. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

Haha well at the moment there are zero symptoms so that makes it easier 😂 feel like we gave it the beat shot we could this month so who knows..🤞 for you and hope the countdown to your appointment goes super quick!

Is my nausea from the dodgy indian takeaway or 6dpo symptoms.....let's hazard a guess hahah 😂😂😂 (definitely the takeaway but doesbt stop me googling "nausea 6dpo)

@kiwi17
No symptoms could be a symptom ya knw 😂😂😂😂😂
@Annny27
I'm burping like crazy cd19 no idea hw many dpo but could it be a symptom llf prop 6 or 7 dpo I would say 😂😂😂😂😂

Oh and I throw up tonite llf 😂😂😂😂😂

Hello I've been having a bit of a break from mn but jumping over from the last thread hope everyone all good. Sorry @Sweetbabydust1989 hope you're holding up best you can xx

Well as of 12 o'clock cd20 for me today lol nt that I'm counting or anything 😂😂😂😂 but omg we r so ready for r rainbow babies ladies they r just around the corner 👶 xx

@justwant2beamum
Welcome back how r you keeping hope all good, where r u in ur cycle think a couple of us in the ttw if you fancy joining the nut house 😂😂😂😂😂💚

Hahaha @Annny27 ! 😂 I have yet to Google anything this cycle! 😮 but I'm not actually sure whether I'm 5dpo or 6dpo as I had a positive opk both days so that is stumping me slightly 🤣

@justwant2beamum I am alright just had more bloods done I just want this part over with now so I can move forward again.. least i no my numb arm was linked to it.. not 100% sure I want to try again now as they keep getting stuck in the same tube and they won't remove it... how are you doing? Xx

@Iworry2021 I have just bought one! One of the ladies on mumsnet got pregnant 1st time with the Fertility-Lily and messaged me to say give it a try.

Having opened it, it’s a lot shallower than a period cup so if you manage to get it over your cervix exactly.. 🤞🏻 the cervix sits in the fluid of swimmers caught while inserting the cup 🙈 I’m literally willing to give anything a go, even bought preseed to line it a little.

Is it bad that I can’t even talk to my friends about this as it’s too embarrassing, but I put it on here?? Lol

@sweetbabydust1989
Have they kept u in hospital over the weekend xx

@justwant2beamum welcome back ☺️

@Sweetbabydust1989 I’m so sorry, really doesn’t seem fair does it. I really hope they investigate and you get answers xx

@Babyghirl no been at home the whole time they don't really care when stuff like this happens as we become a static and that's all.. just have to go up there every 48 hours for bloods... I am just waiting for the results which won't be back until Tuesday now as our epu is closed tomorrow.. going to book my hycosy once I have spoken to the doc not sue there is any point ttc until after I have had 2 cycles and that test done xx

Hello ladies, over here as TTC after miscarriage in Feb

@Babyghirl I feel like I was on a thread with you about 3 years ago!!! Have you been on mumsnet long?

@slcxxx
I think it's easier to tlk on here abot a lot of things tbh I think it's down to we knw you but don't know who u r if that makea sence lol, I think it's easier to tlk to strangers abot some things, 💚

@SLCxxx

That's why I'm tempted to buy it, because of the positive reviews. I think it can't hurt and at least it makes me feel a bit more in control of the entire process.

We'll also do the sperm meets egg plan next cycle as I realized when we conceived our son and when we conceived our 2nd which unfortunately ended in early miscarriage we had loads of sex.

I would also never talk with real life people about this, but feel like I'm in a safe environment on mumsnet to talk about those things.

Good idea to line the ferti-lilly with preseed! I wish you the best of luck on your journey xxx

@Boxoffrogss
First of all sorry you find yourself with us but glad you found us for support and so sorry for your loss, I wrote on a few threads but been on this for just over a year nw r you trying to conceive your first 💚

Please can I join.

Struggling at the minute with my loss.

I lost my baby this week confirmed on Wednesday. Had a implantation bleeding then after that pretty much brown spotting. My tests got darker and everything was okay. Then did a test was slightly lighter and brown spotting continued. Monday it stopped. Tuesday fresh blood started. I was disgusted with how I was treated by my midwife as she was really dismissive. So took myself to A&E alone and got urine test and blood test. Was told there and then my levels have dropped and the EPU would get in touch (they didn't). I rang them on Wednesday and told me it's a emergency I get in but wouldn't be able to see me until 2 days later. Also when I get there it's treated like A&E so don't expect me to be seen soon. In the end paid for a private scan myself cancelled all the NHS appointments. And got it confirmed. 6 weeks and a day. Heartbroken.

Sorry to hear about everyone's experiences x

@apwilso
Welcome to r wee family so sorry you find yourself here but glad you found us for support please put a complaint in about how you where treated I know they c it everyday and it's there job but the ladies they r treating don't, miscarriage is awful to go through but we will be hear to listen to anything u have to say or need to know r you going to let nature take its course and miscarry at home or have surgical management. It can be a lonely time even though ur nt alone but you feel so alone I have had 4 got an app on the 19th of May with the rmc to hopefully get some answers and help for the nxt pregnancy 💚

Well how's the ttc ladies doing I'm cd21 today and looking forward two weeks on Wed for my app going in rightly as been busy with work 9th day in tomorrow then off for 2 days got a lot to be doing on days of thou so will go in quickly lol 💚

@lozza2206
How how you doing 💚

@Babyghirl sorry been trying to stay off google and phone if I'm honest! Had brown spotting last night again... Sunday curse... but no more other than a few wipes and nothing on pad and apparently spotting is very common in pregnancy - unfortunately for us ladies it triggers the ultimate fear again. Just have to keep positive and remember there was a small bleed next to the sac so that could be triggering it... also had sex yesterday morning so maybe that irritated it who knows? Just gotta wait for my check up scan 11th may 💕 other than that had sores boobs and morning sickness has kicked in last week xx

How are you my love? Xx

@Babyghirl I agree this was my first pregnancy and first miscarriage I didn't know what to expect but were just rude and blunt. It is a lonely process. I'm onto trying again and hoping I'm blessed again x

@lozza2206
All good signs with the sickness and that, everything will be perfect on the scan I'm all good looking forward to my app and hopefully get a plan put in place for my next pregnancy hoping as weird as it sounds something comes bck with my bloods that's causing my miscarriages and can be fixed xx

@apwilso
Its scary my first time was awful I was 10+5 and never knew what to expect second was nt as bad as I was only 6+4 weeks 3rd I was 10 weeks and 4th 6 weeks all different experiences first was by far my worst you will get through it thou there's blood and clots but just rest take painkillers drink planty of water just binge on TV watching and have the oh running aroubg after you. Oh we always manage to pick r self's up to try again xx