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TWW! Lets talk our way through it

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mumtoone2019 · 08/04/2021 07:46

Hi everyone!

So i'm in the tww! Not even sure i caught ovulation on time this month and after 8 failed months ttc i'm not very positive.

Feeling very disheartened as i have just found out 2 friends are pregnant on their 1st month of trying.

Trying not to symptom spot as like i said above, i have a feeling it wont be this month.

How are you all getting on?

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Skl2021 · 11/04/2021 22:13

@tulips87 I'm glad u said something! I was quite calm but the further I'm getting into this tww

Skl2021 · 11/04/2021 22:15

The harder it's getting. It's all I can think about and I'm starting to feel down for no reason just not feeling so confident about this month now. My Mood is allover and everything my oh is doing is really irritating me 😂 7 dpo here too. X

Abbey29 · 11/04/2021 22:47

Hi All :) please could I join :)

This is our first month TTC. I am 29 and feel really out of my depth! I am 6po and I have started to have period cramps that are quite tight and I feel like I'm full of gas just so bloated. I have never done this before so I have no idea if I am just going mad.

Hope everyone is safe and well Biscuit

mumtoone2019 · 12/04/2021 07:39

Feeling down about it all yet again.. i seem to have a good day then a bad day. I'm sure we'd feel better if we just knew as the wait is horrendous!

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tulips87 · 12/04/2021 11:24

@Skl2021 I know how you feel, I lost my sh!t yesterday morning because the yolk of my egg broke in the frying pan, normal I really wouldn't be too bothered. My temper has been not so good the last few days.
I hope you're feeling more positive about it today? 8dpo and not too long to go!
Will you be testing early? x

tulips87 · 12/04/2021 11:25

@mumtoone2019 it's normal to feel down then amazing the next day, it's hormones and the ttc journey is a bloody rollercoaster with emotions!! Hopefully with lockdowns easing it might help? Try and keep yourself busy xx

Skl2021 · 12/04/2021 11:35

@Abbey29 welcome! 6 dpo is super early yet and period symptoms and pregnancy symptoms are similar so it's hard to tell 🙈 just have to wait it out a bit longer!
@mumtoone2019 it's definitely a rollercoaster I can't wait to find out this wait kills me the closer I'm getting the worse it is 😂
@tulips87 haha I'm hoping IV woken in a better mood today. Yesterday anything my oh did annoyed the hell out of me even if he wasn't doing anything 🙊 I'm absolutely desperate to test now!!! I'm trying to hold off until 10dpo but the urge is getting real wbu xx

tulips87 · 12/04/2021 13:17

@Skl2021 I'm desperate to test too. But I don't like the idea of it being negative and having the longest wait for AF or being positive and knowing so soon. I can't win! Haha
But then at the same time I kind of neeeeed to POAS!

Skl2021 · 12/04/2021 13:26

@tulips87 I had a moment of madness and tested. 🤦wasn't even fmu!! Obviously negative why oh why do I do it when I knew nothing would show. Ridiculous. I have no self control 🙈😂 need to give myself a slap!!!

Sadie95 · 12/04/2021 14:42

BFN this morning and faint line this afternoon with the same type of test, think it's an evap or indent as had the same last month so it must be a bad batch. Promised myself I wouldn't use them but I did 😭

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Skl2021 · 12/04/2021 15:07

@Sadie95 are these tests from different times? As I can see a line on both 🤔 or they the same test x

Sadie95 · 12/04/2021 15:12

@Skl2021 same test but this mornings was stark white 🤷🏼‍♀️ I had a similar thing last month but the line wasn't as clear as this.. I'll test again tomorrow and see if anything comes up.. I do just think it's the crappy tests

Skl2021 · 12/04/2021 15:16

@Sadie95 what dpo are you now? I know some people do get darker tests later in the day compared to fmu. But I also hate them cheapie tests cos of Shadows and indents. I would wait it out until af or try another test. X

Sadie95 · 12/04/2021 15:26

@Skl2021 I'm 9dpo today, think I'll go buy some other tests I just hate wasting money on them which is why I tend to get IC's. Any suggestions on which ones to get? X

Skl2021 · 12/04/2021 15:32

@Sadie95 ohh your stil early! Surprised your even getting hints of a line. I would wait a couple of days. Easier said than done tho! 😂🙈 Frer seems to be the best. I think IV heard superdrug do there own good pink dye one aswell. I do hate spending money on them too so use ic's 🙈 then play the guessing game xx

Sadie95 · 12/04/2021 15:37

I got a digital positive with my LG 3 years ago so I just presume something would show up by now 🤦🏼‍♀️ I'll pop to Superdrug and have a look! How many dpo are you? X

Skl2021 · 12/04/2021 15:55

@Sadie95 wow that is early especially with a digital they usually take longer to show up! I'm 8 dpo might not have even had implantation yet so don't know why I tested. I never show this early. I just have no willpower and caved 🙈😂 and I only have cheapies in so wasn't expecting alot x

Sadie95 · 12/04/2021 15:58

My digital was 10dpo even not 9 😅 I'm a POAS addict, I can't help myself! Even though I know it's going to be negative I still do it to myself. When are you going to test next? Xx

BloodyHellAudrey · 12/04/2021 17:14

These are FRER dupes and tend to be quite good. Made in the same factory I believe. I have ordered some easy@home cheapies just to satisfy myself if I feel the need closer to the end of the week.

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Skl2021 · 12/04/2021 17:23

@Sadie95 yes exactly this!! I'm totally the same. I don't know why I did it today because I knew nothing would be there. But did it stop me nope!! 😂 As soon as I get to the bathroom it takes over me. I want to wait until 10 dpo at least longer if I can but who am I kidding 🙈🤦🤣
@BloodyHellAudrey they look identical never seen them before might have to try them! Good price aswell x

mumtoone2019 · 12/04/2021 18:28

@Sadie95 i can see a line on both too! Fingers crossed for you.

I've been feeling quite queasy today but not sure if its all in my head.. so tempted to go get a clear blue early test - this wait is a killer

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BloodyHellAudrey · 12/04/2021 18:52

@Sadie95

BFN this morning and faint line this afternoon with the same type of test, think it's an evap or indent as had the same last month so it must be a bad batch. Promised myself I wouldn't use them but I did 😭
I definitely see something and it looks very dark to be a evap. How long between taking the test did it come up?
Sadie95 · 12/04/2021 19:01

I got some Superdrug early detection ones.. I'll test tomorrow, if there isn't anything there I'll wait till my period is due x

Skl2021 · 12/04/2021 19:03

@mumtoone2019 sometimes I think it's in my head too 🤣 such a confusing time! Every little twinge or symptom I'm thinking this is it! What dpo are you? Try and hold off as long as you can 🤞

Skl2021 · 12/04/2021 19:05

@Sadie95 good luck 🤞hope it's positive news xx

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