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Minster2012 · 09/01/2021 18:23

Well ladies we made it all of 9 days before needing a new bus, I think I’ve had farts that lasted long, especially when they were in a bag (in blog joke) and now it’s an extra long one...bus, not fart 😜.

We are a chatty bunch it seems and we like to encourage ppl to get involved with our racing car of a TTC bus which can also be a bit of sex education class as well!

It may seem a strange ride here as we’ve got all sorts on our bus (not just the animals). We’ve got long term ticket holders where some of us have been around each other for longer than we care to remember now (so bloody hell some ppl here REALLY are bloody owed a sticky BFP now right??) but cos we love 💓each other and genuinely care about each other we cling together...despite some of us heading of to the infertility clinics, and we’ve got some newbies at the start of their TTC journeys, child number 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 18 we don’t care.

Any questions ask away, we LOVE ppl to get involved...we love those who chatter!! We also love a sex toy 😉

And if you see mention of my blog then blame these guys they made me do it...#shamelessplug

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Story so far...

June 24 BFPs
July 11 BFPs
August 18 BFPs
Sep 4 BFPs
Oct 7 BFPs
Nov 7 BFPs
Dec 14 BFPs

5 BFP already for jan...who is next?? 🥰

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Dollybird89 · 12/01/2021 12:51

@minster2012 he's just started out atm so just getting his head aroun the basics. He has an unlimited supply of wood from work so why not? It's good coz it keeps his mind occupied on something so not constantly stressing about money and work

Minster2012 · 12/01/2021 13:02

My RHR didn't go up when I got my BFP last year either 🤷‍♀️

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paintfairy · 12/01/2021 13:21

@blackcurrantqueen oh god. I hate the ghost stuff. I have a vivid imagination at the best of times. As we know. 🤣
@2020mission nope, I don't have tiktok either! 😆

Minster2012 · 12/01/2021 13:23

@Dollybird89 that sounds fab!

@Juno231 😱like @paintfairys bloody hell.

@Florence13 DH suggested a date night last night for every Saturday cooking together like we used to. I'm just worried he's gonna do bloody poker nights every sat 🤬😡 do maybe Friday. But I'm gonna stay on it

@blackcurrantqueen will look at that later. Not at midnight tho 😜

@notyetamumbuttrying im hoping the cramping is good! I might have to get some sausage tonight in case! I also feel a bit queasy. Eek

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InkyPaper · 12/01/2021 13:25

I think I might be out. Just started with really bad cramps, guessing AF will show up soon 😭

blackcurrantqueen · 12/01/2021 13:49

@Minster2012 I know I'm so stupid. And I was hot so I didn't have the duvet on but then I kept getting freaked something would grab my legs so instead I was sweating whilst continuing to read 😂 can't help myself

@InkyPaper noooo. Fingers crossed for phantom period pains!!!

My friends do a date night where they cook all different cuisines, I love that idea !!
I don't have tiktok but I do go on it when I can't sleep sometimes for some entertainment 😂

notyetamumbuttrying · 12/01/2021 14:05

@Minster2012 that's how I get before AF so let's hope she comes tomorrow! We can moan about pain together then lol! I always like to get a shag in before AF as well 😝 got mine on Saturday. Go get you some! 🏃‍♀️
@InkyPaper rubbish babe! Hope you're ok x
@blackcurrantqueen I have TikTok just to watch videos as well. I don't actually know how to do or post my own 😂

InkyPaper · 12/01/2021 14:56

Just came on. Feeling pretty stupid for hoping but nevermind

Kirky658 · 12/01/2021 15:29

@inkypaper I'm so sorry hunni, sending hugs and lots of fu's to AF 🤗

blackcurrantqueen · 12/01/2021 15:43

@InkyPaper

Just came on. Feeling pretty stupid for hoping but nevermind
Fuck you inkys period!! Chocolate and wine? We all do it to ourselves when we are this desperate for our little sticky beans 💕
Juno231 · 12/01/2021 15:44

