPO for me but I think that’s probably a day late….. LH testy time then woohoo the TWW 😫😫

@Annny27 I am all good thanks well apart from serve gas pains my stomach is so bloated and bubbly I keep thinking there is something wrong but it's higher up so thinking it's all to go with my digestive system don't remember having this with my boys only one of them I had serve constipation from week 6 so maybe I am having that dreadful symptom again.. I am 7 weeks tomorrow scan on Tuesday to see if there is a heartbeat rather scared about it all... how are you doing?? Xx

@Annny27 I am ok thanks! 17 weeks today and had my 16 week midwife appointment yesterday, I was so so nervous about it as hadn't seen the heartbeat since 12 week scan on Christmas eve. Luckily she found it after quite a bit of searching! Nerve wracking. I'm finding what everyone has said with pg post miscarriage that I just assume after a few days of being reassured that somethings gone wrong again it's worse than I imagined. But I know I'm so so lucky that it finally worked so trying to keep positive! Still read everything here though and fingers crossed for all you ladies 😊

@Kelb79 definitely! I'm so confused. I've just gone to the toilet and there's more! I don't know what to even think. Maybe the tablets I was on have delayed me and now my cycle is now early I'm not sure!

I've planned my boyfriend local next week ready for fertile week hopefully I catch!

I hate the TWW!

Thanks for the reassurance ladies ❤

It seems as if the pains are caused by the breastfeeding... small contractions.

I will test tomorrow and see how it progresses. I ordered some digitals too for sunday maybe if i havent had my periods by then.

This time we only DTD 14th 16th a d 18th and I had peak opks on all those days so not sure when i ovulated but i guess 19th. But yeah only 3 times and with a day in between every time...

Today the test is a little darker... bottom is today top is yesterday.
Arghhh the wait is driving me mad!
I just want to know what's up

Yup, pretty sure I OV’d yesterday…. Got park LH on Thursday, dropped right back down yesterday and got little niggly stabbing pains in my right ovary which I’m pretty sure is OV - had it twice before baseline scans and got OV confirmed on the same side so thinking probably 👌🏼
We managed to DTD on CD6 (probably way to early but last chance of a “made in Egypt” 🤣), CD11 and CD12 with OV on CD12 so hit the best days at least…

I’m so tired this week…. Contemplating today or tomorrow as a final hit?! 🤔 not sure I can quite manage both 🤣🤣🤣

Park LH?? 🤣 *peak

@SunnySideUp2020 oooooi exciting line progression!!! 🥳🥳🥳 love it!!!!!

@SunnySideUp2020 definitely progressing! Amazing news!

@Kelb79 hahahaha you're so funny! Final hit🤣

I've just done the CB monitor showing high today which I'm in shock as it's only day 13 and I've been assuming ovulation was between 17-21 bracket. I haven't tracked until last month and the conceive plus has definitely messed up my cycles as well so feeling hopeful this month!

On that note obviously my pregnancy tests were negative and just nasty indent lines!

Thank you ladies! Now the wait until a heartbeat scan!
We feel so lucky to be pregnant again and hope it sticks
💗💗💗

Ah congratulations @SunnySideUp2020 xxx