🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 7 🦕

[Annny27]

Hello ladies,

Time for a new thread for us dinosaurs and for any newbies that find themselves ttc after miscarriage ❤

Tagging those who I remember from top of my head and them will add the others in later 🥰

@Elm7
@babyghirl
@27donfin
@kiwi17
@sweetbabydust1989

@Babyghirl so shit for you that’s she’s pregnant again and so insensitive to announce it like that! Makes me so angry when people do things like that!

@H0peing I can’t believe the first doctor was so cruel to just say “look no pregnancy!” How do the not realise how much pain they cause when they say that!! Honestly al Doctors and the sonographers should go on a misscarraige course. They seem to have no clue how upsetting it all is. Sounds like positive news afterwards though which is fantastic!

Hi to all the new ladies who joined, so sorry you found yourselves on here but it’s the most amazing support

@mrsF111
Oh I knw esp cause they know what I'm going through safe to say I deleted myself from the group, all up when u have outsiders rubbing it in ur face but to have family doing it to is utter shit, times when I don't think I can go on and I would be better of out of here and he would be better off on his own without me I'm not use to him anyway 🙈🙈🙈🙈 xx

Honestly this TTC journey is rocky.

After 12 days of being late and 2 days of extremely light spotting gone to the toilet tonight wiped and pink red blood. I'm heartbroken. I thought it was implantation bleeding but god knows. See how light this flow is if it stays like this I will test once it's finished if not I don't know. It's been been nearly 4 months since my miscarriage and it's getting harder and harder

@apwilso you are so right. It's bumpy up and downs constantly.

I've still not had what I would consider a true period since my ERPC, had loads of brown stuff, bit of pink at times when I wipe and loads of pain around the time my period was due. I also feel really uncomfortable in the pelvic reason, crampy all the time. All pregnancy tests negative. It all came to a head last week when I couldn't stop crying for no reason. Felt like I was having the worst period of my life for days but nothing coming out. Rang the GP and I've got a TV ultrasound on Tuesday. GP is querying leftover products so we will see.

@apwilso
It's a tough journey to go through the longer it gets for me the harder it is but we can support each other through this so sorry the witch looks like it has arrived big hugs. 💚
@PeanuttyButter
Good look with the TV ultrasound and I hope your body just needs time to reset. 💚

@PeanuttyButter @Babyghirl thanks. It's just not nice. I've had multiple hints towards being pregnant this month so to see this now is horrible. Really hope we all get our chance xx

@apwilso I can’t totally relate, I was convinced I was having implantation bleeding last month, a week after I thought I ovulated but it turned out to just be an early and very very light period. Our bodies can be so infuriating

Hello lovely ladies,

Unfortunately I had heavy bleeding and cramping yesterday so I was offered a scan and found out that I'd lost one twin and they weren't sure that the other one would make it because I was still bleeding. I continued to bleed with painful cramps last night and my previously bloated belly had gone down so I knew it wasn't looking good this morning. I did a Clearblue pregnancy test this morning and now I know that I've lost the other one as well as it clearly states 'Not pregnant' so I've gone down to less than 25 in hcg levels. Very upset but we're doing our best to stay positive.

We're going out for dinner this evening to celebrate our wedding anniversary so we're looking forward to that and hopefully we'll be successful the next time we try. We'll be on holiday (UK) for a week near the beach at the end of this month so that will be a welcome break in a beautiful cottage through Air B & B. Feel like I need a holiday!

Sending lots of love to you all and, especially after what we've all been through, I am really hoping for future success stories in this group! It would be so beautiful to see us all posting photo's of our babies in this group within the next year!!!xx

@HOpeing
Omg I am so sorry to hear this big hugs from me, please look after yourself and take it easy we will all get r rainbow babies soon xx

Oh @H0peing I'm so sorry 😢 what a sad situation for you - I hope that you have a nice evening and a good week away and that you heal properly.

