🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

[Annny27]

Hello ladies,

Time for a new thread for us dinosaurs and for any newbies that find themselves ttc after miscarriage ❤

Tagging those who I remember from top of my head and them will add the others in later 🥰

@Elm7
@babyghirl
@27donfin
@kiwi17
@sweetbabydust1989

To clarify, it's not that I don't think there is a point. It's more like I feel so scared and pessimistic I can't bring myself to ring up my gp and make it real. I don't know if that makes sense.

@EmiGoiko I know exactly what you mean and how you feel. I was like that the first time not wanting to call the GP and make it real, but I've decided that nothing I do will change the outcome of what's going to happen. I did everything right last time and look how that turned out. I can't remember my symptoms and stuff from this time last time round because I was so stressed at the thought of being pregnant! Crazy

Well I'm drunk girls llf pray for me tomorrow 😂😂😂😂😂 how's ur weekend going firs lol xx

Haha @Babyghirl love it 😆 I'm 10dpo here, af due Tuesday apparently although that seems a bit early! Stupidly took a test this afternoon (Why?!) And it was a bfn obviously but I haven't started spotting yet so staying positive!

@babyghirl have one for me!

Thanks @PeanuttyButter, you're right. It's a good way to look at it. I'm going to try and relax.

@kiwi17 so hard to resist testing isn't it! 10 dpo is too early, so stay hopeful. Fingers crossed.

Hahaha @babyghirl brilliant. Sounds like it will be a good night!

Great days girls tucked up in bed nw going to watch ice rial Liam nesson x

Well CD8 for me and I have my ovulation pain on the left hand side so looks like it's going to be a 24 day cycle for me this month again. Abit Green today oh working so think lm going to have a bed day today and watch a load of films and chill after I get my cleaning done lol 💚

Hello all,

I've not been on here recently as I'm on a week away near Camber Sands. Not much beach weather though lol! Last full day today. I was feeling a lot of nausea, sore boobs and bloated yesterday so I decided to take a pregnancy test. I wasn't sure when to test as my last bleed was a miscarriage but, according to my Clearblue peak day, I think I was 10dpo and I got a positive 1-2 weeks on a Clearblue digital! I was going to post a pic but I can't seem to do that. I was so worried that I'd taken the progesterone pessaries too early and prevented pregnancy! Really hoping that taking the pessaries and the low dose aspirin earlier will help this time! Xx

@Babyghirl A bed day sounds great! Hoping you get your bfp in September xxxx

@kiwi17 I guess it depends when you ovulate etc but based on what I've read online it seems that a lot of bfp's don't show until around 14dpo / the day of the expected period or even later. I'm hoping you get your bfp very soon! Xx

@HOpeing
Omg congratulations girl praying this is your sticky baby, go to the paperclip and add the photo that way. 💚

@EmiGoiko Sending you lots of love and hope it goes really well at your 6 week scan xxxx

@H0peing congratulations on the BFP. Fingers crossed for you xx

Been away camping for a long weekend, encouraged by my husband to get out and it would do me good. He was right, so great to get away and unwind.
It's so lovely catching uo on this thread, makes me realise I'm not the only one going through this and everything I feel seems normal. Wishing you all well on this crazy scary journey. Xox

@spotsmama
Glad you had a great weekend, I was drunk yesterday dying today took myself to bed with Netflix and not moving the rest of the day lol. 💚

Hello ladies! 👋

I am back on conception 😐
Officially told DH i want another baby sooner rather than later...
DD is 4.5 months now...
had my first period 31/07
I am breastfeeding so opks are all over the place... basically always on high never on peak though.
Now on CD 31 😑

So yeah kinda back at it... when we have time!

@sunnysideup2020
Welcome back, I will be like this if I ever get my first one that is lol straight back ttc num 2 fingers crossed it happens for you soon 💚

Thanks lovely @Babyghirl
I feel so blessed to have my little girl and i totally understand how you feel, there is no time to waste honestly 🙂
I hope you get your rainbow soon 💓

@H0peing congratulations lovely that's amazing news! ♥️♥️

@ELM7 glad you saw baby and heartbeat, that's amazing! Totally understand your anxiety but hopefully everything will be absolutely fine and baby was just a little slow to grow on some days - same way that people have growth spurts I am sure babies in the womb do as well!

@babyghirl glad you had a good time and had a drink haha! Sounds like you are paying for it today 😂😂

@kiwi17 holiday sounds amazing! Jealous as we going abroad this year.

@sunnysideup2020 ahhh lovely news that you are ttc again - I agree, when we finally manager to conceive i think we will be trying fairly soon after baby is born too! Miscarriage and infertility means you just want to start asap again xxx

@Annny27
Really paying for it today but being lazy today which is needed lol. Take away tonite and I so can't wait to it lol.

Well I'm out - af arrived a day early. I swear there is nothing better to get af started than taking a pregnancy test - it's like it triggers it or something. So fed up :( coming up to a year that we have been ttc #2 now and unsuccessful obviously apart from the mc cycle. Can't really understand how it's ever going to work if it didn't work the month I was spending all my fertile week days sat on a beach in the sun literally as relaxed as I will ever be. 👎😭

@kiwi17
Sorry the bitch got you I have done that a few time took a test and then she rocks up, hang in there it will happen I'm sure of it what age r you if u don't mind me asking just so you can get referred for tests 💚💚

@kiwi17 sorry AF arrived! But you're so right - it's crazy! Even in the days I didn't want to be pregnant and took a test in panic - AF always arrived on the very same day ;)

@Babyghirl 31. But I've recently had day 3 and 21 bloods which were normal apart from prolactin so got the repeat test for that on Thursday, also had an internal exam and an ultrasound and everything came back normal. Dh has sperm analysis in Oct but apart from that not sure what else they'll do for us. Gp already said we're not ever going to get ivf on the nhs as we already have a child so it's just a case of getting on with or getting over it sadly :( it just seems so unfair like what are we doing wrong?! Going to have a month of ttc next month as hoping to go away next may/June so maybe the break will do us good.