. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

[Annny27]

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

@SLCxxx that cracked me up 🤣🤣 had to explain to dh next to me and he said 'its ok, you can tell her we got a new bed recently so it's nice and quiet' 😂 I'm so sorry to hear about af though 😖😖 not surprised you almost threw the vitamins out the window! Fingers crossed for your next cycle 🤞🤞

It's happened ladies! 2 months after my miscarriage at 5.5weeks, I have a vvvvfl! No idea when I ovulated as I completely missed it this month, but I'm gonna guess at being about 11dpo
I'm really nervous about another mc, anything anyone can recommend worth doing that'll put my mind at ease, and also that can help to prevent mc?

@tabbycat92
Omg congratulations all you can keep doing is what ur doing take your vitamins and try to relax, stressing won't change the outcome but just remember new egg new sperm new pregnancy, you got this girl 💚 xx

Thankyou @Babyghirl I'm really keeping my fingers crossed. Current work stresses aren't helping, but trying hard to keep calm

Hi, can I join please? Had a mmc last month, finally clear of retained tissue 🤦🏼‍♀️and now want to try again. I don't feel the need to wait for a period first (I know it's advised), how did you know when you were ovulating? Did you just dtd as often as possible once you'd stopped bleeding? Hope everyone is ok, Em x

Hi all. This is my first ever post on mumsnet! I'm hoping it's not too late to join in with this thread?

I'm 36 with two kids and I've had 5 miscarriages- three with my ex and two with my current fiancé who doesn't have any children of his own.

I had some testing done a few years ago (when I reached the magical '3 miscarriage' requirement) but all they found was low vitamin D and PCOS (which I already knew about.) Last year I had two mmc both at the exact same point in the pregnancy so I've had further tests done but no results yet.

The last loss really hit hard. My local hospital weren't offering surgery with anaesthetic because of Covid so I had an MVA which left me pretty much traumatised. It's taken me a good few months to even be able to contemplate trying again tbh but here we are! I came off the mini pill last month and now on CD4.

My due date from the last pregnancy was June 13th so I'm feeling pretty wobbly at the mo - on the one hand longing to be pregnant but otoh, thinking 'but how long will it last?'

@BaaBaaemily
@ButtercupBlue
Sorry yous find yourself here with us but glad you found for support this group is amazing support for venting nothing is ever to much as for ovulation I don't track causes to much unnecessary stress so I just go with the flow, I myself have had 4 miscarriages and 1 cp just had app with the rmc and hoping for better outcome nxt time around I'm getting progesterone from my next bfp so hoping that helps me to become a mum as I have no earth side babies just my angels 💚

[quote Babyghirl]@BaaBaaemily
@ButtercupBlue
Sorry yous find yourself here with us but glad you found for support this group is amazing support for venting nothing is ever to much as for ovulation I don't track causes to much unnecessary stress so I just go with the flow, I myself have had 4 miscarriages and 1 cp just had app with the rmc and hoping for better outcome nxt time around I'm getting progesterone from my next bfp so hoping that helps me to become a mum as I have no earth side babies just my angels 💚[/quote]
Thanks for the warm welcome. I'm sorry to hear about your losses and I hope the progesterone helps.

Thanks for the welcome @Babyghirl I hope the progesterone makes a difference for you.

Sorry you find yourself here too @ButtercupBlue I also had surgical management whilst awake which wasn't the most pleasant of experiences but I'm glad it's over now. I've only stopped bleeding in the last few days so very fresh to all of this, but hoping the whole 'your super fertile after miscarriage' thing will work out.

@BaaBaaemily
It took me a year to fall pregnant after each loss only the 4th one I fell pregnant ten weeks after the 3rd loss so the super fertile never applied to me don't want u getting ur hopes up to be broke 💚

Morning 🥰 about cd17 now, not sure if I have ovulated or not because haven't been tracking, so just gonna continue to dtd every other day - husband is pleased about this plan as usually I get to tww and cba to dtd (ttc really does mess up your sex life!)

@babyghirl glad they are getting your progesterone script sorted! The pessaries are a bit messy to use (the leak out....) but all worth it if you get a bfp :)

@tabbycat92 congratulations lovely - have you tested again?

@baabaaemily @buttercupblue welcome to the club noone wants to be in ❤

@kiwi17 have you ovulated yet?

@Annny27 Thankyou 😊 yes tested again today and a slightly darker line. Have frers arriving today to try tomorrow

@Annny27
Cd17 for me to lol I have read abot people putting them up the bck and it's nt as bad but I don't knw if that's allowed 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I will put them anywhere tbh if it's going to help lol 💚

Morning! @Annny27 yep cd17 here too and have had positive opks yesterday and today so we've being dtd every other day and now upped it to yesterday today tomorrow probably... haha I know what you mean though! I always struggle to know when I've ovulated as I think it's supposed to be after the darkest test but who knows?! The undercover silent dtd has begun as parents arrived yesterday... 🤣🤣

Just got a LOAD on ewcm so I imagine ovulating now or in the next few days 🥰 I usually ovulate a bit earlier than this but I guess the cp made things a little delayed

@kiwi17 haha silent dtd! Hopefully you catch the egg :)

@babyghirl when I used them I did back entry hahah. Was much less messy! The packet says you can do either

@tabbycat92 oh that's good 🥰🥰🥰 shownus the frer lines when they arrive

@kiwi17
Bet ya yous feel like young ones again dtd in silence so your nt caught 😂😂😂😂😂 so many of us on the same CD lol they say you ovulate 24 to 38 hours after your positive opk so hopefully you catch the egg hope all off us do how amazing would that be lol 💚

My birthday on the 3rd of June so I would be due to test that day, what a present that would be to get a positive test 🙏🤞🍀💚

Hahahaha fingers crossed for us all @Babyghirl @Annny27 that would be so good! My birthday is 31st May so would be a belated present for me too! 🤞🤞🤞

@SLCxxx no no mention of a scan? What's the scan for?

@Tabbycat92 congrats ✨

Cd6 here today xxx

@justwant2beamum Thankyou 😊

@Annny27 here are my FReR lines!

@tabbycat92
Getting darker congratulations girl 🙏🤞🍀💚 everything crossed this is ur rainbow baby 💚

Well had an awful nite kidney infection I think left hand side in agony time to get the cranberry juice in to me and phone the docs for an anti 😢😢😢😢😢

@Babyghirl oh no 😩

@justwant2beamum
I have had uti before and the months I did got a positive test I have heard your ammune system lowers to allow implementation 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Well I'm hoping llf 💚

Fingers crossed that that is the cause Babyghirl, and that you get your birthday wish. I hope you also get the infection sorted ASAP.

Congratulations Tabbycat92.

Good luck Kiwi17, and enjoy the secretive dtd .