Trying to keep sane

[Sandiesands]

Hey all

Apologies now in advance, as title says "Trying to keep sane here".

Haven't been on here for a while as sadly had a MMC in February, found out at my 12 wk scan that little one stopped developing at 6 wks.

Been trying since but not even a nibble, my cycle length is the same 28 days but i have found that I am now ovulating ALOT earlier in my cycle. Before the MC my Ovulation was clock work on CD 17 each month without fail, this month clear blue digital OV picked up my peak on CD 14, so must of Ovualted on CD 15 so i am now 6DPO.

I am trying my best to not test, literally on the verge of throwing away all my first responses to stop myself lol. Ive been having for the last day or so constant dull ache pain on my lower left side and today just feeling knackered.

Has anyone had or know of anyone who has tested at 7DPO and it was positive? Guess i just finding an excuse to test early lol x

Be lovely to talk to others :) to help my sanity lol thanks for reading xx

@Sandiesands didn't want to read and run, I'm similar. Had a mmc in march. So this is cycle 4 trying again and I'm really going insane/losing hope 🥺. 🤞🏻🤞🏻 for you. My trick is to get up and pee quickly in the toilet and flush it without thinking then I have to wait for the next day to test. So even if you could do that for 2 days wait till 9dpo? I'm CD15 and got a peak OPK today xx

@justwant2beamum thanks and replying its nice to know your not alone, i am so sorry to hear about your MMC . I swear the statistics are so wrong because its so common, its like a secret a secret society.

I will definitely try the pee before testing method lol 😆

Im keeping my fingers crossed for both of us x x

It's horrible isn't it. Is this your first baby? Xxx

@justwant2beamum yes it be our first

How about you ? X

Hi op!!

Sorry about your mmc. And sorry about yours too @justwant2beamum

I can definitely join the mc gang. I had two both at 6 weeks and a chemical in April.

Found out I'm pregnant again so I'm at 5weeks now. (🙏🤞🙏🤞🙏🤞) I tested at 8dpo and got a squinter on my cheapies (mommed and easy@home). And this was the cycle where I told myself I won't test till 12 dpo. So much for that!!

My friend gave all her tests to her husband to keep and only give to her after 11dpo lol if this cycle was a flop for me I would have asked mine to keep the tests cause obviously I'm weak.

This first pee flush method wouldn't work for me because as it turns out my fmu is most diluted from water before bed...so I test with smu, haha.

I wish you both luck and wanna say try to test 10dpo onwards but it would be coming from someone who doesn't practice what she preaches.

@Sandiesands yes 1st for us too.

Aw @VixFromThe6ix congrats and hopefully a sticky little bean for you 🤞🏻✨

Wanted to update as hate leaving posts unanswered

Sadly wasnt our month again, feel a bit deflated.

Guess Im feeling lower today as I work in maternity and cared for someone with the same . due date i had. Couldnt help.but think that would be me with that bump now.

Gotta keep positive and keep going.

love to all and send lots of baby dust xx