June 2021 TTC BUS ;-)

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New June Bus as requested ladies 🤗
Hope I've tagged everyone, if not just come over anyway!!

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@amyannx
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Hi everyone, hoping to join you guys in the 2ww of cycle 3 of ttc #2. DC1 is 4 and we had 4 MC while TTC. Hoping this time isn't so traumatic 🤞 I'm 7/8dpo with no symptoms other than a 3 day headache (which wasn't a hangover 🤣) , cold like snotty nose and sneezing 🤷‍♀️ x

@Nai86 , it is possible to get 2 LH surges in your cycle. So your body could prepare to ovulate but not actually and try again in a few days. Sounds promising though so hoping it's good for u xx

@Nai86 no not too soon, I normally get a flashy smiley on days 9 / 10 and then my peak by day 11. Remember it could still be up to 48hrs after this that you actually ovulate though x

Hi All! Jumping on the bus here at 1dpo 🤦 I was out in the sun yesterday and got wayyyy too hot and ended up with a headache so super worried I overdid the temperature for conception day, but trying to chill about it and make this months 2ww fly by. History: MMC at 12 wx last year, chemical pregnancy last cycle, no living children. Hoping with ally heart this month could be it :) x

Thank you @Laurenxx94 & @Twochews78 it’s funny how deflating that news has been!!
At the risk of sounding terrible I was never mega in need of a baby until I fell pregnant, now it’s all I want, so weird how losing something makes you want it more!!
So cycle day 15 and I’m getting a high reading and more CM so going to dtd tonight, fingers crossed for all of us,
Apps can be so confusing, my Ovia app changes if I put certain CM in, but it’s pretty good to go by, my blooming opks are worse, the smiley face sticks are saying high, but the monitor says low! Don’t get how they can be different!! I’m going with the high one though!!xx

@Willow1982 I have had the exact same feelings surrounding TTC after loss! I was not fussed about when a baby happened at all and the got surprisingly quickly pregnant last year, only to have a missed miscarriage diagnosed at my 12 week scan. Since then it's been ALL I can think about and life just doesn't feel complete anymore without a baby in my arms! We are on month 2 of trying again, dishearteningly has a chemical pregnancy on our first month trying again but fingers crossed for both of us in this month! I just ovulated yesterday so we could be on a pretty similar timescale :)

@Willow1982 what opks do you use? I use Amazon ones and clearblue , get busy! 😂xx

@dunkedbiscuit thank you for the heads up! I'm still going to DTD daily for the next few days just to make sure lol. Just done an OPK still a strong LH surge. How I wish I used the Clear blue OPKs when first starting to concieve. The app I used was days out when telling me to start testing! Maybe a bit of silly question but ... when do I know that I'll ovulate?if I'm still showing a string surge? x

@Willow1982 my app has been way out in terms of telling me when to start using my OPKs. Fingers crossed I get something this month. I've been so dedicated lol! I've even used the concieve plus hoping it'll get the little swimmers where they need to be quicker 😂 x

Think I may be out girls..had some really light spotting tonight which is strage for me as AF not due until Friday and I'm only 10dpo. Hope its just nothing but not feeling hopeful 😕 has anyone had this before?
Really feeling the pressure now as I'm just dying to be pregnant before the due date of our baby that we miscarried which is Aug, trying to just go with the flow is hard 😥

@Twinkles18 sorry to hear that. I had some spotting last night too and I doubt it's implantation. Fingers crossed for you

@Twinkles18 @Countingchicks sorry to hear this girls. I think I'm out too. 10dpo and a stark white BFN on a FRER, not even a slight squinter. Thought it might have been our month, feel like an idiot and fed up

@Confused678866 hey sorry only just seen your message! Was your first child the same blood type as you? My son wasn't so I got given a leaflet with risk which could happen, I have had one anti D injection already for the bleed I had early on, still waiting for my scan appointment to come through. Hoping everything goes ok and this pregnancy is smoother than what my sons was x

Aw no way @Countingchicks sorry to hear, hope its just a fluke and not AF coming for both of us..if it is ah well and on to the next month 💫

@Cheekymonkey3112 I don't want the disappointment of a negative test so now refuse to test until I'm late.

@Twinkles18 for sure! Our time will come when it's meant to be. In the meantime, hope you're able to enjoy the sunny weather 😊

@amyannx Yes he turned out to be the same blood type as me. So I had one Anti-D injection during pregnancy but didn't have to have the one after he was born because of his blood type matching mine.
Oh at least you've had one injection though, would never even have thought about that! I'm guessing you will have your scan letter this week sometime. Mine came about 5 working days after my booking appt.
what happened during the pregnancy with your son? Xx

@Twinkles18 with my first pregnancy of my baby boy, I have light bleeding 9/10 days after suspected dpo was (temping and can’t have been any later as I wasn’t at home to dad) I have about 34 days cycles.

