. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

So sorry to hear your news @Sweetbabydust1989 heartbreaking to go through it twice:( xxx

@Annny27 @Babyghirl honestly I am fine about it it sadly becomes normal when it happens once I am heart broken at the thought of never having another baby but I am lucky I have 2 boys already I am just very confused on why my left tube didn't pick it up I have loads of decisions to make and I am starving but I am not aloud to eat at all until my bloods come back xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Please don't give up your rainbow is just around the corner take time to heal 💚💚

@Babyghirl i no hun they just keep getting stuck in the same tube I cannot understand what is wrong with me left tube I no my right must be slightly blocked xx

@Sweetbabydust1989

I read when you do the blue dye test it can sometimes push out any blockages in your tubes. It can also make you super fertile the first few months after the test. Good luck whatever you decide to do x

@Iworry2021 thanks hun my partner already said about the hycosy test and said if this is bad we can get one done they said it looks like it's stuck in the middle of my right tube.. I think that's my best option to work out what's wrong with my left aswell that thing must be asleep or something xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Well you had your bloods bck yet to find out when surgery will be thinking of u xx

@Babyghirl all back 202 so pretty been self resolving for a week or so.. they won't do surgery so on the expectant management treatment again I have spoken to the consultant I was under at the private hospital the doctors referred me too and he said he is happy to preform a hycosy once I have had one proper cycle to find some answers I am now more worried about my tubes more than ever as for some reason my left doesn't seem to pick my eggs up and my right is damaged xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Glad u don't need surgery such a relief, hopefully the test u get will give u some answers and you can move forward and get a plan in place xxx

@sweetbabydust1989 I'm so sorry to hear that :( can't imagine how you're feeling right now.

@Annny27 just on the jab front - I got my text today inviting me for mine and I'm only 30 so it might not be much longer for you 🤞 I wasn't sure about the whole ttc and vaccine thing but it seems like they're now saying it's fine.. cd20 here 9 days to go 😣

@kiwi17
Yea they said u don't have to delay ttc for 3 months after taking it unless u fall this month it should be fine 💚

Oh sweetbabydust1989, I am so sorry. I hope everything passes soon and completely, so that you can at least start moving on from the physical side of this, and start working towards that first period. It good that your doctor has agreed to do a hyposy. I have to admit, I have no idea what that is, but really hope they get you sorted very soon. Big hugs

@sweetbabydust1989
How r you doing xx
Well CD 19 for me today how's other ladies getting on in the tww 💚

My period is due tomorrow and I fully expect it to arrive loyally on time 😩

We're thinking about doing the sperm meets egg plan next cycle - I noticed when I had my miscarriage two months back we dtd four days in a row and it worked. The unsuccessful cycles so far we had sex less frequently in my fertile window, so maybe frequency does it for us.

When we conceived our little boy we also had sex a lot, but we were childless back then, so we had more energy 😂

Also thought about investing in a ferti-lily, anyone got experience with those? xx

@iworry2021
Never heard of it what is it I dtd that much I enjoy the break sometimes when the witch shows up 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 my oh is working the nxt 4 nights so when I get home he will be leaving for work and when he gets home I will be getting up to go to work lol xxx

@Babyghirl I am not too bad hun physically over the worst of it now pain is nonexistent however mentally still angry and frustrated.. once this is all over i am having a hycosy done it's all pretty much paid for thanks to my amazing partner and family who contributed towards it. I just want answers. I am very confused on wether to attempt the ttc after my second period or not I have a deep fear it will lodge in my right tube again xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Wait to you have the test and get answers I have heard the test can flush out ur tubes if there's anything there and then you will be more contant and hopefully next time will be successful xxx

@Babyghirl thanks lovely I am so gutted I didn't get better news I kinda new it was bad as when I had the first scan my tube was inflamed... she said that the it was stuck in the middle part of my tube so we have no issue making the baby it's jut getting it to the comfortable uterus I am just very confused to why my left tube doesn't seem to pick anything up xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Prop just the months u catch u ovulate from the right side but hopefully the test tells u more its gutting when it keeps happening but u will get ur rainbow baby its just around the corner, not long to my app and hoping she puts something in to place for me for when I fall pregnant again really want to be a mum to a earth side baby and not just my 4 wee angels but I knw I will get there just taking a while is all like all us ladies xxx

@Babyghirl

It's basically a conception cup that you push up to your cervix after having sex. It brings the sperm closer to the cervix, making it easier for sperm to reach egg. I'll give it a try next cycle xx

www.amazon.co.uk/FERTILILY-ARDO-Hormone-Free-Conception-Silicone/dp/B084ZNS1JJ/ref=mp_s_a_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=ferti-lilly&qid=1619882531&sprefix=Ferti-lill&sr=8-3

@iworry2021
I have heard people us the cups u use on ur period for that to look in to them you get more and they r cheaper x

AF finally arrived 5days late today. So glad it didn't keep me waiting any longer, desperate to start trying this cycle.
Hello again cd1...

@Sweetbabydust1989 I hope you're doing ok ❤️

@Iworry2021 I don't really understand how that helps 🤔 unless it sits completely flush against your cervix, gravity will keep it down in the cup. I think best bet is lying with legs up for at least 10/15 mins.

CD21 for me here @Babyghirl - I will not symptom spot. I will not symptom spot!

@kiwi17
And your failing miserably at it aren't u 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I really wana hold of to my app to c if there something causing my losses 💚