well me and dp have been ttc for 17mo have one dd 18mo took 18months to conceive her, my dad had a lady friend who he was seeing over halloween/ bonfire night she is a lovely lady she has 7 children ageing between 21 and 3yo and this week she has told my dad she is pg my first response was they are old enough to know about contraception my dad is concerned its not his tbh her dates match up with when they were together he's insisting it cant be his (he has 4 dc'c including me) my dad told my dp he had used a condom (not that i wanted to know) and didnt notice any damage to it!
Im annoyed dp has been agreeing with my dad supporting his ideas it cant be his etc just because they used a condom (i told him they are not 100%) i went off on one cause we cant get pg without protection and they have using protection
just needed to air, apparently my dads lady friend is going gp tommoro i dont even mind that they may be having a baby it was dp being insensitive when telling me and very teenage lad about contraception etc
thanks if youve read just needed to write it down!