Not pregnant.. Again!!

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Why is Ttc so hard!! Just taken a test at 13dpo and not pregnant yet again! I have one DS who is 3 years old and was concieved after 2 years of trying and 6 cycles of clomid! Miscarried in May at 6/7 weeks after getting pregnant for the first time since DS was born despite not using any contraception since his birth 3 years ago! Really just feel like giving up, maybe it's jus not meant to be! Seems so unfair how some people get pregnant so easily and it's so hard for others. Fed up

I completely feel you!! Currently nearly 2 years of TTC. I'm always happy for family and friends getting their BFPs, but so many people announcing (with partners they've been with for 3 months) makes my heart hurt. Sending you all of the positive thoughts!

Hey OP I couldn't read and run. Sending such a huge hug I know how hard it is. I also suffered with secondary infertility, we thought it would never happen for us again and I fell pregnant after 3 and a half years completely out the blue! Have you had any investigations done? Xx

Hi, thanks so much for you're response! I was investigated when I was trying to concieve my DS. I have pcos which is why I was prescribed clomid back then. However since having DS I have had fairly regularly cycles and always have a positive opk mid cycle so I was hoping things would be a little easier this time around as my cycles were non existent when trying to concieve the first time! I did order an at home semen analysis for my partner which showed his sample was negative but I'm not sure how reliable those things are. Even if he did have low sperm count I'm not sure what our options would be medically with the NHS as we already have one child x