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11 days late -BFN! Please someone give me a success story.

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Kt1111 · 06/06/2021 17:21

11 days late for period. Feeling nauseous for last two weeks. Hip pain , back ache, headaches, low appetite, boob pain under armpits especially. Negative test today! Pic attached. So down right now, I so want that BFP.anyone had negative tests and fuu ok no later they are pregnant. Maybe I’m clutching at straws but I feel pregnant. Be nice to support and get support from others in same position.

11 days late -BFN! Please someone give me a success story.
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Bundaberg84 · 06/06/2021 17:47

@Kt1111 hi there! I'm sorry you're in that position. 11 days late is gruesome! Do you track your ovulation? Did you have the Covid jab this month or had to take other medications?

Kt1111 · 06/06/2021 18:01

I’ve only used the internet to work out my fertile days so not been tracking really. I’ve learned my lesson there and will definitely track in future but for the moment I can’t start as AF hasn’t shown. That’s why I have late ovulation at the back of my mind giving me a little bit of hope .I’ve had two children and honestly feel the same as when I was pregnant with them but more nauseous. My belly is constantly hard and bloated aswel. Just feel really off all the time.

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Kt1111 · 06/06/2021 18:11

I did have the pheizer jab that was 3 days ago. I’d had a negative test that morning and was 8 days late at that point x

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Bundaberg84 · 06/06/2021 20:49

Yes you probably ovulated late. It's just really hard to tell if you're already overdue or not if you don't know when your ovulation was. Sorry I can't help you but I hope you'll get your answers soon 🤞

Kt1111 · 06/06/2021 21:06

Thank you I plan to wait another week at least and then I’ll eat again and go the doctors if not. I’ve literally eaten one piece of toast today and that’s it. Not like me at all. Feel so sick it’s unreal. Even if AF came now I’d be relieved and can get on with the next cycle. The not knowing is the worst part. Thanks for replying :)

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Bundaberg84 · 06/06/2021 21:10

@Kt1111 I feel you! That limbo is so unbearable.

Kt1111 · 08/06/2021 06:34

13 days late now and still no sign of AF. Feeling so nauseous and terrible aches in lower back. I thought AF would show by now. I’m going to giv it till tomorrow and call doctors to hopefully find out what’s happening

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Holzawolza · 08/06/2021 12:35

Hi @Kt1111 I am in almost exactly the same situation. 11 days late, been sick, lower back pain.. the list goes on! Only difference is I have PCOS but I’d managed to get my cycles down to 35 for the last for months, but now cycle day 46 .. so long cycles aren’t out of the ordinary for me 🙃 been taking tests daily and BFN.

I’ve been looking at soooo many threads on late periods and BFNS, most of the time it’s just a late period and it arrives eventually. However there are a few where they do actually end up pregnant, trying to hold hope!

Keep me updated on what happens!! Have you tested today?

Kt1111 · 08/06/2021 12:46

Awww it’s just nice to hear from people going through the same. I literally look about 3 months pregnant. Belly is so bloated!
Not tested today I think I’ll test tomorrow when I’m 2 weeks late and if negative go to the doctors in case it’s cyst or pcos x

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Holzawolza · 08/06/2021 12:57

Same here, I keep looking in the mirror like wtf is going on!! That sounds like a good plan, fingers crossed it’s not either of those, I was gutted when I found out but it is manageable x

Kt1111 · 08/06/2021 16:51

I’ll keep you updated. We have two children , they’re 10’and 11 so trying for baby number 3. I’m 33 now so we’ll aware that I may have more difficulties this time round x

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Holzawolza · 09/06/2021 08:00

Aww yes definitely do keep me updated , this would be number 1 for us, still no AF 🤞x

Kt1111 · 09/06/2021 10:56

Still no AF for me either. Negative test again this opening. Might as well wait for next period at this rate haha . I don’t think I’m pregnant now but the swelling in tummy is making me worry it’s something more sinister x

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Holzawolza · 09/06/2021 11:53

Yeah negative for me too.. I’m losing hope a little bit too as just feel it would be showing on a test by now and starting to feel my usual grouchy pms self!! Definitely get a GP apt to check, some docs won’t see you until you’ve missed a couple of periods but luckily mine were really good x

