How can it NOT happen?? eh? tell me that!!!

[mummy2olivia]

Does anyone else have lots of sex at the right time til they are practically sore, eat well, drink lots of water, use OPK's to indicate the right time, smother themselves in pre-seed, lie with their legs in the air til they feel sick and STILL NOT get pregnant????!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'm starting to think 'what the hell am i doing wrong'? I cant see it ever happening purely because if its going to, why not now? I can do no more to make sure it happens!!

Its been 6 months which isnt long but feel like its just not gonna happen!!!

And before anyone says it, I can't relax!!!!

I know what you mean. I was brought up to believe that if you had unprotected sex - you got pregnant! It took me 7 mths to get preg with dd and only 1 mth with ds. My friend has been trying for 12mth and lots of other people I know tried for ages first time.
I do think you can do it too much. I know my body really well now and can spot when im ov easily but i couldnt when i was trying for no.1 - maybe thats y it took me so long.
Try doing it less! Maybe only at ov time every other day?

The thing is as well, I had my coil out last Dec and although we didnt really 'try' nothing happened then either- you cant win!!

I know exactly how you feel ! DD was a happy accident, we'd only been together 5 minutes and were activly trying to prevent pregnancy.. now we find ourselves, 4 years down the line trying our hardest to get pregnant, doing everything right and zilch, not a hint of a bfp in 18 long months !

Lifes a bitch eh !

Do you ever get the feeling, if its this much hard work, should it really happen???