@InkyPaper I'm sorry! God knows I get my hopes up every cycle too, nothing to feel silly about. This just means you're one cycle closer to your BFP xx

Florence13 · 12/01/2021 15:46

@InkyPaper so sorry to hear AF arrived

@Minster2012 yes think we might do a Friday but it also depends what shifts I’m working as I work quite a lot of weekends. Ah yes don’t let poker get in the way!!

notyetamumbuttrying · 12/01/2021 16:02

@InkyPaper sorry hun, don't feel stupid though. It's natural to think it might happen! I do it every month even with knowing Dh swimmers aren't up to the task 😂

Justanothercyster · 12/01/2021 16:40

@InkyPaper sorry lovely :( we all do it, you convince yourself and then bam. The birch arrives. Sending hugs x

Minster2012 · 12/01/2021 16:53

@blackcurrantqueen it's the whole not being able to look away!!

@InkyPaper no what the fuck. What the actual f she's not allowed to spoil the party. Thems boobs man?!! TWATFACE. Cant find the pic atm I'm afraid.

@notyetamumbuttrying yes I know!! Knowing my luck DH will be "on" tonight though 🤣😂

@Justanothercyster you get a birch too?? Doesn't that hurt?! Ouch ha ha sorry. Just lolling away here. I'll get back in my box now.

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DOB78 · 12/01/2021 17:03

@inkypaper there's nothing wrong with having hope. Everyone one of us here is hoping for something x

DOB78 · 12/01/2021 17:06

Just saw comments about RHR mine increased last month from 60 to 70 when I got my BFP. The same is happening now, I'm 3dpo. Possible coincidence? wishful thinking and keeping everything crossed 🤞🤞

paintfairy · 12/01/2021 17:12

@Juno231 Jesus christ. How incompetent are these people? Hardly reassuring.

@InkyPaper oh no I'm sorry. Mine was a day late this month and I felt the same. Really disappointing. You are bound to begin to hope!

notyetamumbuttrying · 12/01/2021 17:23

@Minster2012 haha he best not be!!
I might even come on tonight, had some horrible pains and aches, had to take two ibuprofen earlier Confused

InkyPaper · 12/01/2021 17:38

@Kirky658 @blackcurrantqueen @Juno231 @Florence13 @notyetamumbuttrying @Justanothercyster @Minster2012 @DOB78 @paintfairy thanks everyone ♥️ you're all brilliant ♥️ struggling a little right now but tomorrow is a new day and all that

Florence13 · 12/01/2021 18:01

@InkyPaper well you know we are all here for you to get you through the tough days and celebrate with you on the good!

LaceyMermaid · 12/01/2021 18:04

Hi all, I’m still here lurking but this bus goes so fast! Thought I better say hi so you don’t think I’ve abandoned you!
Sorry you’re having such a hard time @blackcurrantqueen and @Florence13
Congrats! @Kirky658
Fingers crossed that IVF isn’t cancelled for any of you @Minster2012 @notyetamumbuttrying @clolo that would be so unfair. Medical appointments do seem to be running still so hopefully it’s full steam ahead for you!
@KateColx that sounds like you’ve made a good decision, very tricky for you I bet.
Sorry for all the AF arrivals too it’s rubbish!

Florence13 · 12/01/2021 18:06

@LaceyMermaid thank you how are you doing?

Katao · 12/01/2021 18:10

Ah @InkyPaper that sucks! We were all rooting for you. Nothing to feel silly about, we've all been there. It's so convincing sometimes. I'm already telling myself that I won't get carried away this tww but give it a week and all sense will go out the window!

LaceyMermaid · 12/01/2021 18:15

@Florence13 I’m ok thanks, feeling a bit nauseous etc but that’s not what you need to hear right now!
I think in terms of trying again you just need to do what feels right? Maybe just go with the flow for a bit x

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