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Reccurent miscarriage advice

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Mylittleangel12 · 13/06/2021 21:54

Hi I'm hoping some of you lovely ladies who has had unexplained reccurent miscarriages can give me some hope of having a healthy pregnancy and baby. This is my ttc journey
April 2019 my pregnancy ended at 25+4 due to my baby boy having trimisy 13 patu syndrome it was a big shock as all my screenings came back as low risk
2nd pregnancy January 2020 chemical pregnancy 5+4
3rd pregnancy August 2020 eptopic pregnancy 6+4weeks
4th pregnancy January 2021 chemical pregnancy 5+4
5th pregnancy may 2021 chemical pregnancy 5+1
6th pregnancy last week chemical pregnancy 4+1

After the 4th pregnancy loss Meand my dp went to the reccurent miscarriage clinic and all of our tests have come back normal and they have put it down to unexplained ( but obviously something is wrong) we also had genetic testing after our 1st pregnancy and came bk normal , I really dont know what to think. every time it happens it kills me more and more, the reccurent miscarriage specialist had put me on 75mg of asprin daily after bfp but I still lost them he said on the next pregnancy he is going to start me on progesterone pessaries x2 daily , he didnt want to put me on progesterone to start with because of the eptopic pregnancy but yesturday has agreed to try it next time , we are considering ivf but I want to try one more time befor we take that route ,
I'm sorry for rambling on but has anyone had alot of pregnancy losses and went on to have a healthy pregnancy naturally and was there anything you done different to achieve a healthy pregnancy?
Regarding ivf do you think I should consider an egg donor due to the amount of pregnancy losses we have had.
The specialist said I'm falling pregnant really fast and I have still got a good chance of a viable pregnancy, any advice would be very much appreciated thankyou for reading

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Nahhh · 13/06/2021 21:56

Sometimes it’s just bad luck. I’m fortunate enough to have 3 children (including one lot of twins) but I’ve had 8 miscarriages along the way too.

There was nothing wrong with me and my (now ex) DH, just bad luck.

Nahhh · 13/06/2021 21:57

Just to add I had progesterone pessaries with my final successful pregnancy along with baby aspirin. For me they seem to have helped.

ButtercupBlue · 13/06/2021 22:02

I'm so sorry for your losses.

I've got 2 children and I've had 5 miscarriages and aside from being told I have low vitamin D, all my tests have come back clear too.

My pattern is miscarriage / baby / miscarriage / baby / then three miscarriages in a row and I didn't do anything different with my 2 successful pregnancies other than have an unsuccessful pregnancy just before each of them.

It's such a heartbreaking thing to keep putting yourself through but at the same time I don't know at what point I'd feel able to give up / say enough is enough.

NoCallerID · 14/06/2021 09:54

I've had 4 early losses after TFMR.
I was under Tommy's and have been diagnosed with chronic endometritis. I took part in the clinical trial and am now 14 weeks pregnant.

www.tommys.org/our-research/our-research-projects/miscarriage-research/cerm-can-doxycycline-prevent-miscarriage

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