3dpo thread!

[Amy1010101]

Hello, I’m currently (well.. I think!) 3dpo today and wanted to start a thread for anyone in a similar position. I had mild cramping yesterday, which seemed strange for early dpo but I think anything can happen and our bodies do strange things.

Bit of background info for me, I’m 30, currently on month 9 trying to conceive, had a chemical MC last March so hoping for some positivity. 😩

@Amy1010101

I caved and did a test, negative of course. I’m not holding my breath this time though. No real symptoms anymore, only mild sore boobs and nothing else. I feel a bit deflated as this will be going into my 10th month trying. I don’t understand how it’s so hard to conceive, I track my ovulation, I know myself physically when it happens too. We DTD mostly everyday in the window leading up to ovulation and a bit after for luck. Yet nothing except for the Chemical in March. I have regular cycles too. No health or thyroid issues. I’m 30 so don’t know if that’s got anything to do with it?

I’m sad.

I had my DD when I was 39 so I highly doubt your age is anything to do with it.

I'm now into 18+ months. I'm 11dpo and have very obvious AF pains so I am out too. (My age is probably a very big issue).

@Amy1010101 I’m so sorry your feeling sad 😢 sending a hug!

what dpo are you? It’s really hard not knowing why, you’re doing everything right. 10 months is a long time but there’s still hope. I saw a statistic that shows the percentage of how long it takes healthy people to conceive and even at 9months it was only 70 something % and jumped to 92% by 12months. Don’t know if that’s reassuring or not but there’s definitely still time. Maybe take a month out and destress - come back to it after a few weeks??

I caved and did a test this morning and BFN but maybe it’s too early. AF due Saturday. Got come cramps so not feeling overly positive.

Sending love x

@Amy1010101 I'm sending you a big hug! Great advice above from @Hello47. I got a BFN today too at 10DPO. I think all the symptoms I have are sadly in my head.

Lots of love and babydust to all x

Aww @Amy1010101 sorry to hear your sad. I know there’s nothing much I can say to cheer you up as nothing cheers me up once I’m sad! Just don’t give up, that’s all xxx

I’m dpo7 today and I do t feel well. I got tummy ache, lower back ache, very very mild cramping and I am completely shattered and had a good nights sleep as well. I feel so drained with no energy. I am not ‘symptom spotting’ like that I’m just taking note of how I feel. It could just be the weather making me tired and the other stuff I’m pretending is my body getting ready for af in a week 🤣

Aww thank you lovelies. I think I will be taking a break from tracking everything. I just can’t help but worry now. Whenever I bring it up with my partner I find it hard not to feel emotional. He’s super loving and supportive which definitely helps… just wish I was kinder to myself.

Is anyone 8dpo today?
My cm is quite creamy, wet and quite a bit of it (sorry tmi) and cp seems highish and soft still….wondered if anyone knew if this is a sign? Also slightly crampy today but not much and been a bit down in the dumps this afternoon.

I'm 12dpo today and had a bfn this morning so I'm definitely out.

Hi

@Amy1010101 how you feeling today? So glad you have a supportive partner. Makes all the difference!

@SammiStap I’m 8dpo today too! Also feeling a bit cramp and cervix is high & soft which is suppose to be a good sign. Took a test this morning and BFN though so going to try leave for 2 days and retest.

Hello! I’m new. I know that CM and discharge and such arent conductors of telling if you are pregnant or not, but I’m confused on mine and would hopefully like some insight.

3 days my guy and had sex and I am sure he did the deed inside, obviously.. anyway.. the three days leading up to and that day I had slipped super wet, not sticky discharge. The day after I don’t even remember honestly, but yesterday’s was super creamy and lotion like, just like today but it’s also been kinda sticky and clear and lotion like at the same time. From charting, I was to ovulate today.. I don’t always notice when I am. I’m not due for my period until at least the 22nd.. so I’m trying my hardest to put it all together to know MAYBE what to expect. Hopefully someone can help me! Thanks!

And sorry I posted a thread for this too, just seen this and figured I’d ask you all.

@Hello47 oh amazing! Nice to have a buddy. When is af supposed to be due for you? It’s the 13th for me I think. I’ve held off testing and will try too until af comes or not.
My cervix is high I think and feels soft too and got lotiony cm…kind of 🤣

@MamaNeedsBabydust I’m not too sure. Sorry I can’t really help, but the creamy lotion cm might be just before or just after ovulation?

@kirinm your not out until the witch shows up! X

No worries! Thank you for trying though. I’m supposed to ovulate either today or tomorrow. But I keep seeing clumps of white discharge in the toilet when I go..

Little update, I think I’m 12dpo today, haven’t taken a test today, waiting for some to be delivered today. I’m pretty sure I’m out this month. AF is a day late according to my apps. I feel nauseous though but that could be AF doing it’s thang however I ovulated very late this month so my cycle will be all over the place. Boobs are sore still but that’s typical before period. I will let you know what the tests say later or if AF shows up.

Aww @Amy1010101 this is just horrible isn’t it?
I’m quite depressed today as for some reason I just think I’m not pregnant. I’m dpo 9 I think 8/9 anyway, and I feel on and off nausea and got very mild cramping and aches and pains and I’m kind of fed up! I just feel it’s prepping for af next week ☹️

Hi,

@Amy1010101 definitely let us know how you get on testing!

@SammiStap on due 11th. So not long to go. My cycles are short though 24-26days so hopefully it’s not going to become an issue. I feel exactly the same as you, just really down in the dumps, pretty sure I’m out this month

It’s just terrible, I feel like it’s taking over my life and I just can’t go an hour without thinking about something stupid.

I’m 10 dpo today. I feel a lot happier today and more positive. Cm is quite creamy/lotiony with a yellowish tinge to it. Sorry tmi! Very very mild twinge/cramp lower right hip side but not as bad as the last couple days. Time will tell!
Hope your all ok xx

Still waiting for my tests to show up! No AF yet so I think 2 days late. I feel like it’s going to show up soon though, mega mega sore boobs. Only time will tell!

My tests have been delivered but I’m in work! I bet you any money that as soon as I get home AF will show up.. happens every time 😂

@Amy1010101 eeee! Hope it’s a BFP for you.

@SammiStap so glad you’re feeling positive! Sending alllll the positive vibes your way

I’m have a bit of a mare, got a chest infection, on antibiotics and feeling very sorry for myself at home. I’m going a bit mad at home with nothing else to do!!

@Amy1010101 fingers crossed!!!!
@Hello47 aww that’s rubbish!! Hope your all better soon xx

Just took a test, very negative, oh well. I think I’m going to have a break for a few months. I can’t stop thinking about it so be good to have a break for the sake of my sanity. I’ll do another test tomorrow just in case but I’m not holding my breath. Let me know how you all get on!

@Amy1010101 so sorry! Sounds like a good idea, just be care free for a bit. No more peeing on sticks endlessly!

Tested again today still negative. I think I ovulated very late this month as when I was tracking it I got my peak on day 21 which is quite late. So I’m confused.