The filthy sisterhood of basques 👯‍♀️babydolls with easy access holes, IVF drugs & supportive hugs -TTC bus 28

[Minster2012]

Well ladies we made it all of 9 days before needing a new bus, I think I’ve had farts that lasted long, especially when they were in a bag (in blog joke) and now it’s an extra long one...bus, not fart 😜.

We are a chatty bunch it seems and we like to encourage ppl to get involved with our racing car of a TTC bus which can also be a bit of sex education class as well!

It may seem a strange ride here as we’ve got all sorts on our bus (not just the animals). We’ve got long term ticket holders where some of us have been around each other for longer than we care to remember now (so bloody hell some ppl here REALLY are bloody owed a sticky BFP now right??) but cos we love 💓each other and genuinely care about each other we cling together...despite some of us heading of to the infertility clinics, and we’ve got some newbies at the start of their TTC journeys, child number 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 18 we don’t care.

Any questions ask away, we LOVE ppl to get involved...we love those who chatter!! We also love a sex toy 😉

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs

5 BFP already for jan...who is next?? 🥰

@DKDK123 😂 noted 😋

@Minster2012 That’s hilarious!

I’m full of the period rage today, I hid myself in my room earlier because I’d had enough of the kids and OH!!! I’m sure we can all relate to being fed up of being the cleaner, cook, launderette and don’t get me started on homeschooling. I caught my 10 year old playing fifa while on a zoom lesson earlier! So I have to practically sit with him to make sure he does it. My OH I’ve come to realise is a lazy bastard and leaves his shit everywhere. I also have my sister living with me, it was meant to be temporary while she found another house but seems to have got rather comfy in the Chateau De Nat. Give me strength 😩
Congrats on the BFP’s I’ve missed 🎉 and sorry to any AF’s that have arrived. ☹️ X

Finished the stupid midday shift, nothing to report, other than bossboy wearing his favourite too small suit, and lots of people missing but we weren't that busy so....

@Minster2012 oh no! That could only happen to you bless you

@Franklydear woo!! Another day survived and glad it wasn’t that busy.

@Florence13 yes! That’s the way I need to look at it.
How are you?

@DKDK123 that definitely makes me feel better!! Thankyou!!

So OH has been off all week, came home from work at 6 and he's cleaned the whole house top to bottom, and I mean all the stuff he usually forgets too, polishing, dusting, cupboards, door frames, skirting boards the lot!!! I'm so impressed, and my love egg and new underwear turned up today, looks like he's in for a treat🍆

@Minster2012 I've watched the blog. But what did he push under the door? Cardboard? Hope did that help? 🤔🤣

@Franklydear I’m doing ok thank you feel like I’ve had my worst days so trying to be more positive ☺️

@Vil10 that is impressive my OH is useless at cleaning and that’s putting it politely 😂

@Minster2012 that video😂🤣🙈
@Florence13💐
I am officially in knickers watch, I had a tuna Mayo sandwich for a quick lunch and it made me nauseous for about 2 hours, nearly threw up, so dh went oooh...we'll soon find out

@DKDK123 thanks for sharing that chart. I just looked at it thinking I have no idea what that has to do with conception and then googled so thanks for educating me 😂 just looked back over the last 7 months and my RHR correlates perfectly with when I got x2 BFPs - weird. Must remember the dominos too 😉

@Vil10 what a darl, go get him 🍆

@Florence13 hahaha he usually isn't the best!! I'm pleasantly surprised!!

@bez91 just tried on my new crotch less knickers for him and he deffo likes them!!

@Nats7504 god that's so annoying! My DH is rubbish too, I've trained him as much as I can but he still walks through the door takes his shoes off & leaves them 1m IN FRONT of the big f ing shoe cupboard we have. I mean it's actually fortunate our dogs aren't shoe eaters.

