Ugh. Looking for hope or a kick up the bum I guess.
My youngest is 10. Me and my then husband didn't use anything after the birth and then we actively tried. I had 3 early miscarriages (recurring theme for me)
We were tested after a year, nothing found. I had an exploratory op, nothing found. I tried everything natural I could find. Soy isoflavones, progesterone cream etc nothing happened.
It was always me getting pregnant every month before this, just whether I'd miscarry or not. And suddenly nothing was happening. Diagnosed with unexplained secondary infertility.
The relationship ended and I've met someone new. We decided to start trying and are on cycle 3 and nothing is happening which I know isn't remarkable by normal standards but with my history I feel it signals the fact it was me that was the issue and is again. And it's crushing.