TTC after MC - Jan/Feb 2021 (Thread 17)

[PumpkinEverything]

A new thread for those trying to conceive after miscarriage.

Have tried to tag as many people as possible!
@Bellabubble
@Pancakes7
@TheDaydreamBelievers
@bez91
@NatJ24
@NatNoo96
@ELMcg
@RichmondLady1981
@susiebluebell
@Garman
@RS2609
@bumptobean
@bubblybrit
@PrettyPinkPansies

@bez91 I will 😊 I check in and have a read through everyday just to see what everyone is up to. Feel very attached to you all haha 😂 wish we could all be pregnant at the same time and that it would all be okay!

Omg so many positive tests today!! congrats to you all!! This feels like the place to be for luck to come our way!!

Wow @PumpkinEverything our stories are pretty much identical! I had surgical management on 7th Dec and took until 16th jan to get a negative. I then had first period 23rd jan but it was so light and stop/start for 8 annoying long days. I then had a peak opk on day 13 and here I am day 18 and due on next Wednesday

That’s a very similar story to mine @dippyegg32 I wasn’t 100% sure on whether to call mine a period, but decided just to say it was as the timing worked out 😂 fingers crossed you have the same ending as me 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

@dippyegg32 we are identical on CD and start of period! Mine started on 23rd Jan too and was super weird. I haven't had a positive OPK only a flashing smiley but doesn't mean I havent ovulated I suppose! Just waiting for my AF in 10 days time really!

@Pancakes7 yay!!!! Great news. Fingers crossed for you those positive tests keep coming and getting darker x

@HereWeGoooo I totally missed your positive test and just catching up. Congrats!! Super exciting. Look at all these BFPs!

@ELMcg @dippyegg32 mine started on 23rd and was a very weird one too! I've also not had a positive opk they went up super early then down them up again now down again 🤪 I've bought clear blue for next month cos I don't have a clue what's going on this month haha

I can't sleep. I just took a clear blue ultra early test and it's positive but very faint. I'm hoping I'm just early. I'm going to test each morning and hope it gets darker 🤞🏻 I feel like I can't get fully excited till it's darker incase it's a chemical or something. Wishing I hadn't tested early now 🙈

Ok I've looked online and if I am indeed only 9dpo then a feint positive is good and expected. I'm going to think positive and see how we go 🤞🏻🌈

I’ve just done a clear blue digital and it says ‘pregnant’ :)))) xxxx

@Firevie Great news! I'm hoping I'll get that in a couple of days.

Congrats to all the bfps 🌈 !!
I'm sure I'm reading into it but my temps are really high, higher than they've ever been. Past three days have been 37.08, 37.13 and today 37.2. What's everyone else's temp like? I'm cd19 now, ovulated cd 13.

Forgot the chart!

@dippyegg32 Sorry I don't know about temping. But fingers crossed for you. When will you test?

@Pancakes7 if I'm late. I don't have any tests! I found out really early last time and that just added to the anxiety. I figured the later I know the less time to worry 🤷🏻‍♀️

@Pancakes7 fingers crossed for a dark line for you

@dippyegg32 temps are looking good. Perhaps test on the day of period or a day after expected period?

@dippyegg32 Good idea to leave it. I'm very anxious now. I shouldn't have tested early.

This is today's tests. I also took an early digital but it had an error... I swear I always go wrong with those! I don't have any more. So I'll continue to do the strips for now.

Both great looking positives for 9 DPO @Pancakes7 😁

@Pancakes7 they look good to me them 2 tests 🙊 😀

Thanks @NatJ24 & @PumpkinEverything I have never tested this early and got a positive before. So it's new to me. From googling it looks like they are as expected. I'm still feeling apprehensive until I get a darker line. I feel a bit numb, like I'm not sure what to feel atm. I'm hoping if I get a darker line I'll feel better. But I know I'll still be anxious till an early scan. Mmc/mc's really take the shine off pregnancy don't they.

@Seasalt1984 its all just such a long wait for everything isnt it and then I think because of what we have all been through, its added anxiety on top!
I dont do temp either. I think from what I have read it just helps to confirm that ovulation actually happened? We werent trying long at all before we fell pregnant last time so I think for now I would just stick to the OPKs which worked before, and then if time goes on with no luck can consider temp but I think it would be too much for me right now 😂
So I think I am officially in the TWW now so time is definitely going to drag!
Fingers crossed for you 🤞

@Pancakes7 oh they 100% take off the shine. I think how you feel is perfectly normal. I will be exactly the same as you. But just take each day and then as it goes on and you gain more reassurance hopefully you start to get more excited 🥰

@ELMcg how are you getting on? Have you stopped testing with the CB ovulation now?