. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

Happy Birthday @Babyghirl - hope you are having a lovely day.

@27DONFIN TTC is a minefield with always something to worry about. I did get my vaccine a couple of weeks ago and got given Pfizer. I went with the thought of who knows how long TTC will take (with how long it’s taken so far) and that if I want to get back to some sense of normality the vaccine was a start. It didn’t cause any delays to Ov for me and AF due in the next few days. You have to do what feels right for you and if having it will stress you out further then it’s not the right thing for you at this point in time. Could you have a conversation with a Dr and see what they say?

As for TWW I'm driving myself crazy!!!!!! Don’t know why I’m so bad this cycle. It was our wedding anniversary yesterday so did a test in the hope of being able to show Hubby a BFP but it was a BFN but my RHR has been increasing and higher than normal (pic attached with AF and Ov marked). Will test again on Saturday if AF not made an appearance.

Happy birthday @Babyghirl! @27DONFIN I had my Pfizer jab at the beginning of May but had zero side effects and judging by opks and cm I definitely ovulated so don't think it's affected that. I would agree with everyone, definitely personal choice but I'm glad I've had the first dose before getting pg as I'm hoping it'll at least give me some protection 🤞 I know friends who've had it whilst pregnant as they work in nhs so think it's pretty safe. @Annny27 nothing to report here apart from feeling really grouchy with the world which is probably pms 🤣🤣 5 days to go! @ELM7 I've not tracked rhr before is it similar to temping?

@Babyghirl happy birthday 🥳

@ELM7 awww I hate months like that. Good sign rhr is rising tho will keep my fingers crossed for you

@ELM7
@kiwi17
Thank you having a good day overall having a few nw lol 💚

@ELM7 my rhr did that last month it looked exactly like my BFP rhr chart and it was bfn and totally tricked me was so gutted.
Cd14 here and no sign of ovulation. It's usually CD12-15 so really getting worried now and looking like I won't ovulate this month. I had day 3 bloods this month got the results receptionist just said "all fine" but I asked for a copy as I don't trust them and worried in case any results are borderline and they don't tell me so I've got a copy but I don't know what they should be. Does anyone know? I'm feeling so so stressed just now about it all, got myself in a right state today and I just feel in such a bad mood about it all now just feel like giving up just don't think it's going to happen for me just have a bad feeling x

@justwant2beamum I'm so sorry you're feeling this way. I'm not really sure on results as I've not had them done myself but I know some of the other ladies have so hopefully they can help. Can you ask for a phone consultation with your gp to explain them maybe? I hope that you ovulate soon 🤞 for you. Is it normal for your to have cycles where you don't ovulate?

@justwant2beamum
Awk sorry your feeling like Thai right now but please don't stress cause that alone can delay everything maybe phone tomorrow and ask to speak to the doc about ur results as its stressing you out 💚

Hey ladies how are you all I am really struggling today had my first post ectopic period and 3 people on FB announce their pregnancies I feel rotten I feel like a failure I just want to cry does this get any easier I have my tube test next month and I am so scared to go to be told tubes are blocked I cannot afford ivf xx

@sweetbabydust1989
Awww sorry you feeling like this it does get easier, I have heard abot people getting them tube test done and falling nt long after so you never knw could be the clear out ur tubes need, try to relax I knw its nt easy but you will get through this and you will get your rainbow its just taking a little bit longer for it to happen 💚

@sweetbabydust1989
I deleted my fb over a year ago because of that reason and it was the best thing I done to protect myself, even unfriend them for a while so you don't see any posts belonging to them do what it takes to help yourself 💚

@Babyghirl thanks lovely I feel like a div I shouldn't feel jealous of other peoples happiness but it does hurt seeing it... I think I might just delete the app... I was on it for the ectopic support groups but those are pretty rubbish and the women on them can be quite brutal towards each other... I am trying to feel positive but it's definitely harder when you have had bad news your kinda expecting more to come along... my partner has been good keeps saying I might need a clear our... I just feel it's something I have done to cause these tube problems xx

