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Post Pill Party - The Mosh Pit !!

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Kay00 · 16/01/2021 20:33

As the Post Pill Party fills up, the lights are dimmed and the music drops a beat. The lead singer of this rambunctious band shouts: Mosh Pit!! The ravers all storm for the small space in front of the stage allowing their bodies to dance to the beat however the f* they want!! You go ladies!!

This is the 7th post pill party thread for women whose bodies aren’t quite dancing to the expected rhythm: we have delayed ovulation, crazy long follicular phases, crazy short follicular phases, light AFs, short luteal phases, long luteal phases, confusing temp charts and blindingly white OPKs!

In the crowd I can see:

@juno231
@Kay00
@Moocher90
@MintGreenLife
@Emmgrem
@Nellieee
@TheHotelCalifornia
@ams19
@chinchilly
@MancMama39
@sperr
@crabette
@charwils
@LauraT94
@TheDaydreamBelievers
@cams50
@robyn101
@abi555
@luna57
@tillybabs
@MissC07
@mrsmacmc
@mol234
@KGH5121
@Y1986
@Flowers222
@Katelyn99
@minipilling
@ACNass
@HopeAndDriftWood
@glow92
@FlyingGiraffe
@Rd123
@Taliasometimes
@Elsie2021
@Daisychainsandsunshine
@firsttimemummy321
@Delilah221
@NibbleQueen
@Ttcin2021
@justwanttobemum
@Lovebug06
@ElizabethP141
@Endlessstars
@SalemsPot22

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Kay00 · 24/01/2021 11:49

@moocher90 that's very frustrating. Usually when I'm left in limbo land like that it means I haven't ovulated. My chart from the month past shows lots of activity (although no +OPK) followed by a slight increase in temps... but no ovulation confirmed. I usually have several attempts at ovulation before I finally get there x maybe your body will try again in a few more days x

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LauraT94 · 24/01/2021 11:49

@Juno231 happy birthday for yesterday! Sorry I'm late haha.

@Emmgrem oooohhh I can definitely see a shadow of a line there! This was my FRER at 11dpo and I reckon it would have been very similar to yours at 10dpo!

@abi555 sorry for the BFN but you could still be in with a chance? Regardless, hope you're feeling ok and that your house packing is going well!

@Elsie2021 hope you're not feeling too rough this morning!

I tested this morning (working towards my BFN) and my line was so much lighter than two days ago! So I've got a spring in my step 🥳 pizza and cocktails last night have helped with my good mood haha!

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Post Pill Party - The Mosh Pit !!
Post Pill Party - The Mosh Pit !!
Moocher90 · 24/01/2021 12:05

@Kay00 I have attached my chart! Its so frustrating as I had a peak on opk and static smiley on clearblue :(

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crabette · 24/01/2021 12:18

@Juno231 Happy belated birthday! 🥳 Hope you had a good one, or as good a one as is possible in the current climate!

@Emmgrem I can see a line?!?!!! I can see it on both pics, faint but there. Definitely offer more FRERs and keep us up to date!!

@Elsie2021 How are you feeling?! Hope it's a bean BFP and not the C-word 😭

I've temped this morning and yesterday (despite not having temped the full rest of the month!) and looking promising for having ovulated CD20. Taking your advice @Kay00 and got some B Complex, so started taking that yesterday (the # note on my chart) so hopefully in the game this month. Gasping for a coffee today but might need to start on the decaf! Have you temped since Friday? Are you still hypothermic?! 🙈

@LauraT94 Glad your line is lightening and the pizza and cocktails gave you a boost ❤️ Hope you can get back to it ASAP! 🌈

Sorry your chart is not giving you answers at the mo @Moocher90 😭 Maybe your body will give you another try at ovulation this cycle? Otherwise hope you get AF quick - think the odd anovulatory is totally normal. I read that most folk do get one or two a year anyway, not that it will make you feel better right now!

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ChinChilly · 24/01/2021 12:22

@LauraT94 those cocktails look soo good, pretty professional! Glad your tests look like they’re getting back to normal.

MissC07 · 24/01/2021 12:56

@Emmgrem I'm sure I can see a line too!! Fingers crossed for a few days time!

@Elsie2021 Hope you're feeling better today. You should definitely test if you can so you know if it's BFP or BFC!

