Hi @Hopefulhedgehog I've got my fingers crossed for you and @Bridgey8
I'm on CD3 now. I definitely found it tough when AF turned up, even though I'd been expecting her. I think I was just irrationally counting on last month being our month. It was my second ovulation since the MC and it took us 2 cycles to get pregnant in June so somehow I just hoped 2 was the magic number. And you hear all those stories about women being super fertile after a MC.
Our BFP last time was such a happy surprise as, due to my age, I thought it would probably take ages for it to happen! And then it happened so quickly - I could hardly believe the test result.
And now, since the MC, I've been counting weeks and days and putting a lot of pressure on myself when, in reality I guess, we've only effectively been TTC for four months and, out of those four months, one was successful. So that isn't very long. In fact, if this had been our fourth month trying without a BFP yet, I think I'd still be feeling pretty ok.
So I'm going to try my best to stop fretting, focus on other stuff, let things take their course. And then hopefully our next BFP will be somewhat of a happy surprise too, whenever it comes.