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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

. 🦕 Catching up - ttc after miscarriage part 6 🦕

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Annny27 · 25/04/2021 18:54

Hi ladies! The dinosaurs are around plus a few newer ladies too :)

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Miscarriage39 · 21/05/2021 21:04

justwant2beamum I am sorry you put this month. Hopefully the bloods will prove helpful.

27DONFIN sorry you’re out too, but glad you feel okayish about it. Hopefully the break will put you in a good place when you do try again.

Kiwi17, I’m feeling really relieved that my cycle has settled back o normal and the ongoing bleeding seems to have stopped. We’re taking it day-by-day and just seeing what happens. Vitamins-wise, I am taking folate and Vitb6, alongside co-Q10 and a multivitamin. I’m not usually a supplements person, so it feels like a like.

kiwi17 · 22/05/2021 09:04

@Miscarriage39 I'm so glad your constant bleeding has stopped and that you feel more positive about that 😊

Babyghirl · 22/05/2021 10:41

@kiwi17
Both bloods measure hormones from the first and second half of your cycle but have to be certain days the day 21 only applies if you ovulate on day 14 and the progesterone has to be checked 7 days after ovulation 💚

kiwi17 · 22/05/2021 15:16

Ahhh that makes sense thanks @Babyghirl!

SLCxxx · 23/05/2021 08:56

Morning ladies,

2 days ago, 11DPO, I had light pinkish discharge on wiping for a few hours, loads of cramps with a particular sharp stabbing pain on the right side 🤷🏼‍♀️

Has anyone experienced that?

Babyghirl · 23/05/2021 09:44

@slcxxx
Do a test could be implantation bleeding and pain from egg implantationing 💚

Babyghirl · 23/05/2021 10:32

Well ovulation is happening cause pain on my right side is awful sharp today lol I have covered all bases dtd last nite yesterday morning so I just need that sperm and egg to be in top shape 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 💚

kiwi17 · 23/05/2021 11:22

Sounds promising @SLCxxx worth a test maybe? I always think it's implantation bleeding but for me it's normally the start of af - 🤞 for you it's not!! @Babyghirl good you get such an obvious sign when you ovulate I never seem to get any symptoms apart from ewcm! We are trying using a moon cup after dtd this month in hopes that'll help 🤞 probably won't make much difference though!

Ttcbaby2sc · 23/05/2021 11:38

Morning ladies, 1st cycle after a CP for me, currently 10DPO, its wierd because i actually feel pregnant this time! But definite BFN! Do you think im out??

Babyghirl · 23/05/2021 11:48

@Ttcbaby2sc
Your never out until the witch arrives still time to get a bfp goodluck 🍀
@kiwi17
Anything is worth a try to help the swimmers along I norm get sharp pain on either side for a few hours 💚

Gummybear17 · 23/05/2021 12:59

@Ttcbaby2sc I wouldn't say you are out at 10DPO it's still really early. I didn't get my first positive until 12DPO. Unfortunately I've just lost that pregnancy though. Really want to get started again by who knows when AF will arrive for me :-(

Ttcbaby2sc · 23/05/2021 14:40

[quote Gummybear17]@Ttcbaby2sc I wouldn't say you are out at 10DPO it's still really early. I didn't get my first positive until 12DPO. Unfortunately I've just lost that pregnancy though. Really want to get started again by who knows when AF will arrive for me :-( [/quote]
Ahh really sorry to hear that! Why does it happen to us all? Sending love! I havnt actually had AF, just the chemical bleed , but was told to class it as a period? Then i ovulated exactly 14 days after like usual, so im not sure if im back to normal or not? Im due AF according to my app on 27th! So i thought id have a positive by now! Who knows! X

Babyghirl · 23/05/2021 15:04

@Ttcbaby2sc
That would of been your period as its just a few days late takes 2 days for hcg to build up in your urine so I would give it till tomorrow morning and take a test if it was implementation bleeding it still early to show up on a test 💚

Ttcbaby2sc · 23/05/2021 15:36

[quote Babyghirl]@Ttcbaby2sc
That would of been your period as its just a few days late takes 2 days for hcg to build up in your urine so I would give it till tomorrow morning and take a test if it was implementation bleeding it still early to show up on a test 💚[/quote]
I wasnt a few days late though. I was 6 and a half weeks pregnant 🙈 i dont really understand it tbh! But heres hoping i get a bfp this time and it sticks. 💙

Babyghirl · 23/05/2021 19:11

@Ttcbaby2sc
I don't understand how they say cp for you cause the say its only a cp up to 5 weeks I think they pick and choice most off the time 💚

Ttcbaby2sc · 23/05/2021 19:16

[quote Babyghirl]@Ttcbaby2sc
I don't understand how they say cp for you cause the say its only a cp up to 5 weeks I think they pick and choice most off the time 💚[/quote]
I think because by the time the epu saw me, my hcg level was down to 5, and the baby was completely gone from my scan 🤷‍♀️ but id had a digital that said 2-3 weeks, and my cycle indicated just over 6 weeks, so who knows. I only bled for 3 days too and no pain, and it wasnt particularly heavy, i was expecting alot worse.