@LauraT94 I'm glad things are looking up and your line is progressing. Those cocktails look so good!!!

@Moocher90 I'm sorry your temp isn't playing ball and sorry that work is so stressful for you. Fingers crossed your body tries to ovulate again in the next few days if it hasn't already.

@crabette woohoo hopefully you did ovulate!!

CD24 for me today and I think I ovulated yesterday (hopefully!) my temp has jumped up this morning. But still not sure yet, will keep peeing on OPK's to pass the time today 😂

Cams50 · 24/01/2021 15:01

@Emmgremi can definitely see a line!! Eek!!

@crabette and @MissC07great news that you’ve ovulated!

@ChinChilly glad you’re feeling better! And I agree with you, those cocktails look so professional @LauraT94 and glad your line is progressing.

@Moocher90 sorry about your temps. Super frustrating. Hopefully your body tries again soon.

It’s my fifth day bleeding here but still not proper AF so don’t even know what CD to call this. Sigh. Last month it kicked in on like day 7 of this light bleeding. I decided to message the Doctor yesterday. I’d like the day 3 and 21 blood tests done as I really do feel there’s something not right with my hormones - 12 days of bleeding / super short lp. Don’t know how I’d even do the blood tests accurately though as when is cd 1 😂🤷🏼‍♀️ But hopefully he rings me tomorrow and says I can have them even though I’m not quite at the one year mark yet.

Moocher90 · 24/01/2021 18:09

@Flowers222 how long does it take ovusense to confirm ovulation on the first cycle using it?

LauraT94 · 24/01/2021 20:28

@Moocher90 your chart definitely looks confused! I'm sorry it's not giving you any answers x

@crabette thank you! I still had my one cup of coffee every day in pregnancy, just moved to caffeine free diet coke and decaf tea! So I'd keep up with the coffee for now at least 😜 I'm really hoping this is your month! ❤️

@ChinChilly ooh, confession: they were professional 😂 there's a delivery service local to us so we treated ourselves! Have actually treated ourselves to more for next weekend too! We're ridiculously optimistic that I'll get pregnant again right away so may as well drink together while we can 😂

@MissC07 thanks! Good luck on the TWW!

@Cams50 thank you - I'm sorry you're having such frustrating cycles! Hopefully the doctor can give you some answers.

MissC07 · 24/01/2021 21:07

@LauraT94 @Cams50 thank you! My apps are confusing me though as premom was peak on Fri, then yesterday but now showing as today! Femometer has me 'peak' for the last 3 days... 🤷‍♀️ I'll temp tomorrow to see if it sheds any light, so I stop going down google black hole!

Kay00 · 24/01/2021 21:13

@laurat94 wow!! Delivered cocktails!! 🥳🍸🥳🍹 I hope you are suitably merry!

@crabette well done with the B Complex, hopefully they work as well for you as they do for me 🤞 and haha, yeah, my temp came back up to 36.1 the next day... so just putting temp down as an anomaly.

@moocher90 sorry hun, I don't think you ovulated 😔 keep testing with OPKs, hopefully you'll catch your second peak soon xx

Im taking my first Soy Isoflavones tonight 😬😬😬 I really hope they help me ovulate sooner!!

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Flowers222 · 24/01/2021 22:08

@Moocher90 it can take anywhere from 3-5 days for OvuSense to confirm ovulation. Like FF it looks for a sustained rise in temperature using the green line showing the rolling average. Unfortunately, like @Kay00 has said it doesn't look like you have ovulated from your chart, sorry ☹️

Juno231 · 25/01/2021 07:23

Morning girls! Sorry I've been a bit quiet, bday celebrations and first week of the FP will do that to you.

I'm CD9 today but had a lot of ewcm yesterday so I'm not sure what's going on. Might start the opks a day early just in case...

ChinChilly · 25/01/2021 08:03

@LauraT94 we have a professional cocktail delivery service here but they don’t look like that 😂

@Juno231 hope you had a fab bday!

@Kay00 looking forward to seeing if the soy isoflavones work for you!

