I'm 35 and have ds 3.5 and dd 2. Have not been able to get the idea of a third out of my head so had my coil taken out yesterday. However......I still unsure. I work 3 days a week atm and would be at home full time for a while after this one I think. I could ramble on for hours about this, just want to see if there is anyone else out there in a similar position.