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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

Any tips on how to concieve a boy?

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Ttchelp1 · 17/04/2021 14:02

Obviously would love my child regardless so no judgement please. Any tips from you boy mums on what you did to concieve your boy?

Tia

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ShowOfHands · 17/04/2021 17:11

None of the theories actually work in reality. Your chances remain pretty much 50/50.

And it turns out that not only was Shettles' theory debunked, he'd apparently misunderstood which were male sperm and which were female sperm.

Good luck though op!

popcorndiva · 17/04/2021 17:11

The theory with male sperm being faster says a woman needs to orgasm after penetration and deeper the better

Ttchelp1 · 17/04/2021 17:11

@ShowOfHands

None of the theories actually work in reality. Your chances remain pretty much 50/50.

And it turns out that not only was Shettles' theory debunked, he'd apparently misunderstood which were male sperm and which were female sperm.

Good luck though op!

Thank you so much :)
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AlexaNeverListens · 17/04/2021 19:28

I just used this - or something similar. I had a DS first and really wanted a DD so used this. It worked!

I also read that to have a boy you should put your legs above your head afterwards. Something to do with boy sperm being fast as opposed to girl sperm being strong.

Good luck OP 💐

Any tips on how to concieve a boy?
NameChange30 · 17/04/2021 19:30

"supposedly XY sperm swim faster but don’t last as long, whereas XX sperm are slower but hang around"

Sperm are not XY or XX, they are Y or X. The egg is X so together with the sperm that makes XY (male) or XX (female). Basic biology!

The "methods" are all nonsense.

Ellasmummyx1 · 17/04/2021 19:36

Just remember for the Chinese chart to use your lunar age and not your normal age. If you google lunar age calculator, that’ll give you your age and that’s the age you need to use Smile

SylviaPlath1984 · 17/04/2021 19:45

@Skyliner001

Is your husband Henry VIII?
😂😂😂
LivingDeadGirlUK · 17/04/2021 19:47

I'm a bit :S at a Chineese chart being a thing given all the aborted baby girls!

DuchessOfSausage · 17/04/2021 19:49

Smear your body in kimchi and stand on your head holding a slice of ham in your left hand while having sex. Works every time

mermaidsariel · 17/04/2021 19:53

For a boy have sex on the day of ovulation or just after. For a girl it’s a couple of days or so before ovulation . Eating more dairy gives a higher chance of a girl. Those with less body fat are more likely to conceive boys.

Girl or Boy Your chance to choose by Hazel Philips worked for me.

Ttchelp1 · 17/04/2021 23:39

Grow up!

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Ttchelp1 · 17/04/2021 23:40

Grow up!

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Ttchelp1 · 17/04/2021 23:42

The grow up is for 'skyliner001' and 'sylviaplath1984' their quote isn't being attached for some reason for any that are wandering!

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Ttchelp1 · 17/04/2021 23:44

@DuchessOfSausage

Smear your body in kimchi and stand on your head holding a slice of ham in your left hand while having sex. Works every time
Having not long joined mumsnet I am shocked at some of the horrendous people on here
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BusLaneLady · 17/04/2021 23:48

The Chinese gender chart worked for me as well not that I wanted a boy at the time but it showed that I was going to have a boy.

FirstTimeMumma2021 · 17/04/2021 23:50

It really is a 50/50 chance in the majority of cases.

I spent a lot of time looking for fun when TTC but honestly seen multiple Chinese calendars where some said boy and some said girl! In terms of the other methods like Shettles, its all been debunked but because it will have worked for around 50% of people by chance, you'll hear success stories as well.

Expecting our baby boy in just over 4 weeks and all I can tell you is we DTD every 2nd day throughout my whole cycle and every day during ovulation. I also put a pillow under by bum afterwards for at least 10 minutes after and didn't wipe until after the 10 minutes was up lol! Also, have fun with it so it doesn't feel like a chore. I found there was less pressure that way ☺️

Good luck xx

campion · 17/04/2021 23:51

Why are you keen to conceive a boy?
Do you already have girls?

StayingHere · 18/04/2021 00:04

It's 50/50. You can try any of the techniques above but there is little scientific evidence to back them up.

sweetkitty · 18/04/2021 00:40

Is it not doggy style, have an orgasm, day of ovulation, eat meat and cheese type foods?

I had a boy after 3 girls didn’t do any of this barely even remember having sex Grin I’m actually convinced DH cloned himself as the 3 DDs Jake my eyes and colouring, DS is a clone of his father even down to his walk and laugh, it’s quite scary I’m sure there is none of my DNA involved!!

OolieMacdoolie · 18/04/2021 00:47

I really don’t recommend that ingender forum. I’ve seen it mentioned on here before but it’s absolutely disgusting. It has people actively discussing aborting their babies for not being the desired sex. It’s a really dark corner of the internet.

3JsMa · 18/04/2021 00:59

Don't stress,it's all up to your DH/DP anyway.
However,I did conceive my 3DS at night,so long rest afterwards,relaxed etc.
My 4th was a girl after rushed,morning quickie and very stressful day (my oldest had serious bike accident that day,so I was rushing in and out of hospital for the next few days).

TownTalkJewels · 18/04/2021 01:06

There is actually research showing that in ‘high stress’ situations, you are more likely to conceive a girl. It’s not clear why, but there seems to be an evolutionary reason (girls are easier to raise & marry off even when there’s less money/ food around.)

So the pandemic may not be the best time for conception of a boy!

In general though... I’d say try to relax, there’s little you can do to control it.

BastardGoDarkly · 18/04/2021 01:12

@OolieMacdoolie

I really don’t recommend that ingender forum. I’ve seen it mentioned on here before but it’s absolutely disgusting. It has people actively discussing aborting their babies for not being the desired sex. It’s a really dark corner of the internet.
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Hannsmum · 18/04/2021 01:23

@DramaAlpaca

I'm fairly certain that I conceived all three of my children on the day I ovulated. Coincidentally, all of them are boys.
Yea same for my boy. I wanted a bit after my girl and I DTD on the day I ovulated. ( i get this nasty pain on ovulation day so i knew) and I had a boy

Might have been sheer coincidence..

NameChange30 · 18/04/2021 05:14

@DuchessOfSausage

Smear your body in kimchi and stand on your head holding a slice of ham in your left hand while having sex. Works every time
Grin
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