I’m not sure what my temps are playing at 🤔

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Ttcin2021 · 25/01/2021 08:35

Morning all,

Have been keeping up with the messages and listening to everyone’s advice..... think I’m starting to understand a bit more!!
So my BBT graph is all over the place..... it keeps moving my ovulation day but equally I am struggling with the temp taking as I am a really light sleeper and probs wake up every half hour ish between 5 and 7 before alarm so I’m unsure if my readings at 7am have even been correct. I know my bbt will be all over the place as only stopped pill 4th jan but..... I thought I ovulated around 14th jan so day 10 ish on here as I had the pains and EWCM..... can you get the pains and it just be nothing? Main question is how my timings might effect bbt as I’m not expecting perfect ovulation on first month!
We’re basically just madly dtd mainly due to our puppy taking over our lives in October snd November so losing all sex life!!

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Juno231 · 25/01/2021 09:28

@Ttcin2021 hello! That does look anovulatory so far. Waking up in the mornings will have an effect but I don't think it would have prevented you from spotting a temp shift. Is your first wake up roughly around the same time? Might make more sense for you to be temping at 5 am than 7 am if that's the case.

@ChinChilly looks like you're having a secondary oestrogen surge. Great chart though - how are you finding BBT?

MissC07 · 25/01/2021 09:36

@ChinChilly could it be anything to do with covid? Maybe that's making your temp go up and down a bit?

@Ttcin2021 you can definitely get pains and it be nothing, when you come off the pill your body plays all sorts of tricks on you and mimics pregnancy & period symptoms. Haha I know what you mean about the puppy! Ours is nearly 6 months now and the only time we really get to ourselves is the evenings or first thing in the morning 🤣

CD25 today, had a temp dip this morning so woken up in a really low and confused mood as I thought I might have ovulated over the weekend. I did wake up at 2am and 5am on Sunday morning so I don't know if this impacted my temp or not.

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ChinChilly · 25/01/2021 09:55

@Juno231 it’s not as difficult as I thought it would be, I tend to just go straight back to sleep, sometimes with the thermometer still in my trap 😂

@MissC07 I did wonder about whether covid was effecting my temps, I had an unsettled night last night too so wondered if that effected my temps 🤔 your chart does look like your body atleast attempted to ovulate. Hopefully the restless night just messed your temps up abit

MancMama39 · 25/01/2021 11:48

Morning All.

A very squinty 11dpo FRER turned into a less squinty 12dpo FRER over the weekend.... then today I got a 14dpo BFP 2-3 on a CB Digital.

I'm very much in shock, and given my age (40 next week), history of CPs and my MMC before having my son I'm feeling pretty terrified but so thankful to be in with a shot. Called GP this morning and they've prescribed me 5mg of Folic Acid daily plus Vitamin D, and said to take those instead of Pregnacare.

Have self referred to midwife team and will see how things go from here. Praying for a sticky bean.

It seems that the slight brown spotting last week must have been IB and not AF as I thought at the time.

Bloody hell...what a Monday X

TheDaydreamBelievers · 25/01/2021 11:50

@MancMama39 congratulations! Crossing my fingers that this goes well for you

ChinChilly · 25/01/2021 11:51

@MancMama39 congratulations 🎉 keeping everything crossed for a sticky bean!

Juno231 · 25/01/2021 12:07

@MancMama39 that's fantastic news! So happy for you Grin. Please keep us up to date and I wish you a very uneventful pregnancy!

Did I tell you ladies I got a letter from the NHS on Friday to say my appointment has been cancelled? Then got another letter through saying it's been rescheduled to a phone appointment two days earlier lol. So it's on Monday next week!

Emmgrem · 25/01/2021 12:47

Omg @MancMama39 that's amazing news!! Congratulations! 🙌👏💖

Do you have pics of your squinty at 11DPO? Did you use FMU? I had a squinter at 10DPO yesterday and it's gone this morning pretty much at 11DPO so I'm really confused now or wondering whether it was an evap or if I should still be hopeful

MissC07 · 25/01/2021 13:15

@MancMama39 Congratulations that's lovely news for a Monday!! Hoping the rest of your journey goes smoothly x

@Juno231 Wow that's confusing!! Glad they are seeing you earlier though!

LauraT94 · 25/01/2021 13:16

@MancMama39 congratulations! That's fabulous news ❤️

@Emmgrem I'm sorry your squinter has disappeared. If it was a squinter at 10dpo, your HCG should have doubled enough in 48hours to give you a reliable result tomorrow ❤️ sorry that you're stuck in limbo and unsure!

@Juno231 exciting that your appt is two days sooner! Hope you're not too disappointed that it's over the phone rather than face to face.