SLCxxx · 23/05/2021 19:24

@Babyghirl I wish 🙈 hope your enjoying The fertile window time, have fun! @kiwi17 had more strange pink discharge again today but other than that I have had zero pregnancy symptoms, no nausea and all breast tenderness is gone. I did a test that morning and it was bfn, but then that happened in the afternoon and it gives you that bloody shred of poxy hope doesn’t it 🤦🏼‍♀️

kiwi17 · 23/05/2021 19:32

@SLCxxx ahhh the shred of hope is the worst!!! I always go for no blood is a good sign for me because in my successful pg and the mc I had no implantation bleeding so not sure I'm prone to it but of course I always get my hopes up anyway 🤣 really really hope it is ib for you though !

SLCxxx · 23/05/2021 20:28

@kiwi17 oh bless you, I think I remember last month you also ended up with a shred of hope. Where are you in this cycle? I had implantation bleeding with my 2nd pregnancy (successful), it was like a light 3 day period so I didn’t know I was pregnant for another month 🤣, didn’t have any with the 10wk miscarriage in jan though or my first pregnancy (also successful).. so one day your spotting may be implantation 🤞🏻! When my cyclesdoes start (I’m sure it will) I’m having day 3 FSH & LH bloods, then 7dpo progesterone levels so at least I won’t feel so bad about AF this month

kiwi17 · 23/05/2021 22:11

@SLCxxx oh that's good to know! I always assume bleeding is bad especially after the mc! Yeah I get my hopes everytime i start spotting before af... Currently cd14 for me here so we're dtd every other day as I've not had my peak I opk yet so will do it more when that happens... parents arriving on Tuesday so guaranteed that's when I'll get my positive opk 🤦‍♀️ sounds like those tests will be helpful so as you say hopefully af won't be as much of a disappointment!

Annny27 · 23/05/2021 22:43

evening ladies :) having a strange cycle with not much ewcm - not sure if it's because of the CP or because of my new vitamins (I had an excessive amount of ewcm previously so maybe this is what it should be normally haha!)

@babyghirl that's good you have ovulated! I am always relieved when I know I have ovulated haha.

@kiwi17 I am cd14 as well, not sure when I am ovulating but have had some ewcm and pains but I dont know for sure

@27donfin your fur babies are gorgeous 🥰🥰 must be nice to have a cycle off of symptom spotting and you can totally know what a normal not pregnant cycle is!

@slcxxx if it's not normal bleeding for you then it is promising! I am the same as kiwi in that each time I have bene pregnant I haven't had any implantation bleeding but everytime I spot I am always like omg is this it 😂

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Babyghirl · 24/05/2021 08:49

@Annny27
It's a relief lol I'm off work nw for 2 days after doing a 7 day straight so catching up on things in the house nw lol hoping rain stays off to do my fence to done nothing but rain last weekend when I was off so could nt get it done, hopefully the ewcm picks up for u 💚

justwant2beamum · 24/05/2021 11:29

@SLCxxx I'm having those bloods this month too. I'm getting the day 3 today except I'm actually day 4 cause day 3 was a Sunday.

Babyghirl · 24/05/2021 13:14

Well just waiting on doc phoning me to give me my vitamin d supplements and to c if she has received the email abot the progesterone I want it there for when I get my positive test so might ask her to give me a script incase I get it on a weekend lol 💚

SLCxxx · 24/05/2021 21:56

Ah well, bl**dy Aunt Flo caught me this morning so wasn’t implantation after all 🤦🏼‍♀️

@Annny27 maybe your not at the excessive EWCM stage of your cycle yet? What vitamins are you taking? I almost chucked my preconception vitamins out the window in a rage this morning when I came on 🤣🤣

@kiwi17 oh no, bloody typical! Better whip out the WD40 🙈🙈

@Babyghirl 🤞🏻 Fingers crossed You did indeed have a top quality egg and sperm and the magic is currently happening 😉

@justwant2beamum oh wow, mine will be day 4 also as I’m getting them done Thursday now. Have they referred you for a scan also? Strangely reassuring to have someone else going through the same process at the same time 💕