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Aunt Flo 4 days late but negative test?

38 replies

Mikamee · 27/11/2020 17:33

I'm so confused, my period is usually like clockwork but this month it's currently 4 days late. Anyone else experienced this and it's turned out they were pregnant after all?

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Foundmyfeet · 30/11/2020 13:30

@SusanaDayana - I know what you mean by the "smell" also! Lol! Certainly not a lovely floral like smell! Sorry to hear about your MC's also.
@Em39ma - I'm slightly older than you so I know the feeling of urgency and time pressures. Bloody men don't have to worry about this!
@hopingforhappiness92 - Lol! I think the same way about the whole schooling/birth thing! But I would just love to have a summer baby. My DD is November and I'm December and have always dreamed of having a bouncy castle/bbq birthday to celebrate in the sunshine! Have you stopped spotting? Or has that bth AF shown up?! Lol!

ChateauMargaux · 30/11/2020 14:44

@Foundmyfeet.. sorry to hear you talk about your losses. These are hard to bear.

I wonder if your 14 year old daughter has anything to do with your late period. For 33 years I had regular period and this month... 3 weeks late.. my daughter has started her period this week. Just a thought.

hopingforhappiness92 · 30/11/2020 17:54

That's funny, everyone in my family seems to have a summer birthday, we've got 3 just in one week of July.

Still spotting and a few cramps today so no doubt AF will have reared her ugly head by tomorrow 🙄.

Foundmyfeet · 30/11/2020 17:56

@ChateauMargaux - I think you have a point! Because AF arrived for both of us the same morning! She started her period 2 years ago and I've noticed very recently that our cycles are seemingly alike but this month is the first time we started on the same day. My poor DH is surrounded by PMS!!

Foundmyfeet · 30/11/2020 18:00

@hopingforhappiness92 about 90% of my family is in September! It's a killer month on my purse!
We literally have 1 in June, 1 in July and 1 in August and they all live abroad anyway!
I would've been due in July with the pregnancy that ended up as an MMC. I was so happy! In my head I'd already planned it's first birthday in the garden! Lol! At this stage in the game though, I can't be picky. Any season of the year will do!

Em39ma · 01/12/2020 08:12

I’m out for this month.
Felt a pop in my low tummy womb area about 10.30 last, went to the toilet and a rush of blood and clots.
So not sure what it’s about, maybe a chemical?
Back to TTC in a few days

SusanaDayana · 01/12/2020 08:50

@Em39ma I’m sorry that it didn’t happen for you this month. Does seem strange how you felt a pop and the rush of blood. It could be a chemical, I’ve had one before. Two weeks to go and have another try 🙂.

I tasted again this morning with a BFN. I am almost certain I am not pregnant since it should show by now. likely I’m also with a late cycle or chemical.

Baby dust to us all for lucky December.

hopingforhappiness92 · 01/12/2020 17:26

@Em39ma Oh no I'm sorry. I don't know much about chemical pregnancies, did you ever get a faint positive?

Still no af for me today just spotting again. Wish it would hurry up

Em39ma · 01/12/2020 17:52

No, no positives. But I didn’t with my daughter until around 7 weeks.
They said it was because my hcg was very high. They thought she might be twins.
I have to test in the late morning afternoon, if I test in the morning they are always bfn.

SusanaDayana · 02/12/2020 14:01

I tested again this morning with FRER and got a BFN. Been feeling slight cramps but nothing yet of AF.

I think this means it's a no for me. It's a little sad but I suppose better to wait until my body recovers from my last pregnancy. So annoying that AF still hasn't shown. I should defiantly be getting a positive at this point, especially with FRER. I can assume I may have ovulated as late as the 21st of November, but I think that would still have shown by now no? What are your thoughts?

SusanaDayana · 03/12/2020 12:16

AF has come today. I think it is ok, I need to let my body recover and I'll wait until next year.

Em39ma · 03/12/2020 21:10

That’s what we’ve decided. Go into next with hope and wishes.

Foundmyfeet · 03/12/2020 21:11

@SusanaDayana - oh I'm sorry that AF came today. But yes, I think you are right in allowing your body time to recover and also to just give your mind a minute too. Christmas is coming so enjoy the festivities and start again in the new year. New year=new start. Sending lots of baby dust x

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