🦕🦕 The dinosaur crew - part 8 ttc after mc 🦕🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies,

You know the drill after this long haha! All of us ladies are ttc after miscarriage (whether that's MMC, MC, TFMR, ectopic or CP)

I will tag people in next message :)

It is yeah…..,not heavy, no clots/stringyness, pretty wet - not too thick…..
it could just be AF coming early but 10DPO seems really early - I’ve never been more than a day early 🤔 I’m on CD22 …..

@Kelb79 I had bleeding on cd 14 with my pregnancy (MMC) but I was getting faint positives but that was really heavy was so weird!

😵‍💫 I think it might be AF super early… that’s never happened! 1 day maybe but not 4/5 🤷🏼‍♀️
It went brown and sticky yesterday, really like it would be at the end of AF, then bright red with a single clot (i use a moon cup so can inspect everything 🤣🤣)
But this morning, nothing 🤷🏼‍♀️
I had an evil headache all day yesterday that’s still kicking me a bit today…. I usually get that on the first day of AF so….. 🤷🏼‍♀️
Eurgh! Why do our bodies have to be so confusing??!! 😫😫

@Kelb79 hope it's not AF and just some strange implantation bleeding. I've noticed that pre AF bleeding differs from month to month since my MMCs sometimes I will have nothing until the day before or spotting for days and days. Still got my fingers crossed for you xx

I'm kinda over this TTC feeling a bit negative but need a rant.

I've been trying (which I use loosely as sometimes I tracked and sometimes I just went with the flow!) since November 2020. I got pregnant in April 2021 so quite quick obviously miscarried and still no sign of being pregnant since.

This month was the first month we got ovulation day and week as we were home together but just had some light spotting. I know it could be implantation bleeding and I have had a different experience this month with it all and felt good but since seeing the spotting it's sent my head!!

If I'm not pregnant this month I think I will take myself to the doctors because I'm fed up now 😢

Sorry for the rant

I've had loads of symptoms this month I never normally had like cramping, constipated which is anyone knows me it's 100% nothing like me. How annoying!

Hello ladies :) pre period time for me and she is definitely on the way with bfn today at 11dpo and some brown discharge today as well. Just sick of it tbh, cba with it but ofcourse will never give up!

I am sort of numb to it these days. Just went to see hubby and just said periods on the way and both of us were just like ah okay 🙄

@apwilso 100% it's very all consuming isn't it and is very frustrating to navigate. I would book GP appointment this month and get the ball rolling

@kelb79 oh no way - have you tested? If it's not normal to your cycle it might be implantation!

@sweetbabydust1989 so glad that the scan went well 💗💗💗 when is the next one?

@peanuttybutter I am the same, sometimes no spotting, sometimes a few days!

@babyghirl have you had a date through yet for ivf?

@sunnysideup2020 oooh that's exciting you had a positive opk!!

@Annny27 you got this girl!!! I have my next one tomorrow very scared it's so early still but they wanna check the sac or something won't see much at 5weeks 3 days but hey ho least they're being cautious.. just have mild cramps nothing else.. hoping it's all positive they couldn't see my tubes one the other scan so that's a good sign don't feel pain like last time xx

@Annny27
Received all my content forms by there app so just getting all them sorted and filled out it's all done on line now, I'm crap when it comes to technology to lol 💚

Sorry the bitch is on her way tell her to beat it she's not welcome 😂😂😂😂

@Sweetbabydust1989 omg good luck for tomorrow ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Exciting and terrifying all at once!!!

@apwilso I hear ya lovely! I feel exactly the same!! We started TTC in July 2019 and didn’t get pregnant until August last year. The MC after such a long TTC just killed my hope! But I’ve got to be honest, we started fertility investigations just a couple of months before the pregnancy and i think it helped. It changed my head, helped me to just let go as they were taking control. Get to the GP for sure 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

@PeanuttyButter yeah, I’m still pretty soon after the MC (3 months) so things could still be a bit up in the air I guess. It seemed to settle straight back into my old cycle but you never know!! How are you lovely? Hope you’re feeling a bit more positive ❤️❤️❤️

@Annny27 oh noooo!!! Stay away AF!! Hoping you’re wrong!!! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 I know what you mean though…. AF arriving used to upset me, now I’m so completely numb to it!!

