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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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21 replies

Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 17:02

I have always kepted track of my ovulation always for years now. I had slepted with my ex partner multiple times on the date I was ovulating how ever we then broke up the day after/ this was June the 26-27th the sex happened, I then went and slepted with someone on the 2nd of July now I know 100% I wasn’t ovulating then. I have had a dating scan and I’m 9 weeks and 3 days today, due 26th of March, I’m really upset and stressed about this! I didn’t think about this untill yesterday me and my ex got back together and we’ve been so excited for the baby… I’ve googled everything and I’ve had 3 planned children before this so I know my cycle off by heart

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Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 17:04

I feel it in me that 100% my baby’s father is the 26th of June.. but am also worried incase

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Hopefulhedgehog · 24/08/2021 18:05

Hi OP, How are you tracking ovulation?

54321nought · 24/08/2021 18:07

Conception can be days after ovulation, you won't know without a DNA test

Moominmiss · 24/08/2021 18:09

Unless you’re tracking ovulation by bbt there’s no way of knowing the exact day.

Plus like a pp stated, even if you know you’re exact ovulation date, conception may not occur until a later date.

The dates to me seem too close to call. I would personally not be happy without a DNA test.

Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 18:47

I track it through numerous apps and it's always been on point with my period etc, and my other planned pregnancy's

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Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 18:50

I did speak to my midwife and a didn't go into detail, she just said you can only conceive 12-24hrs after ovulation. My cycle has always been on point and I've always been very good at keeping track of this

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Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 18:51

I also have been tracking by BBT

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Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 18:53

And I always take ovulation tests when ovulating and there always spot on

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Hopefulhedgehog · 24/08/2021 19:03

Seems slightly odd to be tracking ovulation by tests, apps and bbt if you are not TTC? Did you actually track it in June this way? If you did it might be helpful to post your chart or exact dates of positive opk

NoNotYou · 24/08/2021 19:07

Should have kepted your ex at arms length, and now you slepted with 2 men, you can't possibly know who the father is

Hopefulhedgehog · 24/08/2021 19:07

@NoNotYou

Should have kepted your ex at arms length, and now you slepted with 2 men, you can't possibly know who the father is
😂
Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 19:08

I was trying to convince, he wasn't my ex at the time... don't assume please..

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Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 19:09

As I stated we had broke up

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Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 19:10

@Lyla4333

As I stated we had broke up
The day after we slepted together
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NoNotYou · 24/08/2021 19:13

TBH you don't sound old enough to have 3 children. Where were they while 2 different men were over?

Hopefulhedgehog · 24/08/2021 19:13

No one can give you a reliable answer without a DNA test so I think you are going to have to think how you want to proceed at this point knowing there is going to be uncertainty about who the baby’s father is. I hope it works out for you.

Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 19:14

We had been sleeping together weeks prior to this, and days prior to this. The dates I gave in June were the last time I was with him before finding out a was pregnant

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Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 19:15

I'm 24 I have 2 children currently living and 1 still born like I said please done assume

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bg21 · 24/08/2021 19:16

SLEPT !!!

Lyla4333 · 24/08/2021 19:18

@NoNotYou

TBH you don't sound old enough to have 3 children. Where were they while 2 different men were over?
One of these men's is there dad... we broke up and I went out for a night once in 4 year so like a said DONT assume 😂
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NoNotYou · 24/08/2021 21:06

One night in 4 years?? Do you only party when the Olympic games are on?

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