@H0peing that's so sad to hear :( losing any baby to miscarriage is tough but twins is even harder ♥️ look after yourself for sure and try and enjoy your meal and holiday xx

I am cd1 today girls - only had 3 days of spotting so quite pleased with that!

On to the next month 🙄🙄

Hi all, after two losses we started again ttc in June. My period was due today, Saturday but I was to I. Patient to wait so did an early test. We got a faint positive, I took this as pregnant. My husband wanted more reassurance so I did another test this morning, first wee and got another positive, still faint but a positive. Just two hours later I started to bleed. Just like a period.im presuming this is a very early MC. Anyone had this, if I had never done the early test I would of assumed this was just a period. Is this a early MC? I'm devastated.
Don't know what I'm hoping to gain from this post. Just struggling.

@spotsmama
So sorry to hear about ur loss and u find your self with us but glad u found us for support, how far along where when you miscarriaged and was it the end of june did you get a nagitive test after the loss sorry for all the questions but can take a few weeks for a test to turn nagitive so just looking to c when the bleeding from your loss ended I was getting a faint positive after my miscarriage in Feb right up until I took my first period or it could be a chemical pregnancy 💚

Oh @H0peing I'm so so sorry. Lots of love from me. Take care of yourself xx

@Annny27
Sorry the bitch turned up 😠😠😠😠 but glad it was only 3 days of spotting this month I'm getting my normal ovulation pain nw cd12 norm for me so I can get of the horse dtd this morning before I went to work so I'm out lol 💚

@Spotsmama welcome to the group. Same as what @babyghirl said it could be a chemical pregnancy which is tough I know.

@spotsmama
So read that wrong you started ttc again in june sounds like you had a cp that's why they advise to wait a few days late before testing. So sorry ur going through it 💚

Yes, my last MC was in March at 12 weeks. I wish I had waited, trying for a baby and those two weeks wait for a period or to test are so hard! My mind can't focus on anything else. I am going to call my gp Monday and ask for support and help.
TTC and the grief is taking over my life.

@spotsmama
After 3 miscarriages you can go to your gp for a referral to the fertility clinic but be prepared as awful as it sounds but they don't alway count cp as a miscarriage my one was the very first loss but did not count it, I have had 4 miscarriages and 1 cp ttc num 1.

It seems wild they won't help until after 3, I was aware of that as a friend was in a similar position. She has two wonderful children now. I think I need more help with my mental health. After the last loss I was in a bad way. This has just pushed me back down that dark hole.
Sounds like you had a rough journey. TTC is hard, I want to give up because I can't take the heart ache but I know it's the only way of having my own baby.

@spotsmama
You can say to doc how it's affecting you and can get referred because of it, don't give up my fear of giving up as nxt one could be successful over rides the fear of another loss, all us ladies will get there and it will be magical 💚

Hey guys mind if I join? I have had two miscarriages this year. One back in March which was a missed miscarriage for which I has the erpc. Then a natural miscarriage in April. I have one daughter who is three who was an uncomplicated pregnancy. With all three pregnancies we seem to get pregnant easily so far, but have lost both the last two at 5 to 6 weeks. We have just started to try again and are now 4 days DPO. I must admit I've really been struggling emotionally dealing with all of this and feeling quite anxious now in the two week wait. I can't shake the feeling there is something wrong with me. Anyway, be really nice to talk to some ladies who understand.

@Spotsmama so sorry to hear about your loss. It's so hard. I hope your gp is helpful.

@H0peing I'm so so sorry for your loss and what you are going through.

@Emigoiko
So sorry you find yourself with us but glad you found us for support miscarriages r awful but take comfort that your body has done it and will do it again, I have had 4 miscarriages and 1 cp and ttc num 1 just ovulating yesterday or nw as I have the pain on my left side so going in to the dreaded tww good luck for this month great support on this group. Nothing is ever tmi by the way lol 💚

Thank you. I'm so glad I found this thread. It's so lovely seeing all the support on here. I'm sorry for what everyone has been though but hope we can all be lucky soon.

Im so sorry for your losses, I'll keep everything crossed this is your month. Xxxxx