Would I take this as ovulation?🤞

[Skl2021]

Would you say the 3rd test down was my peak? Seems to be getting lighter top one was today. These were alot brighter irl. The picture of one on its own was the third test down before it dryed. How many more days should I DTD? And when would I class 1dpo? Thanks 😁

@Confused678866 yes now I need to buy pregnancy tests! Not something I thought I would be doing again. Crazy how the one time u actually want to see the pregnancy test get lighter or be negative. Horrible seeing it positive now. Even though u have spent months desperate for the positive 😩 such a cruel game. I'm hoping the bleeding stops soon and I can move on a bit without being reminded every time I go to the toilet xx

@Skl2021 Yes it's not fair at all, very cruel. That's why I don't think it should be doing to you, I think it should be done at hospital as part of the after care. I hope it stops for you too 🤞🏻❤️ did they say how long it can last for? Xx

@Confused678866 they said it can be a couple of weeks and should start to get lighter. I have read stories online were people have bled for weeks so guess it's just wait and see. I had heavy periods anyway so hoping I'm over the worst. Just hope my periods come back soon and I'm not waiting months. They were very unpredictable before 🙈 so probably worse now! I have also read that u can ovulate around 2 weeks after miscarriage before your next period so have to be careful if you don't want to get pregnant straight away xx

@Skl2021 Hopefully not too much longer for you then 🤞🏻 not a nice thing is it to be constantly reminded.
Oh yeah I've read that too.. and you're more fertile etc aren't you xx

@Confused678866 I thought that too but I don't know if it's true 🤔 I think the rate of another miscarriage is lower if you fall pregnant within 6 months of miscarriage. So much information out there so much to take in. Something I have never read about as it's never Happened. Can't believe how common it is and how it's hardly spoke off. X

@Skl2021 Yeah I think it is true that you're more fertile.. that's why you're told to be careful after you've had a baby!
Yes I totally agree, it must be so hard to follow the right information when there seems to be so little support! It really is very common isn't it.. my SIL had a missed miscarriage a few years ago and she said it's just awful how little it's spoken about 😔 xx

@Confused678866 I always thought it was true but there's not alot on the internet that agrees. Yes u don't realise how many people go through it and it's horrible. U would think there is more support out there for it. I hope she went on to have a happy ending 💞😩 xx

@Skl2021 Yeah I think it is true!! I can't remember the reason why but I looked into it before!
Yes she did, she had two little boys after it! There's always hope ❤️❤️ xx

@Confused678866 will see how my periods behave when they come back. They have form for not doing as there told 🙈🤣 aww that's a nice ending! Lots of people do go on to have another child. I guess it's just getting over the fear again. I don't want this to happen again. But the thought of not having a baby again is also scary! X

@Skl2021 Hopefully they'll be on their best behaviour! 🤞🏻
Yeah definitely I get that.. a total mixture of emotions and it's understanding, completely!! Xx

@Confused678866 I hope so too 🤞🤞 how are you and bump doing? Have u got any appointments or anything happening soon xx

@Skl2021 Keeping everything crossed for you lovely ❤️
Yeah all okay thank you. Just had a couple of hospital appointments and a midwife appointment the other day.. just got another midwife one in about 3 weeks xx

@Confused678866 aww glad everything is ticking along nicely! Keep yourself safe especially how covid is going ATM! I will check back in a few days! Thankyou so much for the support 💞 😘 xx

@Skl2021 I know! I don't see anyone at all or do anything! Going pumpkin picking on Sunday and that's only because it's outdoors!
No worries at all, speak soon and look after yourself ❤️ xx

@Confused678866 how weird is that we are so similar 🤣 were off pumpkin picking too on Sunday! Well if I'm upto it if not kids and dad will go! Haha have fun 🎃🎃 xx

@Skl2021 Ahh bless you, hope you are, it will do you good. You too 🎃 xx

@Confused678866 hi how you doing xx

@Skl2021 Hey, I'm okay thank you, how are you?? Xx

@Confused678866 I'm ok I think. It's such a rollercoaster and comes in weird stages. I can be totally fine and then something little just sets me off. The bleeding seems to be stopping but that also starts and stops so hoping I'm getting somewhere 🤞 I just wish I knew if it was completely done and if it's safe to try again. Don't want to get an infection. I decided to name the baby hope. I don't know if I told you. Just didn't sit right with me not remembering them. I know it was still early but it was a fully formed baby with fingers and toes and we had a future with them. My oh got me a necklace with the name and date and some angel wings so something nice to remember them x

@Skl2021 Yes I can totally imagine it must be such a rollercoaster!
How long do they recommend before trying again?
Oh that's so so lovely, and I can totally understand it all. As you say, that was your baby and your future. That's such a lovely thing for your OH to do, lovely to always remember them by ❤️ xx

@Confused678866 I don't even know the advice is so conflicting. I think once bleeding stops. But then others say 2 weeks. But I have stop bleeding but it's there when I wipe so guess I still wait. I'm in a different situation with doing it naturally and I don't get a scan to see if it's all completed so I'm just totally confused. I think I will take a test today and see if it's positive. I think it wil be but I need to know. Never thought I'd be desperate to see a negative test. Xx

@Skl2021 Oh okay, yes just be careful. Just very poor that you're left to sort it all on your own, you should be given a scan so you know and know when it's safe to try again etc.
Yeah I bet, how weird that must be for you. Well I'm sending positivity your way and I hope you get your negative test so you at least know a little more where you stand xx

@Confused678866 I have just taken a test and it's negative 🙌 I could cry with relief. Didn't expect it to be negative this quick. However I took an opk and it's positive. Surely this means I'm ovulating as there's no HCG for it to pick up 🤔😩 so confusing x

Hi
Me and boyfriend BD last night and then again this afternoon as won't be able to tomorrow.

My peak was this afternoon about lunch time.

Have I got a good chance? 🙂

Thanks 🙂

@Skl2021 Oh gosh, I don't know what to say? I think you're right as the test was negative but the OPK was positive.. oh wow how confusing 😫 xx