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Anyone else ttc no 3 after a big age gap?

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dippyegg32 · 18/10/2020 15:11

My daughters are 10.5 and 6.5 so this to me feels a relatively big gap like I'm a newbie to all of this!

Just waiting for my period to finish then we'll be on cycle one. I'm 32, dh is 40. Anyone want to join me?

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Tinkertailor88 · 18/10/2020 15:27

Haha I’m going for a MUCH bigger age gap. I was far too young first marriage and I have 18 and 14 year old sons but now ttc with their step dad. Don’t know why I’m so bothered by it but it does worry me doing it all again. Equally super excited to experience parenthood all over again with my true soulmate! I’m 36 he’s 44 but we’re actually having a few issues as I’ve been diagnosed with abnormally thin uterine lining. Annoying but we just have to see what happens once I start my meds. I don’t think yours are too big an age gap. Exactly the same ages and me and my siblings were and it was perfect we loved it! Good luck I hope you don’t have too long to wait :)

dippyegg32 · 18/10/2020 15:30

Wow super exciting!! Good luck to you!

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WitchSharkadder · 18/10/2020 15:31

Thats pretty much the age gap I had @dippyegg32. Had 2, thought we were done and then a verify moment 7 years later made me have DC3. It was weird starting again but lovely too. So much less overwhelming then you're first as you k ow what you're doing and the bonus of having proper baby time again when the older ones are at school (well, until DC4 surprised me and I went back to the exhausting baby and toddler stage).

Best of luck!

WitchSharkadder · 18/10/2020 15:32

*broody moment! No idea how that autocorrect happened!

WitchSharkadder · 18/10/2020 15:34

Ah, that whole post is a mess grammar-wise! Apologies, I'm shivering in a park while said DC climb and my fingers are too cold to type properly! Hopefully you get the gist Grin

dippyegg32 · 18/10/2020 16:04

How lovely @WitchSharkadder Smile

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dippyegg32 · 20/10/2020 07:40

Morning all, I've just done my first lh test, I'm only cd6 and I got excited, suffice to say it was negative but here it begins!

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Praying4aRainbow · 20/10/2020 09:04

Hey! I'm currently ttc number 3,my daughter is 10 and son is nearly 8 😊

Idreamof2more · 20/10/2020 11:49

Hi I’m ttc baby number 3. I have 2 ds ages 15 & 4 so know all about the huge gap. Had a few loses so praying this is my month xxx

ILookAtTheFloor · 20/10/2020 12:42

Yes me!

My eldest is 10 in Jan and my youngest is 5 in two weeks. I wasn't fussed about another but DH wanted to have another and now I'm desperate to conceive 😂 my eldest was a happy accident, I was only 23. My youngest we were ttc for 2 months.

This is our 3rd month without contraception but our first month of properly trying. In fertile window at the moment. DH is 43 and I'm 33, I'm worried about DH's age.

dippyegg32 · 21/10/2020 09:35

Hi all!

It's only cd7 for me but I've had a flashing smiley on the clear blue ovulation. That seems really early, indicates I'll ovulate on cd9? Hmm we've dtd this morning though

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lobster8 · 21/10/2020 11:59

Can I join in? I have a 4.5 year old DD with my exH and trying to conceive number 2 with my new partner. I guess it's not a huge gap, but I definitely feel out of the loop if TTC and babies generally. Excited and nervous currently!

This is my first cycle trying, but just just stopped the pill. Had my withdraw bleed 24/9 and think I may have ovulated around the 9/10th Which would make me around 11/12 dpo. However I didn't use OPKs or anything and am only basing it on having a bit of EWCM then. Could be my cycle is totally off this month having just stopped the pill and may or may not have ovulated yet! Dtd every 2-3 days so should cover whenever ovulation does occur...

dippyegg32 · 22/10/2020 08:06

Morning! How are you all? Cd8 and day 2 of flashing smiley for me!

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Idreamof2more · 22/10/2020 08:19

Day 5 of flashing smiley for me!!! Can’t keep dtd 😫 xx

dippyegg32 · 24/10/2020 07:38

Fourth flashing smiley Hmm cd10 here. How you all doing?

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dippyegg32 · 26/10/2020 06:43

I'm over dtd! Grin
Flashing smileys cd7-10 dtd three times in those days
Fixed smiley cd11/12 dtd another three times

The wait begins...

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ILookAtTheFloor · 26/10/2020 06:53

That's very good going! We managed 3 days in a row just before ov. Last one was a struggle for DH 😂 I'm 4dpo now.

Hate the wait, particularly week one of the TWW.

dippyegg32 · 26/10/2020 07:23

Yes dh took a while to err finish the last time he was like "shit I'm tired" GrinGrin

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lastbany · 26/10/2020 08:34

@dippyegg32 hi there my children are 17/12 and we had our big age gap baby she is now 10 months! And I'm desperate for another! Quickly lol 3 mo th of trying due to ovulate 4 days :)

dippyegg32 · 26/10/2020 12:34

Exciting all round!
I'm due on 6th

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TickleThePickle · 26/10/2020 12:37

I am ttc no 3- I have a 13yr old and a 12 yr old. Sometimes I think we are nuts especially with how the world is right now. We have been trying for quite a while so I think there might be a problem somewhere unfortunately. Dp has been checked and all was well so now I am waiting for tests.

dippyegg32 · 05/11/2020 17:40

I got a bfp today GrinGrin

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Idreamof2more · 05/11/2020 19:38

Hi @dippyegg32 that’s amazing ! Congrats I got a faint positive yesterday and 2 bfn today at 9/10 dpo x

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