4dpo any one want to join??

[Jely123]

Hey everyone so this is my third cycle ttc again, I'm so impatient and these cycles can be so lonely sometimes so wondered if any one wanted some company this TWW.

Just abit of back story. Im 22 from Kent. I have a 2yo girl and have had a few chemicals and miscarriages since having my little girl.
I'm also a poas addict so faint lines more then welcome here tooo!! X

@Motheroftenrec no I didn’t... just don’t want to see the bfn. I’ve still not got it. I’m due to start af tomorrow. Checked cervix and can kinda feel it I think. Also when I check, I see lots of cm (Sorry for tmi!) so think this all means I’m out. Getting period cramps too 😞

@Motheroftenrec how you feeling. Have you done any more tests and seen a darker line?

@Poppet2021 I had af cramps badly all weekend when I would have been due but lines still dark. Cramps can be a sign you have caught this month too! Let us know if you test tomorrow!xx

@Rowboatsmummy will deffo update you :0)
Just watching rubbish on tv to take my mind of it. X

10dpo and started cramping like AF is about to arrive. Had it yesterday as well, also in the evening. Could use some reassurance :)

@Poppet2021 I had lots of cm too, and still do a bit, also a good sign! I checked my cervix before my bfp and it was quite low and fairly hard but felt like lips, rather than nose?
Let us know how you get on! Xx
I have had my 1-2 on a clear blue now, so tentatively excited! X

@Motheroftenrec hmm I’m not sure what shape my cervix feels like. It like medium height. Can feel with the tip of middle finger (again tmi!)
And then finger has like cm on it. Lol sorry for the graphic description.
My af pains are there but also feels like pulling and my lower tummy feels a little tight. But I do feel a little wet down there but I’m not. Aghhh this is killing me!!!!
I haven’t tested today as I don’t want be disappointed. But then again I’ll only prob be disappointed tomorrow. I don’t know what to do.

Hi ladies hope it's ok to join you all? Just spent the last 30 mins reading the thread 😂 congratulations to all who have got their bfps 💕 here's hoping for some more. Me, I'm 3dpo today, 4th cycle ttc #1 and trying (and certain I'll fail) to hold off on the symptom spotting and early testing - wish me luck!

@Sam8582
Hello! Goodluck for the 2ww.
I’m 14dpo /cd30 today. Af due tomorrow. And think I’m out this month... we shall find out soon enough x

Thank you @Poppet2021 and good luck to you too, you never know!! Are you testing tomorrow or waiting another day? I will have my fingers crossed for you x

@Sam8582 Will test tomorrow morning if af hasn’t come. I normally start period in morning when I get up. Really feel like I’m out. But right not have a stretchy period pain feeling. Whatever that means... who knows! We shall find out tomorrow!
How are you feeling?

Good luck for your test today @Poppet2021!! Haha, our bodies do like to throw random pains and stuff at us in the tww don't they?
I'm good thanks, still super early so no symptoms at all really, just hope the wait goes quickly 🤞🏻

Hope everybody is doing ok and those testing you are keeping positive and happy I have my fingers crossed daily!

I have a little question... according to the app Flo, I ovulate in 8 days (the dates are very accurate for me and AF has been landing on their predicted day) and I wondered when I should be DTD? It is a few days before and then ON the ovulation day? I am going to get some ovulation strips as well to help x

@Sam8582
I tested this morning. Clear BFN. But af still not arrived! Who knows. With my first I didn’t test until 16dpo and got a BFP.
I think af is on her way though. Getting lots of af cramps and pulling and tugging feeling down there

How are you?

Still no af. But still bfn on cheapies.
I think I’m out. Surely I’d have a vvv faint line at the least. Hmm

How is everyone else today?

Aww sorry to hear that @Poppet2021 but you're not out until af shows 🤞🏻🤞🏻 your dates could be a little out maybe? Or some people don't show on tests until a while after af? You just want to know one way or the other don't you, it's so frustrating!

I'm good thank you, just trying to stay patient haha

@Sam8582 yeah just want to know which way I’m heading. Especially as it’s the end of 2ww.
I’ve been full of emotion this evening. Everything just making me tearful 🙃

@babyboybluex look at the SMEP method..someone give a good detailed description earlier on this thread about how to use it..or you can just google it. Basically it tells you the exact days to DTD..it’s had a lot of great reviews. Also I think digital ovulation test as opposed to the lined ones..they can cause big confusion! Good luck xx

Hello to new ladies..good luck for your BFP!!

@Poppet2021 I think it was you actually who also recommended smep before! I’m hoping your put out of your misery soon and you have your definite answer soon. It is mental torture at times xx

So AF arrived in full force!!! I’m glad though. As the waiting was making me so anxious. Onto a new month! Fingers crossed for this month.
Thanks ladies for all support. It’s nice to have these forums.
Let’s keep this one going for those who are back on the wagon on ttc?

Hi everyone how are you all? Sorry not been on in a while trying to catch up. I’m cd9 today and have a high on my cb monitor it’s been a tiring week though and not sure I want to try this month after trauma last! @Poppet2021 I’m your sorry your af came lovely x

I'm sorry to hear @Poppet2021! Treat yourself well and best of luck for your next cycle!

@Kinickynicky @Bundaberg84
Thanks ladies. I’m glad I know now.
Am going to have a cheeky chocolate and maybe get myself a bottle of perfume lol

@Poppet2021 that sounds like a plan! And do everything you wouldn't be able to do while pregnant!

@Bundaberg84 definitely!
Thanks so much! :0)

Aww sorry to hear that @Poppet2021 but glad you're seeing the positive side! Lots of choccies and enjoy a drink over bank holiday :)