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Waterb0ttle · 21/05/2021 11:07

I went for my 12week scan and they told me my baby had no heart beat. I was measuring 7 weeks. So 1 week later I went in for surgical management and didn't stop lightly bleeding so went back in April I went back for a d&c because surgical management failed! I now have just gotten over my first period since. My question is, is it difficult to get pregnant now after everything that's happened and what my body had been through?

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Chanel05 · 21/05/2021 11:23

Sorry for your loss Thanks. I also had a missed miscarriage in 2019 with surgical management.

I conceived 8 months later and now have an 8 month old daughter.

Bundaberg84 · 21/05/2021 13:28

I'm so sorry @Waterb0ttle!
I can tell you about my friend who had a miscarriage at 14 weeks, and she got pregnant with her baby girl (she's one in two weeks) 3 months later. Fingers crossed for you! XX

Waterb0ttle · 21/05/2021 13:42

I'm sorry for your loss 💗 it only took me 3 months to conceive, so I'm hoping I doesn't take a long time to get pregnant again. I guess I just need some positive stories relating to my situation. Its just heartbreaking to see bfn.

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beggingforsleep · 21/05/2021 14:31

Oh I'm sorry you went through this.

I had a similar experience in that I went for my scan but they couldn't find a heartbeat but rather than surgical management I miscarried naturally while waiting. I had retained products though so had to go for a d&c.

I got pregnant again about four months later and that pregnancy went fine.

Good luck x

Waterb0ttle · 21/05/2021 17:43

I'm sorry to hear of your loss, its so difficult isn't it. I'm just trying to read positive stories and keep myself happy but also trying not to think of concieving and hopefully it will happen sooner rather then later

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Crazylemon86 · 21/05/2021 18:05

I am sorry for your loss. I lost twins at 16 wks last July and had medical management. I then had retained products so a month later had an MVA. I lost a lot of blood so my body needed time to recover. We started TTC 3 months later and got pregnant on the second cycle. I am now 25 weeks tomorrow. I hope things go smoothly for you. If you have any Qs please just ask xx

Waterb0ttle · 21/05/2021 20:27

Awh I'm happy to hear all the stories of your journeys 😊 I'm sorry for you losses that must have been hard 💕 I'm still getting over my failed surgical management I really thought it was the end in January but clearly not... I don't understand how they keep making the same mistake with them

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