Hi everyone…this is my first ever post on Mumsnet and I’m hoping you can help.
Myself (28) and my partner (30) are both healthy and have been trying for a baby. We got pregnant on our second cycle but unfortunately this ended in a chemical pregnancy at 4weeks+3. That morning, I woke up and all the symptoms were gone, and that I got bad cramps in the pm and bleeding.
This is our third cycle and I found out on Sunday that I am pregnant. I had a lot of bloating, frequent urination, gas and very sore boobs.
Today I am 4+6, however 2 days ago I woke up and the majority of my symptoms disappeared, just like the day that I had my 1st chemical pregnancy. My boobs are now far less tender (only sore when I squeeze) I no longer need to urinate frequently and my bloating is gone. I am also (every now and then) getting lower back pain (still no bleeding as I type this) so shooting pains in my outer thighs and hip and I have kept doing tests and they are still coming up stronger than the control line. I understand though that these test might not mean anything.
My bloods were checked last time and no issues were found with thyroid/diabetes/blood sugars. I have rang the doctor and she wouldnt check my hcg as it is against the guidance which I totally understand. The doctor said to just wait and see for blood and that it could be a miscarriage or it could be nothing.
I guess I’m just hoping that anyone out there has had disappearing/dramatic lessening of symptoms and still been okay? I dont want to be dramatic and I know its early days but I just feel like I’m not strong enough for this or to face a reality that we wont be able to have kids… I don't have anyone to talk to about this.