HELP

[Moniqueolson13]

So my due date is September 13, 2021 my due date was calculated based on my first ultra sound . My first day of my last period was Nov 30 2020.
I had sex with guy#1 dec 14,16,20 but he always finished inside me , on Dec 22 I had sex with guy #2 he didn’t finish inside but pulled out . My conception date is dec 21 based on my due date and period as well . I’m pretty sure guy #1 is the dad but I keep having doubts and I even asked my nurse and she told me it’s closerr to guy #1 I’m just anxious and keep thinking what it if isn’t I don’t wanna ask for any of them for dna. I’m 9 weeks and 3 days pregnant I’m I just over thinking and having anxiety ? I already have been diganose with anxiety for years !

Unfortunately you won't be able to know without a DNA test as the dates are so close and scans are not accurate to the day.

Do you know how many days your cycles usually are? I usually have a 26-28 day cycle & ovulate around cd15 so based on those dates if you were similar to me guy#1 should be the father but not definite.
Why don't you put your cycle dates in an ovulation app to see when you likely ovulated that month and it will show you your fertile window, might help give you a bit more confidence x

I guess because there is a two day gap between guy 1 and guy 2, the only way for a definate answer is to do a dna when baby arrives. Even though guy 2 didn't release, there is always that chance that some sperm could have been left! Hope you will be ok.

@Moniqueolson13 pretty sure I replied to you a few days ago about this. It’s too close to call unfortunately. You may get a better idea of conception date at your dating scan. Yes it’s more than likely to be man no1 but it’s too close to call. The only definitive way to know is a DNA test I’m afraid.

As an aside you should probably asked to be referred to the peri natal team for your anxiety.

All the best.