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Jely123 · 05/05/2021 13:32

Hey everyone so this is my third cycle ttc again, I'm so impatient and these cycles can be so lonely sometimes so wondered if any one wanted some company this TWW.

Just abit of back story. Im 22 from Kent. I have a 2yo girl and have had a few chemicals and miscarriages since having my little girl.
I'm also a poas addict so faint lines more then welcome here tooo!! X

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Rowboatsmummy · 19/05/2021 22:57

Yes! @babyboybluex everything crossed af is a no show and a BFP is on the way!

PairOfPears · 20/05/2021 07:50

@Rugratree I think I must be out, another bfn this morning and if I ovulated late I don’t think we would have dtd at the right time. Hopefully AF comes soon so I can crack on again! How are you doing - any symptoms at the moment?

GlowUp · 20/05/2021 08:22

Massive congratulations @Rowboatsmummy! So pleased for you 😊xx

Really sorry to the others who got af too.

@Rugratree you've got me all wrong - I know booze solves everything haha! A bottle of red cheered me up loads last night 😂

@babyboybluex how are you doing? Did you end up testing again?

Wishing lots of luck to everyone else still waiting to test.

I'm not sure that I'm going to be in with a shout for a Feb baby - my dp is going to be away for a few days this month which I think is going to coincide with ovulation. But the plan is to just dtd anyway either side of his trip and just hope for the best. If not then we'll be looking at the next cycle for our next "proper" attempt. I'll just hang out here in the meantime if that's ok!

purpleskyssssss · 20/05/2021 08:49

Congratulations @Rowboatsmummy that's fantastic news ❤️❤️❤️

Kinickynicky · 20/05/2021 09:13

Morning girls!
@Rowboatsmummy what lovely news to wake up to!! Congratulations 💗💕 what a lovely new addition to your family! We have two as well, 8 and 4 xx
@babyboybluex any luck yet sweetie?
Have a great day everyone x

Kinickynicky · 20/05/2021 09:14

@PairOfPears sorry to read about your bfn, you never know till af shows and if this isn’t your month hopefully it will come so you can move onto next cycle x

Rowboatsmummy · 20/05/2021 09:24

Thank you @GlowUp
You never know so def don't put yourself out. I know certainly for me ov is so variable so just dtd like rabbits! 🙈
Any more updates from anyone?

babyboybluex · 20/05/2021 09:58

Congratulations @Rowboatsmummy Star This is beautiful news! How do you feel? Have you worked out roughly when your DD will be? Your family will be over the moon when they find out!!

Hope everyone is doing ok and not too down, us woman are so strong Smile

My AF has arrived this morning and I'm feeling pretty rundown from it. Normally I'm absolutely fine but today I just feel pants (cramps, headache and major bloat). I'm absolutely fine that I'm not pregnant and just looking forward to what will come.

@Rugratree You are soooooo not alone when it comes to the vino. It is my nectar Wine

Thank you all for checking in and being so lovely, it means the world! x

Rowboatsmummy · 20/05/2021 10:02

@babyboybluex Im sorry to hear that, glad you are feeling positive about next cycles though. That's a good mindset to have, it can all be so overwhelming!

I think based on when I think ov happened it will be 30th Jan 2022. All being well 🤞

Thank you so much everyone for such lovely messages. Just hope I have a sticky one!

GlowUp · 20/05/2021 13:09

Sorry to hear about af @babyboybluex but I'm glad you're not feeling down about it xx

Poppet2021 · 22/05/2021 07:02

Morning ladies
Hope all are well.
Am 12DPO today. Did a test and... BFN. feeling very disheartened and very emotional. It’s sad everytime you see a negative. I haven’t yet got my af yet but think it’s on its way!

purpleskyssssss · 22/05/2021 07:16

Still very early @Poppet2021 good luck for these next couple of days!

