Anyone's BFN at 9dpo turned to a BFP?

[ELBlack]

Hiya, I'm 9dpo and took a test this morning and was a BFN. I know it's super early still, and if I am pregnant implantation may not have happened, but just wondering if anyone tested at this stage and got a BFN which turned into a BFP?

I'm probably clutching at straws, but I just feel different this month....

Hi everyone! Saw all the BFPs on this group so hope it's ok if I hop in. I'm 7 DPO, did a cheap test this evening obv negative. Going to try and wait until Wednesday to test again I have 2 FRER so I'll keep them til closer to 14 DPO. It's our first time TTC and first full month off the pill not expecting a miracle but we'll see what happens! Good luck to everyone x

How are you today @allthingssparkly? xx

Good luck @Rmd123 and @strangerontheinternet fingers crossed for you both xx

I got another 'not pregnant' on a digital this morning :( my line on the frer seems to have got darker though? Stupid digital! I have one more for tomorrow but amazon prime is getting used again today! I should by shares in it! xx

@Carolba I POAS this morning BFN! Was expecting it though as I'm only 8 DPO. Going to wait til Wednesday I'll do one then, Friday and Sunday.

There's definitely a line on the 13 DPO one!!!! Your Hcg might not be enough for a digital one yet. You could do one more FRER tomorrow and a digital Tuesday? X

@Rmd123 I wish I had the willpower you have, I have been testing everyday since 9dpo, got the faintest of faint line on 10 and 11 before I could see it without squinting at 12dpo. I have had 2 chemical pregnancies in the last 3 months so I am super paranoid that my line won't get darker and I will loose this one aswell. I know I should step away from the tests for a couple of days as stressing about it won't change the outcome but I just can't help myself.

Massive good luck for Wednesday 🤞 xx

@carolba definitely see a much darker line on 13dpo!! I would wait 48 hours before doing another digital x

@Carolba fingers crossed this one sticks for you ❤️

@Rmd123 thank you! xx

@ELBlack I will try lol ...... how are you feeling? xx

@carolba so hard to wait I know! I'm OK thanks, feeling a bit strange this morning. Headache, hunger, tired and very slightly off colour but wouldn't say nauseated. Been having crazy dreams and woke up twice to pee so no wonder I am tired lol. How are you? X

@ELBlack I am very tired! a bit crampy, cold symptoms and sneezing a lot (which I had before with DD) and yes the vivid dreams are back!

Got my positive on the digital today yeyy :) but not sure if my frer has got any darker! The one in the middle is this mornings test

@Carolba aw wow huge congrats!!!! So exciting for you x

@carolba yes the dreams are crazy!!

Omg amazing, congratulations!!! So pleased for you x

I got my AF yesterday 1st one since withdrawal bleed in Dec. Been exactly 28 days.. So officially on CD2 now I have bled through pad, underwear & pjs 😭😭😭 anyone else have a super heavy AF 1st period after stopping BC? Anyway hoping for a BFP in FEB 🤞👶

Thank you @ELBlack and @Rmd123 ... still super nervous but trying to relax! xx

@ELBlack its AF, it's just not meant to be this month for me 😊 I'm not putting the pressure on myself, it will happen when it happens. I'm counting myself lucky I already have two healthy children.

Good luck with your pregancy and to everyone else good luck TTC I hope you get your BFP's soon 🤞♥️🤞♥️

Hi ladies, looking for a bit of reassurance please. I'm having a wobble today and feeling really anxious. I'm only 4+4 but I didn't have any crazy dreams last night, and my boobs aren't as sore as yesterday. I also did an IC which looks a tiny bit lighter than yesterday. I'm probably worrying over nothing, but hand holds appreciated xx

@ELBlack aww honey, I can't see any real difference at all but I know how you are feeling! Have you got anymore frer? I always check progression on them so I can track from the very first bfp. Remember it takes about 48 hours to double so theres not usually much change day to day and also depends on sample strength, amount of dye in test etc. Try one tomorrow and check it against yesterday's (not today's) I am 4+3 and didn't have a weird dream last night, they don't happen every night and my boobs aren't sore at all yet. You have a brilliant line for an IC at 4+4. I know it's easier said than done (because I am stressing so much) but try not to worry. You are pregnant my lovely! xx

@carolba thanks for replying 🤗 I do have 2 more frer, but when I did it 2 days ago, the line was bolder and darker than the test line so I didn't see a point in doing anymore. I know it was a silly thing to do 2 days in a row, and it's also still so early etc. I don't think I'm going to test anymore because I find when the lines darken, I'm really excited and if there's not a significant change it gets me down, when in truth, the progression I've had in a week is significant, and I can't rely on the tests to make me feel like the baby is OK, only a scan will do that and there's no reason anything is wrong.

I'm sorry you're stressing too, it's so hard isn't it!! My early scan is 3 weeks on Sat and I cannot wait!! X

@ELBlack yes your right to put the tests down now :) my line still hasn't got as dark as the control line yet so I might (who am I kidding I will) test again! I won't buy anymore though and I have 3 frer and 1 digital left lol ....It is so hard, we worry too much where we have no reason too.

Have you booked privately for your scan? We are booking for either the 6th or 7th of feb, I can't wait either! I just want to get to Monday before I book. Have you referred yourself to a midwife yet? xx

@carolba it's so easy, especially when they're in the house! I was going to get another digital for next week so I could see 3+ but Ive seen so many threads about how unreliable they are so I'm not going to put myself through the anxiety of it.

Yes we booked privately. I've not spoken to midwife yet, gp sent me a self referral form for midwives directly and the form says you need to be 6 weeks +. What about you? Xx

I haven't referred myself yet, where I live you just ring them yourself at anytime and they give you a booking in appointment for when you are about 8 weeks but I am still too nervous! Twice I have referred and had to contact them again to say I had MC so I don't want to have to go through that again. I will wait until the end of next week at least before I ring them. I just want the scan to hurry up lol, I have never wished my life away so much! xx

Hi @carolba sorry just seeing this! So sorry about your previous losses, I totally understand why you would be apprehensive. Sending lots of positivity your way!! When is your scan booked for again?

Hi @ELBlack thank you so much! We have booked for the 7th Feb, when I be 6+6 but it seems such a long way away! I have stopped doing frer busy still doing the digital, and it hasn't changed from 1-2 weeks :( I have just ordered some more. I feel like I will be able to relax a little if I could just see the 2-3 weeks but no luck so far! How are doing? xx

@carolba aww I know how you feel. 13th feels like a lifetime away for me!

I've heard the digital are notoriously bad. I refused to do one after I got my 1-2 because I was scared it would make me so sad if I didn't see progress, and I didn't want to put myself through that. Easier said than done I know, especially in the early stages where its the only thing that makes you feel close to the baby. Have you had any symptoms starting yet?

I'm doing good thanks. I seem to be starving up until lunch time, and then in the late afternoon and evening I feel more normal. Boobs have been very sore and this morning I'm in such a foul mood I'm taking the afternoon off work because I can't stand to talk to anyone lol xx

Mine did. I had BFN's until day 11, then the faintest ever line