@sweetbabydust1989
It is nothing you have done so please don't blame yourself, and I don't be jealous either when I hear of other people being pregnant I just defleat for myself and it hurts 💚

Thanks ladies. I just know docs will fob me off and say they're fine. I did finally get a static smiley on CB OPK this morning and a high on a cheapie so hopefully will ovulate 🤞🏻 CD15 and my peak was CD15 in January which is the cycle I got pg so maybe that's me back to normal and my normal is peak on day 15? 🤞🏻🤞🏻

Yay for positive opk @justwant2beamum! Now you can have a fun filled weekend 😉🤣 fingers crossed this is your cycle! @sweetbabydust1989 I'm sorry you saw those a announcements- they always seem to appear at the worst moments and I feel the same. I am just not strong enough to delete fb 🙈🙈 but I have definitely hidden people from my feed- sometimes you just need to protect yourself. Hopefully the tube thing will help like @Babyghirl said and it's definitely not something you have done, never ever blame yourself 🌹

@kiwi17 @Babyghirl thanks ladies means so much... I was doing so well had my period and felt good then boom back to feeling depressed... I was enjoying life again after these awful months... I have one more period to go and it's just before my hycosy I am not sure if your allowed to try start after it as I ovulate a week after... I am scared to try again I really am... I feel like it's my fault and can't shrug this feeling off I am going through the what if atm like what if I caught an Sti that I didn't no about etc what a rollercoaster so glad I had this group to lean on as I find no one understands any of what I am going through at all... if I get a positive after the hycosy I will just take it day by day relax and not get excited xx

@justwant2beamum
I'm doing the ovulation dance for you 💃💃💃 go get busy.
@sweetbabydust1989
It's definitely nothing you have done girl so please don't blame yourself sometimes we just need a little help to get there in the end 💚

@Babyghirl thanks lovely I am stuck in a rut really depressed family members getting great unpregnancy related news well other than my SIL who seems to get all the luck she clicks her fingers and has baby on the way just moved into a brand new house and I am sitting here like hey I don't recall breaking an mirrors to be deserved bad luck 🤣 xxx

Hi Ladies

So RHR completely trolled me and AF arrived today so back to CD1. Had such high hopes for this month but surprisingly feeling ok. Think it’s cos I now know and can forget about it for another couple of weeks (until FW begins again) where I had been driving myself mad in this TWW with the hope it was going to be my month.

Friends 40th tomorrow so will have a good drink to commiserate AF/Celebrate his birthday (although would happily of driven for a BFP)

Hope you have nice weekends. x

Aw sorry @ELM7

I have a baby shower tomorrow girls wish me luck 🙄😂

@sweetbabydust1989
I'm the same got a letter today bot ivf they say I should have my treatment by April 2022 so ten months hoping I fall before then and with the progesterone it helps 💚x
@ELM7
Sorry the witch got you but go out tomorrow let ur hair down and enjoy and on to nxt month 💚 your getting closer to the bfp girl x

@justwant2beamum I will find out the normal ranges for the day 3 cycle bloods tomo and let you know so you can see where yours should be. Are you doing 21day bloods? If so then it should actually be 7days post ovulations (day21 if you have a 28 day cycle). So if you ovulate tomo on CD16 then you should book your blood test for CD23. I’m having the same bloods this month, CD12 here.

Has anyone taken Co-Q10? I added it this cycle and I’ve never had so much EWCM before 🤷🏼‍♀️

Happy belated birthday @Babyghirl 🎉🎉

@slcxxx
Thank you very much what coq10 tablets r you taking 💚

Aw thank you @SLCxxx yes getting day 21 also. I've booked in for fri 11th. So if my ov is today that will be day 6 but day 7 will be a Saturday. But I think I might ov the same day as my peak which would have been yesterday, I don't know cause I don't temp. But I can't get bloods on a sat or Sunday, would day 6 be ok? Xx

Also yes I've just got coq10 off Amazon started taking them last night x