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4dpo any one want to join??

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Jely123 · 05/05/2021 13:32

Hey everyone so this is my third cycle ttc again, I'm so impatient and these cycles can be so lonely sometimes so wondered if any one wanted some company this TWW.

Just abit of back story. Im 22 from Kent. I have a 2yo girl and have had a few chemicals and miscarriages since having my little girl.
I'm also a poas addict so faint lines more then welcome here tooo!! X

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Rugratree · 17/05/2021 20:11

@GlowUp...I mean stark white for me at 12dpo..so much though that I had quite a number of homemade French martinis..then the next morning..there it was.So your not out yet lovely!!!

@Rowboatsmummy I think it makes quite a difference tbh 🤔 I’ve been in situations like yours..want to catch morning pee but have to nip out and get more tests..I’ve always wondered could you pee in cup..leave it..get more tests and then use it 🤔🤔...this is what I think about in my spare time..

Rowboatsmummy · 17/05/2021 20:17

@Rugratree haha me too! I do think I read somewhere that people do that! No chance I could hold it till after the nursery run! My 4 year old gets dressed in slow motion 🙈 I will keep you all updated anyway!

@Kinickynicky really thinking of you, I do def see something on one of those pics but I always find them so hard to see colour wise.

Rugratree · 17/05/2021 20:17

@Kinickynicky I can’t see test line, to me this looks like negative test. I can only imagine how exhausted you must be. This is a rollercoaster of epic proportions.

Rugratree · 17/05/2021 20:21

@Rowboatsmummy omg what is that about..slow motion to the max..school shirt on..15 minutes later..STILL just school shirt!!!!!

babyboybluex · 17/05/2021 20:40

@Kinickynicky The first one I can see a super faint line. I hope you’re ok Flowers

If you want to see what’s going on, there’s no harm in ringing your GP tomorrow and seeing if you can get an appointment. I know it’s tricky with the pandemic and a long wait to be seen, however, you may get a cancellation or just genuinely lucky!!

Sending a huge hug your way from Scotland x

Kinickynicky · 17/05/2021 21:07

Hi everyone bleeding a picked up again, I’m so sure that this is af I’m going to stop torturing myself and allow my head to move on xx good luck to all of you waiting on your bfp’s still! I know
a few of us all joined on 4dpo so due on tomorrow good luck ladies. Anyone who doesn’t catch and wants to join me on a cd1 chat give me a shout. Thank you foe your support and patience girls you’ve all been Amazing a @Rugratree @PairOfPears @ChillyBon95 @GlowUp @Rowboatsmummy @babyboybluex (sorry if I’ve missed anyone) sending baby dust to you all Flowers

Rowboatsmummy · 17/05/2021 21:15

@Kinickynicky sending you big hugs xx

Rugratree · 17/05/2021 21:36

@Kinickynicky i just feel for you so much..these past few days must have been so emotionally exhausting..please be really good to yourself. I know your going to get your sticky bean soon xx

Kinickynicky · 18/05/2021 07:36

Good luck testing this morning girls 🍀

PairOfPears · 18/05/2021 08:12

I’ve messed up my test this morning 😂 got the only ones in the shop yesterday and didn’t look at it properly. I’m used to ones where you put the display facing away from you and pee on the end but this one the end was covered in plastic and had some holes on the other side to pee into. So I wasted my fmu peeing on a piece of plastic!

The test was a cheapie and not v sensitive so prob would have been a bfn anyway 😆

babyboybluex · 18/05/2021 08:48

Ah @PairOfPears!! That's a shame. What kind of tests were they? Are you going to test again?

I did a test this morning and can see a line, however, it's not any darker than yesterday! Hoping it's stronger tomorrow with HCG increasing but who knows... AF is due tomorrow as well x

babyboybluex · 18/05/2021 08:49

How are you all this morning ladies? @Rugratree @ChillyBon95 @GlowUp @Rowboatsmummy

ChillyBon95 · 18/05/2021 08:55

@babyboybluex @Kinickynicky and everyone else, thank you for messages had a couple of days to concentrate on myself, think testing every day took over me and felt it was a bit damaging mentally. Feel a lot better now ready for this month where we all get to see our BFP's

Any updates this morning? Any tests? Xx

Kinickynicky · 18/05/2021 09:02

@ChillyBon95 💗

GlowUp · 18/05/2021 09:20

My test this morning... do you see the faint line? I feel like I can only see it at certain angles- does that mean it's an evap? So confused 🙈

4dpo any one want to join??
purpleskyssssss · 18/05/2021 09:30

Hope everyone is doing ok!

