Hi all, I had DD1 4 years ago. It was an abusive relationship and we didn't TTC. I came off my contraceptive patch due to headaches and caught that same month. Now I'm happily settled with my lovely partner that I met in work; he's an RGN and I work for my local council as a senior care practitioner. We wish to try for a baby. It will be his first. He loves my DD as his own and it fills me with joy! I've never done the ovulating counting thing before but want to know all the best things to optimise our opportunities. Thanks in advance 💖