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TTC post miscarriage

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CaraSim · 13/06/2021 18:34

Hi all! I had surgical management of a miscarriage on April 30th had no bleeding at all prior or after ( I had a missed miscarriage) but I’ve still not go my period 44 days later, past few days I’ve felt nauseous, had cramping and pains in my side could I be pregnant? Took a test on Monday and got bfn Confused just wondering if anyone else is in the Similar situation or has been? Really hoping I am but think It might just be wishful thinking!

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Cheekymonkey3112 · 13/06/2021 19:03

Hey hun! I fell preg 1st month after a miscarriage (my son is 4 now) and it was a really long cycle after it that I didn't know what was happening. I ended up taking opk every day and they started getting darker so I thought I was ovulating and I took a test by accident thinking it was an opk and it was positive!! There's hope Mrs 🤞🤞 you maybe just ovulated really late so too early to test . Got my fingers crossed for you x

Soexciting · 13/06/2021 19:30

I am similar,. MMC mid may, expectant management. Not much bleeding. Period is now 3 days 'late' have had nausea, sore boobs, tired but BFN.
Fingers crossed for both of us!

CaraSim · 13/06/2021 20:03

@Cheekymonkey3112 thanks for the reply and for sharing your experience! Maybe there is some hope 😍So glad someone else has been through the same I just have no idea what’s happening lol!!

@Soexciting oh really??? We’ll just have to wait it out… when are you thinking of testing again?? Fingers crossed 🤞

Sorry for both of your losses ❤️❤️

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Cheekymonkey3112 · 13/06/2021 21:21

Praying for good news for you both!! Were on cycle 3 of ttc#2 after the crap time we had the first time it just takes all the excitement away from TTC 😥 xx

CaraSim · 14/06/2021 11:01

@Cheekymonkey3112 thank you still no af today!hoping I have the same experience you did I’d love to get a bfp this week what a good Father’s Day surprise it would be!!

Oh it’s so hard isn’t it… every month your just hoping! Fingers crossed this will be your month doll 🥰🥰

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Cheekymonkey3112 · 14/06/2021 11:17

I still have my fingers crossed for you. Well I'm 8dpo and POAS this morning and it was BFN. X

Soexciting · 15/06/2021 09:18

Still no AF here. I was so sure she was coming yesterday that I went round all day with a towel on Envy

CaraSim · 15/06/2021 10:35

@Cheekymonkey3112 8DPO is still early you still have time! Fingers crossed for you 🤩

@Soexciting still no AF for me either but I starting using the FF app and it’s saying I oblates Saturday based on my temps so I could be a while off If that is right ? 🤷🏼‍♀️ Still no AF is a good sign for you though? Oh really I don’t think I could keep it from my husband for even a day 😂 I’m awful with secrets!

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Cheekymonkey3112 · 15/06/2021 14:42

Thanks hun. According to FF I'm 10dpo today and again a BFN. Gutted but onto the next month. My BBT chart is looking as if AF is on her way x

Soexciting · 16/06/2021 19:07

I think I got my BFP...well not too big.
The pic with the frer and cheapie is this evening and the cheapie alone is a few days ago so I don't think it's left over from the miscarriage

TTC post miscarriage
TTC post miscarriage
Beleeve · 16/06/2021 19:20

Would you say this is a positive ovulation result considering the line on the left needs to be the same or darker? I miscarried a week ago and had a positive ovulation test Mon, negative yeaterday and this one just now, plus a positive digital ovulation test. Unsure whether i'm actually ovulating or if it's left over hcg from my pregnancy

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CaraSim · 17/06/2021 10:31

@Cheekymonkey3112any updates?

Oh wow @Soexciting that’s so exciting I can defo seen lines there! I’m going to test in the morning but have now got heartburn along with all my other symptoms so hoping I get mine too!

@Beleeve hey! I don’t use ovulation trackers sorry just go with temps and cm! Sorry can’t help ya there!

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Cheekymonkey3112 · 17/06/2021 22:19

@Soexciting congrats hun!!

@CaraSim I'm 11/12 dpo and still a BFN, but no AF yet. Thanks for checking in, how's you?

CaraSim · 18/06/2021 05:50

@Cheekymonkey3112 oh well that sounds promising? I got my BFP 13 DPO with my first pregnancy. Well I’m 50 days post surgery for my MC and still no AF and a BFN this morning! Loads of pregnancy symptoms I just wanna know what’s going on now 🙈

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BaaBaaEmily · 18/06/2021 07:41

Can I join please? I'm on cd52 post mmc with surgical then medical management. Think I'm about 8dpo today - tested yesterday and had the faintest line but not sure if it's an evap or something. Going to try and wait until tomorrow to test again as I have some FRERs coming.

That looks like a definite positive to me @Soexciting
@Beleeve I don't think that's a positive opk yet as don't the lines need to be the same?

Beleeve · 19/06/2021 22:50

Yeah i think it was negative and they have been negative ever since which is good. Was everyone else told not to try again until all hcg levels were out of their system?

My levels were 14 yesterday but they want me to test again next Friday. I'm just worried if i ovulate before then i don't want to miss the opportunity to try. Surely if i conceived anytime between now and next Fri it would be too soon to detect any new hcg levels?

I'm just super inpatient, focusing on trying again is the only thing stopping me dwelling.

BaaBaaEmily · 19/06/2021 23:02

I never had my HCG levels tested, but did continue taking pregnancy tests until I had a negative.
Would you ovulate if there's still HCG in your system? I'm not really sure how it works tbh!

CaraSim · 20/06/2021 07:02

Hey @BaaBaaEmily did you test again? It sounds like you could have got your bfp?

@Beleeve I didn’t get my levels tested either I didn’t wait until I got a bfn either just whenever we both felt ready we got back to it haha I got a bfn 3 weeks after smm, 7 weeks later no period and bfn still! I think @BaaBaaEmily is right that you won’t ovulate with hcg in your system? Just from what I read on line!

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