God knows what’s happening to me!! Stopped bleeding completely! Tried BD’ing to bring it on but nothing! CD 25 13DPO so I guess I’ll just have to wait and see!
Flight home just got cancelled 🤦🏼‍♀️ Stressful but I’ve possibly lucked in with an extra couple of nights out here! 🤪 And it stops me frantically testing I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️🤣

@Annny27 I find it upsetting like I've failed and scared of a negative outcome but need to now!

@Kelb79 think I will do. Just waiting to see if AF comes. I'm due on today but got the complete other way with symptoms that are more pregnancy than period so hoping I am but fingers crossed

Thanks both for listening to my rant!

@Annny27
Sorry the b is on the way for you...
And completely understand how tired of it all you are.
What are the next steps for you btw? Are you on a waiting list?

I had an almost positive on Friday it was, but then the same day almost negative one. Yesterday I had a positive in the morning and a real good positive, not like a ok will count as positive 😁🙄
Then in the afternoon was low again...
But today and yesterday been having lower backache and just feeling ovulation pains so we will see.

@Kelb79 sounds promising 🙂

@apwilso
I dont know if it was related or something but it seems like my body took a while to recover from MC. It took us 7 cyes after the MC for another bfp, when initially i got pregnant straight away.

I guess sometimes things just take longer. But i would defo get some checks done for peace of mind. That's what i did quite quickly as I am very impatient..

Started bleeding again, AF for sure this time I think ☹️☹️

@Kelb79 thanks lovely another scan to get through I am really worried for some reason just hope it's more good news.. how are you?? Xx

@Sweetbabydust1989 crossing everything for you chick! 🤞🏼🤞🏼
I’m a bit gutted, body playing tricks with me, can’t deny I got my hopes up a bit, but bleeding again so it’s hit to be AF. Onto yet another month! 😓

@Kelb79 it's horrible I stopped trying and it seemed to have helped i get as shocked to get my BFP as I was was expecting another bfn.. treat it as a fresh month... oh it's scary I am doing them weekly atm I just don't want someone to burst my bubble I am looking at the positives xx

@Kelb79 put it's this was way I am that worried I haven't converted my apps into the pregnancy mode yet I just keep getting notifications telling me I am late 😂🙈 xx

@SunnySideUp2020 I definitely will. I'm just so nervous!

On CD34/13dpo had extremely light spotting when j wipe so think AF is coming. Tests are negative so think I'm out! Think I can see a faint line on a cheapie but think it's wishful thinking

@apwilso
Let us c a photo lol x

Show us! @apwilso

Good luck today @Sweetbabydust1989 !

Annnddd another positive opk for me today.
This is the third one in the last week.
It is driving me mad. After having none, I am now having multiples but always low a few hours later. Today CM also tempted me to do it. A proper mindf*

What is this?!!! My body must be veryyyy confused. I also did a hcg just in case which is obviously negative. 🙄

Well strange thing happened last night cd17 dtd and started to bleed, wtf is going on

@sunnysideup2020
Try temping next month so you can see what is going on.

@Babyghirl it is hard to temp because i sleep with my baby and nurse and wake many many times every night 😐 so i dont think it would be accurate...
But might give it a try!

For the bleeding? Is it brown or red? Have you had a smear test recently??

@sunnysideup2020
Got discharged from the clinic last April as had cin1 cells removed and last smear came back all clear, it was like a pinky colour last night after dtd but abit more brown today norm gow mmy period starts of the first day so will c bit strange only being cd17.

Just an update had the scan and baby is in the right place a visible sac and yolk were seen I am still in shock back in 2 weeks for hopefully a heart beat hope you are all well come on girls we can all do this don't let me be alone 🙈😂 xx