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3dpo, 1st cycle. TWW with me?

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extrababydust123 · 20/04/2021 14:08

Anyone else 3dpo? When do you suggest the best time to test is? I have some frer’s and some ic’s and I honestly think I won’t be able to get through the weekend without testing 😫🤣

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Imo123 · 01/05/2021 19:19

Fingers crossed!! We've been trying for 5 cycles now which I know isn't that long but it felt like forever! This cycle the thing we did differently was use a ferti lily cup which I feel like they might be controversial but the reviews were incredible and I found a discount code so thought it was worth a shot! We only ended up DTD 3 times because I messed up with my ovulation tests so I feel like it definitely had something to do with it! Worth checking out!

extrababydust123 · 01/05/2021 20:01

@Imo123 @FinnsMammy congrats both! 🥳 so lovely to see more BFP’s! 💗

AF came for me today, and I’m actually really happy about being onto cycle 2! Really hope this next cycle is the one for all of us who didn’t get our BFP’s this month 🤞🏽

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Cosyclothes · 02/05/2021 10:36

@FinnsMammy huge congrats!! 🎉🎉 anything this morning? Yes I am using first response tests, I tested this morning and got a super duper faint line, so faint I’m not even sure it was there so I’ll have to test again tomorrow morning and see!! I also had some blood when I wiped but af isn’t due for 4 more days??

@Emsjourney I’m sorry it’s taking so long 😢 you have every right to feel upset. I think people who aren’t ttc don’t really know what it feels like.

@Imo123 congratulations!! 🎉🎉

lena21 · 02/05/2021 11:47

@extrababydust123 - sorry AF arrived, will keep everything crossed for u this cycle🤗

I did a clear blue digital, got a positive however ICs aren't getting darker... so preparing for the worst 😢.. oh well we tried 😭

Katiekattty · 02/05/2021 17:11

@extrababydust123 fingers x next cycle. I’m hanging around for that BFP

ohhisammi · 02/05/2021 20:42

How did everyone get on ?
Anymore BFP ?

I'm CD 1 today of month 3 TTC 👶🏼

THIS IS OUR MONTH LADIES 🥰

FinnsMammy · 02/05/2021 21:22

@Cosyclothes I didn’t test today with first response as it’s too expensive but I did a boots cheapie yesterday and it was totally blank and did one today and see enclosed the line is visible. I’ll do a first response in the morning at DPO 11 and at 13 and 15 I want to make sure it’s getting darker unlike last month. I’ll post my first response test in the morning. I hope yours gets darker but the blood could be from implantation in which case it could take 48 hours to produce HCG xx! I’m nervous after last month xx

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FinnsMammy · 02/05/2021 21:31

@lena21 I know the feeling! Fingers crossed your lines darken up. Although my friend had a baby girl and she only ever got faint lines with her abd not until she was about a week late so you never know ! X

Bexboo1 · 02/05/2021 21:43

@Cosyclothes I'm 13dpo today and when I wiped earlier there was watery brown blood, hasn't happened since but I'm really worried, also feeling crampy but have felt like this since last week! 🥺

Veronika13 · 02/05/2021 23:50

@ohhisammi

How did everyone get on ? Anymore BFP ?

I'm CD 1 today of month 3 TTC 👶🏼

THIS IS OUR MONTH LADIES 🥰

Hi 🙋🏼‍♀️ My af is due on Sunday. Feel like terrible PMS so I'm prob out.

Then it'll be my 3rd month trying. How you finding it ? I'm fine one day and a bit deflated another day. 70% of the time I'm fine 🙂 with an occasional dramatically panic throwing in of thinking I'll never be pregnant 🤣

Cosyclothes · 03/05/2021 00:03

@FinnsMammy oh wow that line is so visible!! Hopefully it’s a strong little baby and will hang on in there! ❤️❤️ I am having serious doubts about my test this morning, I was convinced there was the faintest shadow of a line but I’ve been looking at it all day and I think it may have been a trick of the light. Hubby couldn’t see anything at all! I’ll test again tomorrow morning and see what happens. I have my last first response, they really are so expensive, I must look into ordering them online because my local pharmacy is v expensive. But convenient!

@Bexboo1 oh no! If it was only once and didn’t happen again I’d say you are fine! TMI alert, mine was first thing this morning, dark brown with a bit of red. Then later on it was brown again, I really don’t think It’s af because I am regular like clockwork and not due for another 4 days! Hoping it may be implantation bleeding?? Who knows.

