Trying for a baby after a miscarriage

[Lovegirl1232]

I lost my baby at 8 weeks had a d&c on Dec 31 2020. Worst thing that has ever happen to me that same year I had my daughter may 1st 2020 happies year and worst year ever..
Now my husband and I trying again for next baby. I want to try right away so we have been.
Jan 25th had my first ovulation but we did not conceived had my first af after the loss on feb 9th..
I should be ovulating on the 24th been tracking my temp and also using cheap ovulation and also clearblue ovulation ( ya I know I dont need to use all but I have them so why not ) already got a flashing smile but temp still low also cheap ones are still light todays the 18th so is expected to be like this ..
Just wanted to see who will like to do this together this month. Just sharing .. Updates .. encouragement... loving support... Also how your doing on grief on angel babies And on our ways to our rainbow babies ...our bfp ❤❤❤❤❤❤ let me know your updates much love

@Lizzbb thank you. Yeah I was relieved to get a negative, after all the bad luck I have I was almost expecting more problems! Oh I hope it comes back soon for your sake!

@Waterb0ttle Aww thank you. It was awful. Being in limbo for like 4+ weeks and I didn't have a clue what was going on in my body! Somehow the laparoscopy had a benefit because they were able to see everything inside and reassured me everything is perfectly healthy in there, meaning there was no reason to wait before trying again. I'd take either at this point 😂

@danielleb97 hey hun af came back yesterday. Never been so happy. Once this finishes will start testing :-)

Yeah understand anything will do right now haha. I'm no clue where I am in my cycle though haven't had a bleed since getting pregnant driving me crazy because I just want to know were I am so I don't have to test every weekend to be on the safe side. I'm irregular anyway but atleast I had an idea 😂. Has anyone else had af since?

It's really nice to talk about this I know it's a touchy subject but just to get everything out is helping a lot

Hi ladies how are y'all doing?
I'm on my 2 week wait not sure what dpo but I'll be testing the 3.6.21 please pray for me. I hope god bless me with my rainbow baby this month 💛

Hey I am praying for you this month 😊🙏.

I'm still trying but trying to wait for my period but it isn't turning up its been 5 weeks since surgical management so I'll probably test on the 4th to be on the safe side and maybe every 2 weeks after that until I get my period or a bfp

@Waterb0ttle Hiya. Had a nice relaxing bubble bath and started taking complex and period came back after like 4 wks after my mc. Was so happy I got it. I'm thinking of maybe testing from next month as I wanna see if anything has changed like has my circle gone up or down. How long with my period be? Not sure yet.

@Lovegirl1232 good luck. So ur within the 2 weeks window. Read how it can be torture lol. I'm one that does obsess as I loose interest and count of it loool. For me it's like af comes or not. Hmmmm looool. Praying for u. Did u say ur testing in june?

Sending you baby dust for your rainbow baby this month ✨🌈

@Waterb0ttle it'll be 4 weeks tomorrow since I had my surgical management and no sign of my period yet. My cycle was every 28-30 days before, like clockwork. I hope things go back to normal for us soon. 🤞🏼

I always lose my mind during the 2ww I tend to fill my brain will every thing but baby talk haha.

I haven't had a normal cycle since coming off to the pill, had a bleed after stopping the pill in August and then nothing since, had a slight bleed after surgical management, I'd be happy with af showing up soon thought for peace of mind

So sorry to read of your mc.

I had a mmc in April 2019 after trying for 8 months. It was the worst time of my life. I fell pregnant again in December 2019 and I am now watching my 5 month old dd on the monitor as she naps in her cot.

Good luck!

@Chanel05 congrats hun. What vitamins did you start taking. Did u do anything differently for the new pregnancy that you didnt do from the last?

I had the implant out in May 2019 and my body did nothing for about 3 months, then fell back into a regular cycle. When did you have your surgical management? I had an ERPC on the 29th Jan

Is anybody doing anything different like vitamins etc... I really don't want to start something new as I'm only taking folic acid and vit d at the minute. But if there's a small chance it will help I'm willing to try.

I'm having a few cramps this afternoon nothing noticeable only because I'm always symptom spotting 😂

@Lizbb I only took pregnancare as I did the whole way through from beginning ttc. My original due date was November and I was so stressed about trying to fall pregnant before it happened that I think my body wouldn't have let it happen with that level of stress. After the due date, I relaxed and fell pregnant in the next cycle.

What do you all make of this. I'm 9dpo and did this test at 5pm after work ...

@Poplartree1

What do you all make of this. I'm 9dpo and did this test at 5pm after work ...

I see a line... Congrats 🙏 praying for you, keep me updated. I would wait maybe 2-3 days and test again you'll see a big difference in test 😁

[quote Chanel05]@Lizbb I only took pregnancare as I did the whole way through from beginning ttc. My original due date was November and I was so stressed about trying to fall pregnant before it happened that I think my body wouldn't have let it happen with that level of stress. After the due date, I relaxed and fell pregnant in the next cycle. [/quote]
I'm similar, I track constantly through ttc, and then one month just stopped and fell pregnant that month so didn't really know where I was in my cycle. Were still going for the relax approach and not track as much because last time it exhausted us.

@Waterb0ttle I think some people over do it. If I'm testing it will just be once a day and let God do the rest. But read stress is attached to what happens to our hormones.

Thank you

[quote Lizbb]@Waterb0ttle I think some people over do it. If I'm testing it will just be once a day and let God do the rest. But read stress is attached to what happens to our hormones.[/quote]
Yes I stressed when we started ttc and the 3rd month I was so stressed with it all, that I just stopped over night and even stopped dtd as much and I fell pregnant that month. I think it really helped to just stop thinking about everything.

I have a friend who has a weak womb and she has had 2 miscarriages already. It has been really painful for her because each of the times those happened, she and her husband were really hoping to have their baby. They also had it tough because they were both busy with work and they had trouble getting into the mood. What they did was, they started working on their sex drives by actually finding something that boosts it for both of them. They decided to try looking for their favorite porn site at mostpopularpornsites.com and it surprisingly worked! My friend seems to be more blooming even now that she's conceiving.

Hi im looking for advice or any known info i miscarried a year ago and since my cycle is irregular i go from 28 to 37 days long , i had a strange unusually thing happen not too sure what to think , i had a short period, on 3rd of feb to 6th i did a ovulation test got posotive 17th 18th 19th wednesday 24th i got some discharge and it was a peach colour then 25th i got a tteaspoon on bright red blood then after iv had brown this happend from day 22 in my cycle and i usually hit a 36/37 day cycle so was conffused but today i did a 6 days early test and got negative does anyone no what it could be?

@Poplartree1

What do you all make of this. I'm 9dpo and did this test at 5pm after work ...

Congrats. I can't wait to test I'm 2 dpo.. Can u share symptoms??

Hey, I tested positive at 9 and 10 spot. I have greasy skin and hair, feeling nausious and tired. How's things with you? Xx