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Anyone who was previously on the fence about kids now back to being ambivalent after ttc issues?

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Leavingitlate · 23/12/2020 17:51

Just wondering if there's anyone else in my situation? DH always wanted kids. I was always not keen or ambivalent at best, but I finally came round to the idea in my mid 30s. However, now it's taken over 9 months of TTC and nothing, I am feeeling over it.
It was such a huge thing for me to even get off the fence and start trying, but now it's becoming an issue to TTC, I really want to give up and get my life back.

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Thenitbeginsagain · 23/12/2020 18:05

This is probably not the place for this as most of us here are going through multiple rounds of ivf after years of trying to ttc!!!! 9 months isn’t that long to ttc. If can take one year to conceive completely normally so I wouldn’t yet say you have issues ttc tbh

LilyMumsnet · 23/12/2020 18:29

Hi OP

We're just moving your thread over to the conception topic. Flowers

Leavingitlate · 23/12/2020 18:31

I see @Thenitbeginsagain. Clearly my fault for mistaking this for a forum where people could try and get support from others experiencing common issues. I am 36 and my GP considers it long enough to be concerning, but if I need to be on an IVF waiting list to be accepted on this board (not available in my area at my age) then I will just quietly s*d off then.

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Leavingitlate · 23/12/2020 18:32

@LilyMumsnet please just just take it down. I am already low and clearly only going to get vitriol.

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