@Veronika13 welcome!! This is my 2nd month, not trying as hard as I could but not preventing either. Half of me would love to have a baby on the way and the other half loves life the way it is child free and is terrified 😂

FinnsMammy · 03/05/2021 05:43

Ok girls here’s my first response test at 11DPO on the 3 minute mark taken with FMU. Let’s hope this bean sticks! @Cosyclothes best of luck 🤞🏻 for you ! Xx

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lena21 · 03/05/2021 08:35

@FinnsMammy - that looks like a good clear line, so happy for u!!🌈🤗

Bexboo1 · 03/05/2021 08:36

@Cosyclothes don't think it can be as I've already got my bfp and clear blue showing 1-2 weeks on the digital 😩. Has anyone else experienced this? Yesterday would have been my af due and I've had brown spotting when I wiped? I'm really worried x

Imo123 · 03/05/2021 08:55

@Bexboo1 I had some spotting 13 dpo, the day I was due and just assumed it was AF coming (until I tested again) now I think it must have been implantation bleeding? Mine was red though but I've read it can be brown too, I think it's different for everyone. Try and stay positive 🙏🏼

FinnsMammy · 03/05/2021 08:56

Thanks @lena21 I hope this one sticks 🙏
@Bexboo1 it could just be implantation left over blood at 13 DPO or it could be the start of a chemical it’s unfortunately very hard to know. Last month I experienced this at circa 17dpo and I ended up misscarrying but I knew it wasn’t normal for me as I never had anything like this with my son so for me it wasn’t normal but it can be totally normal! Just keep an eye on the line is it darkening every 48 hours?? For me it started with brownish blood in the morning then nothing until the afternoon then it got heavier abd turned red. I hope for you this is not the case, but if it is I was there this time last month and now I’m pregnant again so I’m proof that you can get pregnant again straight away ! Best of luck fingers and toes crossed for you ! X

Cosyclothes · 03/05/2021 09:03

@FinnsMammy thank you! Just tested this morning. So first of all I don’t think enough per got on the stick 😂 but I got a half faint line? As in it started at the bottom and stopped about half way?

Has anyone had this before? I think the test may be defective, I have no tests left so not sure whether I should go out and get some or wait until tomorrow.

FinnsMammy · 03/05/2021 09:21

@Cosyclothes sounds defective! 🙈 but at least you know it’s picking up HCG lol maybe pick up some more I don’ think I cud handle that lol

Emsjourney · 03/05/2021 12:00

@FinnsMammy ahh this lines 😍😍 so happy for you!
Cycle day 3 for me, feeling positive this month 🤞❤️
Hope everyone's ok xx

FinnsMammy · 04/05/2021 06:37

@Bexboo1 and @Cosyclothes how did you get on. I wiped this morning and has a small bit of blood (cud be implantation but I’ve never got it before) did a test and there’s not much line progression between this morning and yesterday ( I know I should wait 48hours) but I feel like the same thing a chemical might be happening again this month 😢

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Bexboo1 · 04/05/2021 07:31

@FinnsMammy I have been bleeding lightly since yesterday, just when I wipe. It's light in colour not like af, so really confused. There's no clots though which I'm also confused about. Going to take another clear blue digital in a few days and see if it goes up or goes to not pregnant. Does this sound similar to your chemical? X

Bexboo1 · 04/05/2021 07:32

@FinnsMammy also the bottom looks darker than the top! Could just be implantation, I wouldn't worry if it was only a tiny little bit x

FinnsMammy · 04/05/2021 08:35

@Bexboo1 thanks for the reassurance and fingers crossed for you. Last month I woke up at7am to light bleeding pink in colour at 18dpo by 4pm that day it was red with small clots and a full on period. I feel this is different this month as I’m within the implantation window of 7 to 14 DPO and so far I’ve only had a tiny bit of pink /rust brown colour when I wiped. I’m just very cautious this month. Yours sounds like it might be implantation.🤞🏻🤞🏻 I think your right the bottom one is slightly darker I took another pic . Really hope this is my month too . Xx

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Bexboo1 · 04/05/2021 09:01

@FinnsMammy I can imagine, it's so alarming seeing it isn't it? Especially after what you have been through last month. I spoke to epu yesterday and they were really nice and said they would scan me next week. I'm going to see how long it lasts as it's strange it's not dark red or heavy more like a runny pink mucus (sorry tmi) but it's so worrying I'm going out of my mind. My clear blue yesterday said 1-2 weeks and that was after I started bleeding but I feel like it's too late for implantation bleeding. I think it's really uncommon to have 2 miscarriages in a row so I'm sure this month you'll be fine and have a lovely healthy pregnancy xx

FinnsMammy · 04/05/2021 10:49

@Bexboo1 good luck keep us posted. Hopefully it’s nothing with my son I had a small bit of bleeding at 8to 9 weeks literally a few drops of dark red blood it turned out to be a subchorionic hematoma which was small and cleared up on its own so I know that bleeding can mean anything but we will just have to wait and see. I haven’t had anything more since this morning but yes I’m definitely cautious and i know it’s like a 1% chance of miscarriage 2 in a row but you just never know. Xx