Giraffe25 · 10/06/2021 22:32

Hope it’s okay to jump in on this one... did either of you have any updates? I’m now 4 weeks late! I have never been more than 5 days late and it’s freaking me out! We are TTC but id just like AF so we can try again... last negative test was 1 week ago. Had usual twinges and cramps when AF was due for several days, so much so I told my OH I was imminently about to come on. I’ve had waves of nausea since week 5 and have struggled with nausea and so much bloating! Just want to know what’s going on now

Holzawolza · 10/06/2021 22:43

Hey @Giraffe25 completely understand your frustration! I’m still now late for 13 days, no AF but as I said earlier this isn’t too unusual due to PCOS but I had managed to get my cycles down to 35 days roughly so it’s threw me a curve ball!

You haven’t tested in a while so I’d say test tomorrow morning with FMU if you have any tests handy!! Keep us updated!!

Kt1111 · 10/06/2021 23:07

Hey giraffe! Feel free to join! Nice to hear we’re not some haha. I’ve still had no AF! 15 days late now! Honestly look about 4 months pregnant with the bloating. Headaches and nausea with some cramps. I have managed to get a doctors appointment for Wednesday but it’s a telephone on first and then they’ll decide if they want to see me. So I’m still waiting at the mo but will keep updating.
I’ve heard lots about women sometimes missing a period out of the blue too so just want to be checked over for my price of mind but have to admit I really do feel pregnant and still have a bit of hope.
Have you spoke to docs, seen lots from women who had
Negative tests but for a positive blood test x

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Kt1111 · 10/06/2021 23:08

Alone *

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Giraffe25 · 10/06/2021 23:40

@Kt1111 @Holzawolza thank you so much for replying... I feel so alone with it and my OH is trying his best to be supportive but ranges from being adament I’m pregnant to adament I’m not! I am so bloated too @Kt1111 to the extent I look like I’m sporting a decent sized bump! Nothing shifts it either. I was so sure I was going to come on when AF was due.. all the same cramps and pains but nothing came! I did notice so much discharge though (sorry for tmi!) which has carried on since, I too have had a few headaches which is really unusual for me. Starting to think I’m crazy! I’ve said I will test Monday morning and then call the GP if not.. just want to know what’s going on! Our bodies are magic but so confusing all at the same time!

Kt1111 · 10/06/2021 23:58

Yeh I’ve had the same with the discharge. Noticeable amount, at one point I though AF had started.
My OH is the same. Goes from I think your pregnant to I think you’re not. 😂 keep us updated for your test. Got my f in gets
Crossed for you. I’m going to test Tuesday just so I can then tell doctor what’s going on accurately.

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CTMcG · 11/06/2021 07:29

Hi Ladies! I feel ya! cd52 for me but bfns and no sign of af!

Holzawolza · 11/06/2021 08:55

TMI but my discharge on cd 37 or so ago there was so much, it was watery with Ewcm and I too thought AF had started! Really hoping at least one of us comes back with a BFP after this! Welcome @CTMcG do you have any symptoms? Are you usually late or is this unusual??

CTMcG · 11/06/2021 08:59

@Holzawolza im not regular tbh. Ive been off pill since December and my cycles so far have been 45, 42 and 34. Cd 52 today of 4th cycle since being pill free which so happens to be first cycle ttc - how typical!

Im so so bloated to the point i am uncomfortable and like you, lots of watery cm to the point i think af has arrived but hasnt. The last 2 weeks ive put a pad on twice thinking yep af is on the way but nothing, not even a little spotting.

I am getting weird twinges low down in tummy on and off and ive a dodgy stomach this morming tmi! But other than that, nothing!

Holzawolza · 11/06/2021 11:12

it’s always the way isn’t it @CTMcG I’m also the same with tummy twinges one minute I’m constipated the next I’m the opposite , just want AF or BFP to come getting so impatient!!!

Kt1111 · 11/06/2021 13:05

I’m cycle day 44 now @CTMcG I’ve had the same. Worse today and thought I’d come on! But still no sign. I’ve been having quite a lot of twinges today and some back pain. Hopefully get some answers with doc Wednesday x

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