I am 9DPO today but already on the testing 😖 and of course BFN so I've now used all my sticks and going to try and not get any until Atleast Friday! I do feel quite sluggish tho as if my period is on its way, but I hope not! Seeing the negative's have defiantly not made me feel confident even though I know it is still so early, just hard to get hopes up and then doesn't happen... we shall see :)

@GlowUp I'm rubbish with line eyes, I think on pics they extra hard to see! But I don't have much knowledge on evaps I thought if it's after the time frame and has no colour then likely an evap, but I may be wrong 😖

babyboybluex · 18/05/2021 09:44

@GlowUp I can see the line Smile! Hopefully it starts to get darker and show stronger. I've got my fingers crossed for you!!

@purpleskyssssss Hats off to you lovely if you can wait until Friday, you've got this!! It's early early early days so keep a positive spirit.

I feel like AF is around the corner for me - cramps and bloating! My boobs are still sore and tender and I don't normally notice this pre period. Tomorrow I would expect a strong line so if it's not there, I'm ruling myself out x

Rugratree · 18/05/2021 10:15

@GlowUp I think I can see a line too!!!!! Arghh exciting. Fingers crossed it darken for both you and @babyboybluex over next few days. @ChillyBon95 you were just right to take a little while to yourself..such an emotionally draining process. I wonder what it’s like to be of those women who decides ‘ya know what I might try for a baby this month’ and then tests a few days after her period is due to find out she is indeed having said baby.

I am 5 weeks today ♥️ I have a hair app later for a colour 🙈 am I still ok to go ahead? I e read conflicting things..what do yous think

Rowboatsmummy · 18/05/2021 10:16

Morning girls!

DD woke me early this morning so missed FMU. I have done a clear and simple test there. There was a shadow within the 5 mins and I can still see it but v v v faint.
Not really sure. By cm I am 9dpo but honestly not sure. Dont know whether to buy a FRER?
I imagine if it is a shadow it would def pic it up?
How is everyone else? @GlowUp mine is similar to yours!

Rugratree · 18/05/2021 10:17

@purpleskyssssss good luck on holding out! Sometimes I actually felt relieved when I’d used all my tests..I would almost purposely do it..testing at silly dpo..just to get rid and give myself a few day’s break

Rugratree · 18/05/2021 10:18

Get that FRER @Rowboatsmummy!!!! So exciting

Rowboatsmummy · 18/05/2021 10:28

@Rugratree you are a bad influence 😂 Told OH this morning I'm doing tests and he is now in the kitchen doing a lot of stress cleaning 🙈 I will get an FRER today but I will have to give up for a few days after, I'm turning into a basket case lol.

Oh and I have always had hair done with no concerns. I made hairdressers aware and they said it is fine but just check?xx

Kinickynicky · 18/05/2021 11:05

@GlowUp I feel you hunny in having a bad today, af has dried up and is very light again but my boobs are so sore, I’ve picked up a stomach upset likely from the flood water and I can’t stop crying. Good luck everyone testing today I hope you get your bfp’s but I think I need to give my head a rest - make sure you post photos I’ll be back to check up :)

purpleskyssssss · 18/05/2021 11:09

@Kinickynicky sorry to hear your feeling like that! It really is the worst! Yes take some time of to try and relax and hopefully feel abit better and ready for the month ahead ❤️

Rowboatsmummy · 18/05/2021 12:06

@Kinickynicky sorry to hear you are feeling so low 😞 Just take a few days to give your mind a break!

I did and FRER there with about a 2 hour hold. I think I am 9dpo so I know it is early but it was def a BFN so the test on sunday was def evap. Guess I don't know for sure it's not BFP as early but not getting hopes up and not testing for a few days at least!