Unfortunately AF came for me this morning! Feel gutted but feel like over last few days I mentally prepared myself she was coming as was feeling her arrival! I haven't cried yet which is a massive positive on AF day 🤣 looking forward to meeting with friends today for a drink and food though so my mind will be occupied 😀😀

Poppet2021 · 22/05/2021 11:03

@purpleskyssssss
Aww sorry af came! Enjoy your evening...-‘d relax!
Af hasn’t come yet... but think she’s on her wicked way!
Let’s hope for better news next month!
Have a nice weekend x

Poppet2021 · 23/05/2021 09:15

Morning ladies!
So af hasn’t arrived yet! So you never know... I haven’t tested this morning as I don’t see the point! May as well wait until tomorrow!
But I was checking my cervix position (sorry for tmi) and can’t feel it with middle finger... so that might be a good sign. But then again... they say that’s not an accurate answer. Hmm don’t know what to think?! Am getting all Af pains but this morning got painful boobs. But I think I just need to stop thinking about it. Easier said than done though!

Anyways just thought I’d update!
Hope everyone is having a nice weekend!

Motheroftenrec · 23/05/2021 11:13

Hey ladies, I've been following this post and lots of others! I have been a bit naughty and have been obsessively testing this cycle, (much to my DH dismay "such a waste of money, ect, ect"). I got a BFN 9dpo but what I think is a vfp 10dpo!
I don't know what the chances are - my periods are very irregular, I missed one altogether last month, but felt myself ovulate (felt a ping) and got DH back from work (he works away in the week) that very night. We dtd once, so it all seems like such a long shot, but what do you think of my tests? Amazon delivery coming today with more tests too! X

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Motheroftenrec · 23/05/2021 11:20

Oh, and as for symptoms - I have had quite urgent poos in the morning for the last three/four days, shooting pains in my breasts, quite creamy, velvety cm, and extremely emotional - I read a new story recently about the people of Glasgow banding together to prevent police from removing immigrants from the city, and one guy declared "you have picked the wrong city to mess with" and I burst into tears. I don't know whether this means anything

Poppet2021 · 23/05/2021 11:36

@Motheroftenrec I see the faint line!! Congratulations!!! Fingers crossed for you!! X

Motheroftenrec · 23/05/2021 12:30

Thank you Poppet2021! I'm taking another one today with a glass of fmu, hoping it works the same with dipping! Bloody Amazon are so late! 😖😖

Rowboatsmummy · 23/05/2021 14:17

@Poppet2021 def not out yet, I actually was prompted to test after bfn at 10dpo, as my cervix was high and I couldn't reach it! Got my BFP the next day at 11dpo. I really have everything crossed for you.

@Motheroftenrec that is def a line! It is so hard not to test. I was testing every day from 7dpo and driving myself mad! Overnight it went from white as could be to a line like yours. I got this on friday at 13dpo and Im now 15dpo and have had a much stronger line.

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Motheroftenrec · 23/05/2021 14:52

@Rowboatsmummy exactly! I was trying not to symptom spot either, and it was actually the little odd things that made more sense than the usual "sore boobs, cramps, ect", that told me I was probably pregnant. Congratulations lovely! 🎉🎉
@Poppet2021
I hope you get your bfp soon! Sometimes it can be so late, and often if when you don't have the usual symptoms, ect. So you might think you're out but could be, iyswim?
Well, leaving fmu to dip a test in later does work, this is mine from ten mins ago! Xx

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Poppet2021 · 23/05/2021 17:14

@Rowboatsmummy
Super happy for you!

Fingers crossed I’m still in with a chance!
With my first child, I did a test on. 16dpo and got a positive. Waited until then to test. And even then it wasn’t the darkest line. So hopefully you are right!

Happy and health 9 months to you! Xx

Poppet2021 · 23/05/2021 17:14

@Motheroftenrec - fingers crossed I still might have a chance!
Xxx

Motheroftenrec · 23/05/2021 19:40

I hope so lovely! I have everything crossed for you! Xx

Poppet2021 · 24/05/2021 10:43

Morning ladies
Hope all are well! I’m cd30/14dpo still no af.
Haven’t tested - night test tomorrow when I’m actually due!
Getting period pains though! So think I’m out!
Hope all is good with everyone

Motheroftenrec · 24/05/2021 18:40

Did you test yet @Poppet2021? I have everything crossed for you, if this is not your month, I hope next month will be xxx

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