@Franklydear you are due tomorrow right? When are you testing? Late as ever 🤣😜😘🤞🏻

@Vil10 send him here will you....I mean for the cleaning, not for anything else. Oops. Awkward. Once you've had your way of course. 😂😋

@DKDK123 it was a big piece of cardboard, thicker than my notepad effort, that I then literally slammed down the side of the door which slid in the catch from the handle. I have since fixed it. I've clearly created either a genius or an evil genius. I feel him & @Franklydear's DS might take over the world in a horrible fashion. (Whilst Frank & I have fun in Spain 🙌🏻🤗)

I feel like there's more AF's due tomorrow aren't there??
@Juno231 you are the Sunday?

So then.
More news.
I got my womb lining scan date for 27th jan. Which makes an earliest transfer the following weds which is 3rd feb.
I started my estrogen today 10mg split over 5 doses, you are meant to eat something with the doses to make you feel less nauseous.
I made it to tea, cooked a lovely vegan tea. Couldn't eat it. Nearly threw up.
Just had 2 fruit pastilles now & some grapes.
Yey
I will do drug stash for the blog tomorrow on nursery day I feel horrendous today

Omg I hate my phone.. I hit send and it thought I hit search! Ffs wiped my whole message! Urrggghhhh!!!

Right... remember what I put.....

Had a right crappy start to the day after the failed attempt for poas. Put me in a terrible mood thinking I'm never gonna be able to have kids if I can't even have a normal cycle! OH convinced me to go for a walk in the woods with the woofer.. after about a mile got to the other side an it was so beautiful covered in snow! Got home in one piece and felt a wee bit better... thank God OH can handle my moods the way he does.. never had an argument yet!

@minster2012 loved your blog DS is brilliant!
After using an eBay cheapies this evening and bfn I've decided it's time to call the clinic to get my appointment. I'm just scared .. I'm worried they are going to say it's not possible for me to have kids.. it's all I've ever wanted in life.. and the mear thought of not be able to is breaking my 💔😭😭😭

Sorry for ranting.. can't say it out loud or I will keep crying..

Sorry it was @paintfairy that asked about the cardboard

@Dollybird89 my heart is with you hun totally. And yes, call the clinic darling, you need to try find out what's going on, what did your doctor say previously?

FMU for a frer or is been-holding-it-so-long-I'm-bursting good enough?

Sorry for jumping back in with a random question after ducking out for so long but ttc was beginning to get me down so stepped back for a while (illness followed by eating, drinking and being very Merry over Xmas and new year) and now I'm a day late! Don't want to get my hopes up but would rather know going into the weekend if I'm getting a drink or not 😂

@minster2012 Dr said everything looks normal.. how can it be normal ? I'm driving myself nuts! Gonna call tomorrow

@Minster2012 I was thinking testing next weekend.... DH says boobs are bigger but that can also be pms
Yes to our DSS taking over the world while we relax in Spain, with a couple of younger siblings too
Hope you feel better soon and find something to eat with that crap....
@Dollybird89 call the clinic and don't let them shush you, you want answers, and we all feel that way, damm I feel like it'll never happen, and I've been pregnant and delivered a healthy boy, our minds are our worst enemies sometimes, I've also lost messages that way and coursed every single person working in HQ....

Congratulations @DKDK123 pizza and Oreo chocolate have been on the 'how to conceive' list for months 😍 glad they're still working haha

@Franklydear next weekend??? As in n f ing weekend? I know you like to be late but a whole week late? 🙀

@Dollybird89 even with the long cycles? You've got the referral letter to an infertility clinic right? Just not followed up?

@Gem176 if you are late you can test after a hold

@Minster2012 yeah, I have test at home from when I was late last month, so I might cave, might

Ooh @Vil10 hubby cleaning without nagging, do tell us what witchcraft you used! 😂

Exciting that your womb scan is so soon @Minster2012! Hope you're guzzling down the POM juice and get the go ahead for transfer 🤞

Rant away without apology @dollybird89, its what we're here for and the ttc journey can be brutal. Hope the clinic get some answers for you.

Did you test @Gem176 or are you waiting till tomorrow?

Technically I wouldn't be actually late till Monday at cd 29 ....

I actually don't know what to say and for me that's very strange 🥲 I've had a wee happy cry!

Woo hoo congratulations @Gem176 ita not even a squinter for not being fmu, that's a nice strong line 🥳