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SunnydazeQ · 28/11/2020 11:02

Hello ladies

This is a continuous of our bus from Dec. Please tag anyone I may have forgotten. Here's to many Christmas BFPs 🎉🎄🎁

@gracie2307
@MgW1
@SRyellow
@Sunflowers81
@SparkyLauz
@bmeggar
@PurplePops
@Highfalutinlootin
@ACNass
@Bizawit
@Dogmum13
@Raffie13
@Cinega

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cherrypickd · 08/12/2020 13:20

Hi everyone! I haven’t checked in for a few days but hope you’re all doing well.

@Sunflowers81how exciting, I can definitely see a line there! Keeping my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏻

@ACNass I’ve been temping for 6 months now, my rise happens slowly over a few days, so for me it’s whether I see a sustained and stable rise each day for 3 days or more and then it stays elevated around that point. I’d say if your temp is above 37.35 today and then higher again tomorrow that’s a good sign you ovulated when you think you did.

I got my peak LH on Saturday (cd 15) so think I ovulated yesterday (cd 17). I got a temp rise this morning so just waiting for tomorrow’s to properly confirm. We’ve been doing SMEP for the first time this month so one more BD to go tomorrow and then it’s fingers crossed for the tww! I’m only 1 dpo and am already driving myself crazy.

TheHC · 08/12/2020 15:49

@Sunflowers81 oh wow fingers crossed for you!
I’m only 7dpo... the wait feels like forever!

What pregnancy tests are everyone using? I’m seeing the little strip tests a lot? Are they better?

MgW1 · 08/12/2020 19:47

@Cienega
Hi how are you doing , did you cave in and test?! X

Dogmum13 · 08/12/2020 23:46

How's everyone doing? I'm 8dpo and had some mild period like cramps today but not getting my hopes up. Last month threw me so much that I'm adamant I'm not symptom spotting this cycle 😬

TheHC · 09/12/2020 06:52

Hey @Dogmum13 I’m 8dpo today too, Had a little cramp yesterday but I’m putting it down to me symptom spotting too much, as last week I was convinced my boobs were sore Confused just trying to relax now.. when are you going to test for your BFP?

MgW1 · 09/12/2020 07:23

Got a slightly darker line , would have taken a pic but in a dash getting ready for work. I dont know where you ladies get your first responses from but I ordered a pack on 2 last night for £5.09 and next day delivery- thought id let you know because It sounded cheap. Il try a FRER on fri 🤞🏻xxx

Raffie13 · 09/12/2020 14:54

Hi everyone. I could do with some advice/support at the minute.

Today myself and DH found out we have about a 1 in 250 chance of having a baby with a specific genetic condition (based on our families' history). It's very rare in the general population but like I said our family histories have increased our risk.
We are going to go ahead and get blood tests done but this could take a couple months.

I'm now stuck in the dilemma of should we continue ttc? This is our second cycle (I haven't ovulated yet). I feel slightly reluctant to continue, but at the same time I don't want to wait any longer as the time is right for us. Despite my reluctance, DH thinks we would be mad to stop trying now we have started.

Any advice would be appreciated at the minute as I feel a bit knocked back!

BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 09/12/2020 15:21

@MgW1 darker line on a pregs test?! 🤗🤗

MgW1 · 09/12/2020 15:28

@BubsNumber2inTheMaking
Yes , did one 2 days ago and this morning it was easier to see! Iv ordered some FRER to try on friday a.m. AF due tomoz feeling v. Nervous about it 🤞🏻🤞🏻 xx How are you doing ?

BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 09/12/2020 15:34

@MgW1 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 this is SUPER exciting!!!! Keeping everything crossed for you for Friday! Xxx
Yeah I'm good thanks. Everything is getting really fun and Christmassy at work (albeit virtually), and it's cheered me right up. I also feel excited - either for a positive preg test or a boozy Christmas - this month feels like a win win 😄 I've still got 9 days until period is due so my mood may well have depleted by then, but I've got a lunch with my girlfriend booked in for the 18th so we can either celebrate (she knows I'm ttc), or commiserate AF with a huge glass of vin!x

BubsNumber2inTheMaking · 09/12/2020 15:41

Awww @Raffie13 that is a really tough call for you and I can completely understand why you'd feel torn. Are you sure bloods will take that long? I've had a couple in the last few months (for different things) and I got results within 24hrs. If it was me, I might just put it on hold this month because it's Christmas anyway. Then reassess in the new year. At least you'll know how long blood test wait will be by that stage and likely before your next window of ttc.
On the other hand, if you do decide to just crack on, 1 in 250 is a pretty tiny chance. You've just got to go with your gut xx

Rhodxb · 09/12/2020 16:18

A few days before my period is due and I've given in and tested a few times! All negative so looks like not a case of first time lucky for me sadly! 😢 at least it means a boozy Christmas is on the cards though! 🍷

TTCbabytattie · 09/12/2020 16:44

AF due tomorrow :-( Tested this morning and got a BFN... :-( I think I'm out.

Raffie13 · 09/12/2020 17:27

@BubsNumber2inTheMaking thanks for getting back to me!

I think the reason it's going to take so long is because they have to refer us to our GP to take our bloods, then send it to a hospital where they have my family members DNA stored (sounds creepy!) and then send them all together to another hospital to get them analysed.

I'm in such a dilemma as my DH is happy to do whatever (wait or continue) so the decision now is on me.

I might make a post about it and see if anyone's been through similar 🤦🏻‍♀️

Rhodxb · 09/12/2020 17:52

Sorry to hear that @TTCbabytattie 😢 not out til you're out though! 🤞

Dogmum13 · 10/12/2020 00:54

@TheHC I don't test unless late. I just wait to see if af shows up 🙂 this is cycle 13 for me so couldn't cope with testing every month

MgW1 · 10/12/2020 08:23

Approx 14 dpo , looks pretty positive to me? I have never felt so dizzy and light headed in my life as I have done this week!!

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Dogmum13 · 10/12/2020 08:49

@MgW1 yes definitely! Congratulations 😁😁 do you mind if I ask how long you've been trying for?

Sunflowers81 · 10/12/2020 09:00

Yes yes yayyyyy! 👏🏻 🎉
Congratulations @MgW1 on your bfp!
Sorry to hear you are dizzy and lightheaded! I bet it's reassuring to have symptoms though. Have you had any others? X

SRyellow · 10/12/2020 09:09

Amazing!! Congratulations @MgW1! X

SunnydazeQ · 10/12/2020 09:14

@MgW1 woohoo!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 so happy for you and such good news 💞 See you didn't need to trade in hubby for a younger version after all LOL

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SunnydazeQ · 10/12/2020 09:15

@Raffie13 so sorry to hear about your situation. Sending a big hug your way. Can I ask whether you or hubby were also considered a 1 in 250 chance. I guess you might not know so it is a possibility that was the case?

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SunnydazeQ · 10/12/2020 09:16

@Sunflowers81 and how are you doing? Are you getting excited about testing tomorrow? Any symptoms on your end? How exciting 🙌

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SunnydazeQ · 10/12/2020 09:17

@SRyellow and @gracie2307 how are you both doing? How's your TWW going?

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MgW1 · 10/12/2020 09:19

@Sunflowers81
Bigger and more veiny boobs!!! Had a couple of headaches xx