I remember thinking that’s very weird I don’t ever bleed lightly or in the middle of cycles 5 days later I had a positive pregnancy test and 9 months later my little boy.

I don’t want to spread false hope because I know we get ourselves ready for every month to be our month and it’s heart breaking but for me bleeding like that was implantation bleeding.

Sending best wishes and baby dust x

@Emilywhu this is what I'm hoping as now today there's no bleeding and past 2 culucles have been 31 days so I'm hoping that could be it...il hope for the best and prepare for the worst 💫 thank you for a little bit of hope though, its nice to hear positive stories!!

@Countingchicks I'm the same I really don't want a negative test so definitely won't be doing one now until I'm late aswell 😂 I'm in (not so) sunny Belfast, weathers not great unfortunately.. might try get a holiday booked to cheer me up lol

Good morning everyone,

Thank you so much for allowing me to sit here silently and take comfort and information from all your journeys.

Been trying for baby number 2 for 4 months and still breastfeeding baby number 1. I have been obsessively taking pregnancy test from about 7dpo every month trying to see lines where there just aren’t any.

Due to being a teacher I really wanted a December baby, but the months kept passing and AF just get coming. I really didn’t want to stop breastfeeding but was considering it. Also really desperate to fall this month as me and my husband are both teachers and because of holidays a baby between furthest away from the summer can save us thousands returning to working before the summer holidays whereas any later than a March due date means a smaller than desired maternity leave or being on stat maternity pay over summer when you wouldn’t be in school anyway!

This month I did clear blue smiley ovulation stick and was high for about 10 days, thinking a peak would never come, it came about 2 days before Ovia app predicted.

We dtd like newly weds this months and yesterday 10 dpo I took a frer there was the faintest ‘am I seeing things’ line when shining a torch on the stick but it was the tainted thing i ever saw.

Husband and I decided we would leave it a few days and try again at the weekend.

I am not working today and obviously cracked and took our second test.

THE LINE IS STRONGER! I am sure it’s there rather than seeing things line.

But now I’ve took a test without my husband and I know he would want to be there. Fortunately it Father’s Day on Sunday so I am planning on taking another test on Saturday and finding a way to give it to him on fathers day.

Anyone have any ideas how to break the news.

Thank you and best wishes to you all xxx

@Emilywhu Congratulations!!!

i also had a vvvfl line on clear blue yesterday myself but not sure if indent or chemical so waiting few more days until AF due and if doesn't arrive will try again friday. ive decided if positive going to surprise fiance fathers day with a rainbow baby grow I've saved with a digital test and put in his fathers day gift. (always get him something from our dogs and angel babies)

@Emilywhu excellent news lovely for you to share that and congratulations!

@LeeTTCRainbow I bloody hate clearblue 2 cycles ago I got a faint line and it turned out to be indent ! Best of luck I really hope this is it for you! Xx

@Twinkles18 sorry about your spotting. You really never know there's so much different stories about spotting and not spotting. I hate the saying " wait it out" 😂 so let us know how you are xx

@Emilywhu congratulations!! Lovely news 🤍

@laurenxx94 I know, women are amazing when you think about it..don't know if we're coming or going half the time 😂 I keep reminding my husband how grateful he should be haha! I'll keep you posted xx

@Twinkles18 I had a weird very short lived stabbing pain when I got in the car this morning. Notsymptomspottingnotsymptomspottingnotsymptomspotting... Or so I tell myself 🙈

@JemRose I’m so glad you said that, it’s mad isn’t it how something that was always a “if it happens it happens” is now the main aim!! Well good luck to you, you’ll have to keep me posted on if and when you test, my cycles are still a little random so hopefully I’ll stick on plan and be along the journey with you!!xx
@Laurenxx94 I use the clear blue ovulation sticks that give the flashing and smiley face, and the clear blue monitor which I don’t love, I prefer the sticks, not sure if one picks up better than the other, the main thing I go by is CM though!xx
@Nai86 apps can really throw you off sometimes, good luck to you xx
@Emilywhu @LeeTTCRainbow congratulations to you both, lovely to see some positives for June xx
@Twochews78 any symptoms or feelings? How you holding out on testing? Cycle day 16 now for me and I’m going to test a bit later, hoping for a peak today or tomorrow, going to try and dtd every other day rather than too much, otherwise it’s more of a chore and gets stressful, I feel like my months are split into two sets of two weeks at the mo!!xx